Alyson’s 3/30 Tarot：改變 Change (1-57)
問題：我的未來日記第一週的主題
抽牌：Eight of Worlds Change 改變
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今日夢想實現：煮了一鍋湯圓，花了一小時散步，和朋友聊一下午
從內心萌了芽，在腦海裡顯化，畫出了好幾多燦爛美麗盛開的花。
在行動後實現，在日子裡綻放，只因自己堅定不移往前進的步伐。
「3分鐘未來日記」
「3分鐘未來日記」這本書傳授用正向的，正確的，直接的，直白的，優美的文字寫「過去式語法」的未來日記，讓人可以一天天地越來越接近夢想，進而實現。
夢想
我認為每個人都有不只一個夢想。
當還是個學生時，關於課業成績，關於友情，甚至關於愛情，每一面向都有想要的成果。
後來成為了上班族，關於工作，同事，愛情，甚至與主管間的關係，更是複雜，想要的樣子，又更多了。
不管是哪方面的夢想，大部分都是為了活出自己想要的模樣和生活的景象。
也許關於金錢，關於中樂透，關於生活。
我想透過「3分鐘未來日記」教導的方法，一天一天將自己的夢想能夠更為聚焦，更為具體。
有具體的夢想，才知道要朝哪個方向前進，才能明白中間要做那些努力與成就什麼事情。
當然，這個夢想不是〝小幸運〞，是大計畫，是攸關生活、未來，甚至是人生的。
就因為是大夢想，所以更須嚴謹一些，計畫周詳一些，衡量周密一些。
第一週主題：改變
第一週的主題是『改變Change』。
改變什麼呢？
改變與夢想之間的關係是什麼？
大多時候，夢想沒能實現，不是因外務、旁人干擾導致，主要關鍵因素都是在於自己。
我們的內心不夠堅定，不夠強韌，不夠具有熱血奔向夢想的勇氣。
我們會膽怯，會猶豫，會猶疑，會無法肯定。
堅信，很少是會被刻意培養的信念。
這，確實有點可惜。
就是因未來不確定，沒人敢承諾，即使是對自己。
堅持，不移，多難的理想，多高的志向。
變化，是自然，如春、夏、秋、冬。
改變，是天性，如變色龍，蛇蛻皮，毛毛蟲蛻變成蝶。
羽化，是改變的最美呈現。
變化與改變，不是要整個重頭翻過一遍。
改變的是心智能量更強大，不變的是實現夢想的中心思想。
變化的是精神氣力更專注，不變的是朝向夢想的堅定步伐。
調整與彈性，鬆弛緊度，張力有律，在朝夢的路上，不因一時過於高昂的士氣，消耗掉過多的熱忱，造成很快得就把熱情燃燒殆盡，最終熄滅，變成了夢一場。
我們的改變，得從心底挖掘，翻動，辨明與丟棄。
把心裡的土，整理整理。
撿拾起石頭，挖掘出垃圾，一併丟棄，如同毛毛蟲蛻變成蝴蝶後，原先保護的蛹，也就不再適用，帶不走，拉不起，那就放下吧。
蝴蝶的翅膀，那樣輕薄，那樣輕盈。
這是不能承載太多的負擔。
瞻前顧後，朝夢的路上窒礙難行。
朝三暮四，朝夢的路上難定羅盤。
心中的度量衡，審思忖度，分辨明白，什麼該珍惜，什麼該拋卻了。
有時候的拋下，不能說是冷情無心。
細想，一生能同舟共濟有幾人。
如此，也就能以較為淡然態度去想那些一個個的人生過客了。
改變，要改變什麼呢？
你想好了嗎？
Alyson's 3/30 Tarot: Change
Question: Theme for the first week of my future diary.
Card drawn: Eight of Worlds – Change
Achieved Today's Dream: Cooked a pot of glutinous rice balls, spent an hour walking, and chatted with friends all afternoon.
A seed sprouts from within, manifesting in the mind, painting a picture of numerous brilliant blooms.
Realized through action, blossoming in the days, all because of the unwavering steps forward.
"3-Minute Future Diary"
"3-Minute Future Diary" This book teaches how to write a future diary using positive, correct, direct, straightforward, and beautiful language in the past tense, allowing one to gradually approach and achieve dreams day by day.
Dreams
Dreams I believe everyone has more than one dream.
As a student, there are desires for academic success, friendships, and even love.
Later, as a working adult, desires regarding work, colleagues, love, and even relationships with supervisors become more complex, with more things desired.
Regardless of the aspect of dreams, most are about living the life and having the appearance one desires.
Perhaps about money, winning the lottery, or life itself.
I want to use the method taught by the "3-Minute Future Diary" to focus and make my dreams more concrete day by day.
With specific dreams, one knows which direction to move in and understands the efforts and achievements required along the way.
Of course, this dream is not just a "small stroke of luck"; it's a big plan that affects life, the future, and even one's entire existence.
Because it's a big dream, it needs to be more rigorous in planning, more detailed in execution, and more thorough in evaluation.
Theme of the First Week: Change
The theme of the first week is "Change."
What changes?
What is the relationship between change and dreams?
Most of the time, dreams remain unrealized not because of external factors or interference from others but primarily due to oneself.
Our inner selves lack firmness, resilience, and the courage to passionately pursue dreams.
We become timid, hesitant, doubtful, and unable to affirm.
Belief, rarely, is something deliberately cultivated.
This, indeed, is a bit regrettable.
It's because the future is uncertain, no one dares to promise, even to oneself. Persistence, unwavering, ideals in adversity, lofty aspirations.
Change is natural, like the seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter.
Change is innate, like a chameleon, shedding skin, or a caterpillar metamorphosing into a butterfly.
Metamorphosis is the most beautiful presentation of change.
Change and transformation don't mean starting over entirely.
What changes is the mental strength becoming stronger, while the unchanging aspect is the central idea of realizing dreams.
What changes is the spiritual focus becoming more concentrated, while the unchanging aspect is the steadfast steps towards dreams.
Adjustment and flexibility, loosening and tightening, maintaining tension in rhythm, on the path to dreams, not allowing overly high spirits to consume too much enthusiasm too quickly, causing the flames of passion to burn out rapidly and ultimately extinguish, turning into mere dreams.
Our change needs to be excavated from the depths of our hearts, overturned, discerned, and discarded.
Tidy up the soil in our hearts.
Pick up stones, dig out trash, and discard them all, just like after a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly, the cocoon that once protected it is no longer useful, so let it go.
The butterfly's wings are so delicate, so light.
They cannot bear too much burden.
Hesitation and hesitation make the path to dreams difficult.
Indecision makes the compass on the path to dreams uncertain.
The measure in our hearts, thoughtful consideration, discernment, understanding what should be cherished and what should be let go.
Sometimes letting go cannot be said to be cold-hearted.
Consider how many people can accompany us through life.
In this way, one can think of those transient guests of life with a more indifferent attitude.
What do you want to change?
Have you decided?