2月的第一天，今日牌卡：駕馭者

2月的第一天，今日牌卡：駕馭者 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/135479908 有朋友邀請我去她居遊地待一些時間 這在過去讓我心動但不會成真的提議 以往考量的因素已不再 … 已不再 … 我想驛動的那顆心也沉寂 … 明白了從頭到尾是自己鎖住了自己 清楚知道是自己膽怯只敢縮在圈圈裡 從來沒人攔住想跨越出去的那雙腳 是自己給自己畫了個圈成了個牢 駕馭自己的心 駕馭自己的人生 駕馭自己不管在哪都逍遙 A friend invited me to stay at her place for some time. In the past, this suggestion would have excited me, but it never materialized. The factors that used to hold me back are no longer present... no longer... The once vibrant heart now lies silent. I understand that I have been the one restraining myself from the beginning to the end. I am aware that it is my own timidity that kept me confined within a circle. No one has ever hindered the feet that wanted to step beyond. I drew a circle for myself, turning it into a prison. Taking control of my own heart. Taking control of my own life. Guiding myself to freedom no matter where I am. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Alyson #Surfer #Cups #塔羅 #捕夢人 #駕馭者 #情緒 #聖杯

Alyson’s 2/11 Tarot：感受者

Alyson’s 2/11 Tarot：感受者 我希望 我能夠 別想太多彎彎繞繞的心情 像孩子般就是直接感受 可我也知道 不能有孩子氣 不能甩脾氣 不能任性 對我來說 感受者是接收者 接收著一切 不管是陰晴圓缺 不管是風和日麗還是狂風暴雨 我覺得抽到了”感受者”這張牌 要小心，一切剛好就好 過多或過少 過高或過低 都是難以負荷的難過 I hope I can simply feel without overthinking, like a child who experiences things directly. But I also know I can't be childish, can't throw tantrums, can't be unreasonable. For me, being the receiver of feelings means accepting everything, whether it's sunny or stormy, whether it's calm or turbulent. I feel like I drew the "feeler" card, so I need to be careful. Everything needs to be just right; too much or too little, too high or too low, is all unbearable sadness. #Feeler #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #聖杯 #情緒 #感受者

2024 0314 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0314 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/143397280 宇宙發出提醒了喔 ~ 要適時均衡分配、發展 工作各個面向，該有進度的，該趕上的，要努力了 均衡的飲食，各種營養素，缺一，身體就辛苦了 均衡的生活，認真打拼很需要，適度休息更需要，家人要關心，朋友要關懷，自己要關照。 擠出時間，動一動。 今天才週四，還有時間調整一下。 這週的天氣可以說是”均衡”的最好說明了 ~ 有下雨天，有太陽天。 有陰冷天，有風大天。 還有我們最愛的周末假日天。 今日有朋友說，聽我說話的語調，感受我說話時的精氣神，又比上次大聊特聊更好了。 有時自己以為的放下，在談話時，旁人很容易就察覺真實為何。 有時自己以為的走過，在聊天時，旁人很輕易就明白確實為何。 有時，聽聽別人怎麼說，也是很不錯的。 那是自己沒有，也輕忽了，沒有注意到的自己。 多認識自己，了解自己，很好。 這樣才更能好好地照顧好自己。挺好。 "The universe is sending a reminder: it's important to balance and develop various aspects of our lives. Whatever needs progress, whatever needs catching up, we must strive for it. A balanced diet with all necessary nutrients is essential; lacking any, the body suffers. A balanced life entails dedicated efforts in work, adequate rest, care for family, concern for friends, and self-care. Make time, get moving. It's only Thursday today, still time for adjustments. This week's weather serves as a perfect example of 'balance'—rainy days, sunny days, chilly days, windy days, and our beloved weekend holiday. A friend mentioned today that my tone and energy in conversation were even better than our last extensive chat. Sometimes, what we think we've let go of is easily noticed by others during conversation. Sometimes, what we think we've overcome is understood by others quite effortlessly in conversation. Listening to others is beneficial too. It reveals aspects of ourselves we may have overlooked. Understanding and getting to know oneself better is crucial. Only then can we truly take care of ourselves. That's great." #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Equilibrium #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #均衡 #聖杯 #情緒

