2024 0830 給馨的祝福：衝浪者 Surfer
2024 0830 給馨的祝福：衝浪者 Surfer
馨 ~
妳說自己害羞內向，可我卻覺得妳很勇敢，妳希望可以突破原來的樣子，希望自己在喜歡的人面前，可以自在一些。
當看到喜歡的人時，妳會不自覺臉紅，心跳會跳很快，講話會變得結結巴巴的，看來，妳的紅鸞星很是興奮、開心呀。
有喜歡的人，是一件很棒的事情。
面對喜歡的人，舉足無措，那是暗戀的美麗，曾有個作家說，關於愛情，她最喜歡的是曖昧的階段，就是感覺有意卻無心，有時卻變成是像是有心卻無意。
會注意對方的所有，包含情緒反應。
看著對方，不管是怎樣的神情，都自帶濾鏡得覺得真好看。
妳說，從認識之後，他蠻常約妳一起出門，且每次雙方之間都很有話可以聊。
我感覺對方，對妳也是有那麼一點意思的。
在在意的人面前，不管是誰，都是舉促不安，沒有自信，直到確認彼此關係後，才能慢慢地相處自在，自然，到默契十足，身上有著對方的影子。
我鼓勵妳可以藉由即將到來的中秋節，讓自己的情感多表達一些出來。可妳拒絕了，妳說，沒有勇氣，怕會變得尷尬，也擔心著對方不是有著同樣奔赴的心情，那就困窘了。
而妳還沒準備好面對結果，不管是開心還是難過。
套句我最近課程的老師很喜歡說的話 ~ 人，不管做什麼事情，怎麼舒服自在怎麼來。
這位老師是深圳人，所以用詞跟我們不太一樣，但不覺這句話很有舒適坦然的味道嗎？！
我不只喜歡這句，也非常認同，所以當下就跟妳分享。
不急，想怎麼做，都好；想用怎樣的步伐前進，都好。
唯有妳自己自在了，在感情的水到渠成中，才更能享受愛情的甜與蜜，喜悅與幸福。
為馨的愛情加油打氣，送給馨的塔羅祝福：【衝浪者 Surfer】。
來自宇宙的訊息，希望馨能夠勇敢一些，像個孩子，自然自在的表達自己的情感和喜歡的心情。壓抑，會讓妳更加不知所措，相對的，將情感表露出來，可以享受到情感奔騰時的喜悅與暢快，熱情與興奮。當然我們無法確定對方的心意，不過，我們也知道，沒有讓對方知道，若對方也是消極被動的個性，那結果就有可能會讓人覺得可惜了。
Blessings to Xin on 2024-08-30: Surfer
Xin,
You say you are shy and introverted, but I think you are very brave. You want to break out of your shell and be more at ease in front of the person you like.
When you see the person you like, you can’t help but blush, your heart beats faster, and your words become stuttered. It seems your romantic star is quite excited and happy. Having someone you like is a wonderful thing. Feeling lost and clumsy in front of them is the beauty of a secret crush. A writer once said that what she loves most about love is the ambiguous phase, when it feels like there is intent without intention, and sometimes, it seems like there is intention without intent. You notice everything about the other person, including their emotional responses. No matter what expression they have, they always seem to look good through your eyes.
You mentioned that since you met, he often invites you to go out, and you always have a lot to talk about together. I feel that he also has a bit of interest in you. In front of someone who matters, everyone feels uneasy and lacks confidence until the relationship is confirmed. Only then can you slowly feel at ease and natural with each other, reaching a point of deep understanding, with traces of each other in your lives.
I encourage you to express your feelings more during the upcoming Mid-Autumn Festival. But you declined, saying you didn't have the courage and were afraid it might become awkward. You’re also worried that he might not share the same feelings, which would be embarrassing. You’re not ready to face the outcome, whether it's happiness or sadness.
As my recent course instructor often says, "Whatever makes you feel comfortable and at ease, just do it." This instructor is from Shenzhen, so their wording is a bit different from ours, but doesn’t this phrase have a comfortable and straightforward feeling to it?! I not only like this phrase but also strongly agree with it, so I immediately shared it with you. There’s no rush. Whatever you want to do is fine; whatever pace you want to move at is fine. Only when you feel at ease can you truly enjoy the sweetness and joy, the happiness and fulfillment of a relationship that naturally unfolds.
Cheering for Xin’s love, here’s a tarot blessing for you: The Surfer. The message from the universe hopes that Xin can be a bit braver, like a child, naturally and freely expressing her emotions and feelings. Repressing them will only make you feel more at a loss. On the contrary, expressing your feelings allows you to enjoy the joy and exhilaration of emotions running wild, the passion and excitement. Of course, we can't be sure of the other person's feelings, but we also know that if we don't let the other person know, and if the other person is also passive and reserved, the outcome might be regrettable.
