2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation
給迷茫中的可欣 ~
迷茫是人生中一定會遇到的坎，可出現還不只一次。
一開始我確實以為想聊這話題的妳，可能才剛從學校畢業沒有多久。
妳擁有敏銳的直覺，馬上告訴我妳是一位30歲的大女孩，然後又馬上反應出對這樣的年紀還對未來是沒有方向的，覺害羞，不好意思。
若年紀是標準，那現在半百的我，對於接下來還在找尋方向，確認目標，不就得自我羞愧而亡了。
不應該這樣思考的。
年紀，累積了經驗，增添了智慧，突破了困難，並不是就代表接下來就一帆風順的。
人生無論何時都常會遇到需要思考，需要適應調整的局面。
誰幾歲遇到什麼事情，這也沒有一定的公式可套入，畢竟，人生的軌跡不會重疊，不會一致，只有類似，卻又不盡相同。
請宇宙送給妳的祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【停滯 Stagnation】。
有點遺憾，可這樣也好。
跟妳聊天過程中，確實有發現妳沒有很專心，同時間可能還在進行其他的事情，甚至也許我們的對話內容沒能吸引住妳的注意力，所以妳的回覆和回應都是簡短的語句，感覺有點在應付我而已。
若真是這樣的情形，那真是蠻可惜的。妳錯過了我的金玉良言，錯失了我經驗的分享，錯開了我識人、讀人的到位剖析。
也許就是因為如此，即使經過聊天後，妳還沒懂得現在所處的問題核心是什麼，所以妳被困住了，無法行動，無法前進。
認知沒有打破，意念沒有形成，沒有因緣俱足的能量，也就造成窒礙難行的情景。
想改變，需打自內心。
這是我個人經驗打磨出來的結論。
很多話，不需說出口。
因妳要說服的人是妳自己。
靜下心，好好思考。想要什麼，適合什麼，只有自己最清楚，旁人所說的，只會是建議，只能是僅供參考而已。
2024/11/20 To Kexin: Stagnation
To the lost Kexin ~
Feeling lost is an inevitable part of life, and it’s something we’ll encounter more than once.
Initially, I thought that someone who wanted to discuss this topic might have
just graduated from school. But your keen intuition quickly corrected me,
revealing that you are a 30-year-old young woman. Then, almost instantly, you
shared a sense of embarrassment and unease about still feeling directionless at
your age.
If age were the benchmark, then I, at almost 50, would have to drown in shame for still searching for direction and clarifying my goals.
But this is not the way to think.
Age accumulates experiences, adds wisdom, and helps us overcome challenges—but
it doesn’t guarantee smooth sailing ahead. Life, at any stage, often presents
situations requiring deep thought, adaptation, and adjustment.
There’s no fixed formula for when and what kind of challenges one might face.
Life paths don’t overlap or align perfectly; they’re only similar yet uniquely
distinct.
The Tarot card drawn for you, as a blessing from the universe, is Stagnation.
It’s a little disappointing, but perhaps it’s a good thing.
During our conversation, I noticed that your attention wasn’t entirely focused. Perhaps you were multitasking, or maybe our discussion didn’t capture your full interest. Your responses were brief, almost as if you were merely humoring me.
If that’s the case, it’s truly a pity.
You missed my pearls of wisdom, my shared experiences, and my sharp insights
into understanding and analyzing people. Perhaps that’s why, even after our
chat, you still don’t grasp the core issue of your current situation. You
remain stuck, unable to act or move forward.
When
your understanding hasn’t shifted, your mindset hasn’t formed, and the
necessary energy hasn’t come together, obstacles arise, and progress is
hindered.
To create change, it must come from deep within your heart.
This conclusion is one I’ve honed from my own experiences.
Many things don’t need to be said aloud.
After all, the person you need to convince is yourself.
Take
a moment to quiet your mind and think deeply.
What do you truly want? What suits you best?
Only you can know these answers. What others say are merely suggestions—for
reference, and nothing more.