Alyson’s 3/12 Tarot：失望 Disappointment

Alyson’s 3/12 Tarot：失望 Disappointment 問題：報名學習課程，能有好的學習成果嗎 抽牌：Five of Cups 失望 Disappointment 閱讀： 抽到了”失望”這張塔羅牌。 宇宙說，失望，是情感抓住不放的期望落差。 真是貼切又寫實，一句道盡失望的心情及造成的原因。 「下」，有降、落、跌的涵義，總帶有點輸的感覺。 股價下跌，降職，都不是讓人開心的。 「下」，也有踏實的延伸感。 下山，從山頂裊裊雲霧的曲高寒寡往山下走入人間繁華及生活。 下樓，從一扇門的走出，有”出發”的心情。 大家說，過去，不可追，未來，不可數，唯有當下。 腦及心，活在當時，當場，當下，這是務實，珍視人生的極致體現。 就如同，享受打開禮物時，無預期心的高興及喜悅。 日子，可期待，但不要設定期盼。 目標，可設定，但不要設想期望。 計畫，可執行，但不要設限期許。 I drew the "Disappointment" tarot card. The universe says that disappointment is the gap between expectation and reality, where emotions cling and refuse to let go. It's remarkably apt and realistic, succinctly capturing the feeling of disappointment and its underlying causes. The word "下down" (xià) in Chinese carries meanings of descent, decline, and a sense of loss. Stock prices dropping, demotions—it's never a cause for celebration. Yet "下 down" also suggests a grounded extension. Descending a mountain from its misty summit into the vibrant world below, or stepping out of a doorway with a sense of departure—it's about moving forward with a sense of purpose. People say the past is unattainable, the future is uncertain, only the present is within our grasp. Living in the moment, both mentally and emotionally, is pragmatic and the ultimate expression of cherishing life. It's like the unexpected joy and excitement when unwrapping a gift. While we can anticipate the days ahead, let's not set expectations. We can set goals, but let's not form expectations around them. Plans can be executed, but let's not impose restrictive expectations. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Disappointment #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #失望 #聖杯 #情緒

20天斷捨離計畫，找出從未發現的問題及啟動新生活模式～（上）

#斷捨離 #清除 #盲點 2024年的春天，一時興起，開始了「20天斷捨離計畫」。「20天斷捨離計畫」改編自30天斷捨離計畫，原內容和目標是30天內丟掉1-30項物品，例如第1天丟1項、第2天丟2項，一共要執行一個月，頗具挑戰性。自認物品已經很少，又不想壓力太大，刻意降低難度，修改為上限20項物品，每完成一筆，就在紙上塗滿顏色。 執行過程中，出乎意料地順利達標，甚至丟掉超過預期的物品，發現了以前沒有注意到的問題。本次文章想分享忽略已久的盲點及未來想嘗試的生活型態。 ❤️‍🩹 盲點1：捨不得立刻使用好物品 本次計畫中，常遇見「沒穿幾次/沒用到/沒吃完，壽命就到了」的情況，雖然感覺很可惜，卻不得不丟棄，包含名牌防水雨靴、國外帶回的油醋、超高貴的面膜等，真是心痛不已。 舉例來說，名牌防水雨靴是英國留學期間，特地連同大鞋盒運回台灣，所費不貲購入不提，高昂的運費著實讓口袋空空好一陣子。後續總覺得雨靴太貴、捨不得穿，明明處於多雨的城市，卻一年穿不到5次，最近的梅雨季取出時，赫然發現橡膠鞋面全是裂痕，走到半路更是悲慘地開口笑，不得不淘汰。 好不容易存錢買的高貴面膜也是類似狀況，專櫃面膜的定價比開架品牌高出10倍，狠下心結帳後，想等到最重要的日子使用，長年收在櫃子裡，等久了竟然就忘了。這次斷捨離找出全新未開封卻過期的面膜，對自己無語外，都過期2年也不好硬要敷臉，只能忍痛跟它說再見。 這些好物的犧牲，證明了不論再怎麼好、再怎麼新的物品，如果不使用，總有一天會因為折舊、保存期限等因素，變得一文不值，甚至不得不丟掉，同時也點醒了「捨不得對自己好」的盲點，一直盲目囤貨、不使用物品，反而無法發揮出該物最大的功用，造成更大的浪費。 ❤️‍🩹 盲點2：過於念舊，導致物品的數量超出預期 「這是學生時期的文件，要留起來」、「以前最愛用的畫筆，不能丟」、「這件衣服陪我走過好多國家耶」這些念頭在本次計畫中，出現非常非常多次，差點就讓計畫失敗，好在還是狠下心清理。 這類型的物品，在近藤麻理惠的「怦然心動整理法」中，歸類為「紀念品」。執行計畫第1周，重新檢視物品時，察覺因為「懷念」而留存6年以上沒動過的物品，超乎想像的多。不但有大量影印資料、發霉的書、開岔的畫筆，甚至有超過20年的削鉛筆機等，每一項都積了厚厚的灰塵，完全沒動過，怪不得再怎麼拖地，呼吸道問題始終沒改善。 透過清理紀念品，認識自己「過於念舊」的問題，只要對該物有一點點回憶或是感情時，即使不如以往心動，或明知一輩子再也不會去翻閱，也會固執要留下，留下後又不好好保存，任由其蒙灰，進而造成健康或更多的問題，消耗身體也消耗精神。 ❤️‍🩹 盲點3：明知不會用的物品，還是收下了 有些物品的定位很尷尬，從來沒用過、又不敢隨便丟，相信人人都有吧！那就是「別人送的不合心意的禮物」。朋友送的名牌包包和鞋子，即使風格不符、磨破腳，也不好直接丟掉，這次從衣櫃深處挖出2個久到都忘了的包包和鞋子等，怎麼背、怎麼穿都不順眼，一番傷腦筋後，還是將它們淘汰了。 回想當時朋友送禮的情況，當下就有感覺：「這些物品的風格不屬於我」，礙於情面，還是收下了，可想而知，風格迥異的單品，不論品質再好、名牌光環再大，不會用就是不會用，久了還會變成一種煩惱，不知道要留要扔。 其實，當下已經察覺到「不心動」，就應該自信地認同自己的感覺，這使我再次察覺內心的問題：害怕失去朋友，不敢不收下送的物品，導致未來的日子多了無謂的煩惱。對於人際關係，除了不自信外，還出現了卑微的盲點，總會懷疑自己是不是一個不夠義氣的爛朋友，才會想丟掉對方送的禮物，心裡產生罪惡感。 下集是針對3個盲點衍生的新生活方式及對應行動，喜歡這類型文章的讀者們請點下❤️愛心❤️讓我知道喔！ #內心 #內耗 #情緒 #丟 #自信 #認同 #捨不得 #popdaily

Alyson’s 3/07 Tarot：熱情 Passion

Alyson’s 3/07 Tarot：熱情 Passion 問題：醫院回診，希望一切都沒事，平安。 抽牌：聖杯10 熱情 Passion 閱讀： 今日又濕又冷又不順利。 抽了明日3月7日的塔羅牌 ~ 熱情 Passion，實在有點難想像。 現有點懂了，為何無所事事的人，心情更容易因風吹草動就像狂風大浪掃過般的強烈。 因心情已太久沒有起伏，承受力、抗壓力已日漸薄弱。 也就因為小事，就像泰山崩於頂那樣沉重。 這是我原本沒注意到的情況，因今天的不順利，而經歷體認了。 也許我可以試著開始透過靜心，透過想像 ~ 讓自己擁抱溫暖，擁抱力量。 “熱情”整張牌，顏色紅通通，還有一個杯子是金色耀耀獅子，感覺好豐盈。 獅子說，要有自信，別害怕，強而有力的能量在今日是滿格狀態。 火紅的花朵，橘紅的花蕊，每一個圖案都在提醒著，狂熱的去追尋愉悅。 Question: Hospital follow-up, hoping everything is fine and safe. Card Drawn: Ten of Cups - Passion Reading: Today is wet, cold, and everything seems to be going wrong. I drew tomorrow's tarot card for March 7th - Passion, and it's hard to imagine. Now I understand why people who have nothing to do tend to be more susceptible to strong emotions at the slightest provocation, like being swept away by a storm. Because their emotions have been stagnant for too long, their resilience and ability to withstand pressure have gradually weakened. And because of minor issues, they feel as if the weight of the world is on their shoulders. This is something I didn't notice before, but experiencing today's difficulties has made me realize it. Perhaps I can try to start calming my mind, using visualization to embrace warmth and strength. The "Passion" card is completely red, with a golden lion on one cup, giving a sense of abundance. The lion says, be confident, don't be afraid, as powerful energy is at its peak today. The fiery red flowers and orange-red stamens serve as reminders to passionately pursue joy. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Passion #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #熱情 #聖杯 #情緒

Alyson’s 2/22 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

Alyson’s 2/22 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation 心裡感到疲乏、無趣。 心裡感到空洞、空虛。 我就像是秋末凋零的花朵、枯萎的樹枝， 沒有精神，沒有活力，沒有生氣，沒有靈魂。 “停滯”這張塔羅牌，最近是宇宙很頻繁給我的訊息，另一個多次抽到的塔羅牌是”恐懼”。 我真的知道自己應該要活動起來，要開始有所行動， 但，思緒就是常飄走，無法集中，無法專注，無法成事。 大家都不知道，最近我有多討厭自己。 在我的心裡，始終沒有做出最後的決定。 又想繼續有收入，又想維持現在的生活方式。 又想走進人群團體，過去受的傷又讓我感到恐懼。 以為把自己逼到一個程度，思緒就會開闊，未來會更清晰。 塔羅，當然有幫助。 可，當自己都不知道想要什麼的時候，誰又能給妳明確的訊息呢？ 去年年底時，跟朋友說，一切就看2024年。 今年一月時，腦袋裡跟自己說，一切等過完年再看。 現，春節已結束，大家都開工多日了，而我 …. 沒有決定。 Feeling weary and uninterested. Feeling hollow and empty. I'm like a flower wilting in late autumn, a withered branch, Lacking spirit, lacking vitality, lacking vigor, lacking soul. The "Stagnation" tarot card has been a frequent message from the universe lately, another card I've drawn multiple times is "Fear". I know I should get moving, start taking action, But my thoughts keep drifting, unable to focus, unable to concentrate, unable to accomplish anything. No one really knows how much I've been hating myself lately. In my heart, I still haven't made a final decision. Wanting to keep earning, wanting to maintain my current lifestyle. Wanting to step into crowds and groups, yet the past wounds make me feel fearful. I thought pushing myself to a certain point would broaden my thoughts, make the future clearer. Tarot, of course, has been helpful. But when you don't even know what you want, who can give you clear messages? At the end of last year, I told my friends, let's see how 2024 goes. In January this year, I told myself, let's wait until after the Lunar New Year. Now, the Spring Festival has passed, everyone has been back to work for days, and I... still haven't made a decision. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Stagnation #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #聖杯 #停滯 #情緒

Alyson’s 3/08 Tarot：恐懼 Fear

Alyson’s 3/08 Tarot：恐懼 Fear 問題：一個起步的機會，是否承接。 抽牌：聖杯7 恐懼 Fear 閱讀： 噁心的黑暗，空氣很是稀薄。 很想躲起來，卻已無歸處。 聞不到安心的味道，聽不到安撫的聲音。 是被遺忘了？還是被遺棄了？ 天，何時會亮？ 光，何時會來？ 到底，是要走進恐懼裡，還是要走出光？ 深思後的心情不是興奮，是害怕，擔心。 我，還有過往的能力嗎？ 我，還能像過去那樣強嗎？ 這是從來沒有過的經驗，該怎麼辦？ 怕表現不如人意，怕結果不順利，該怎麼辦？ 經過兩三天的考慮，心中是一陣陣的慌亂，該怎麼辦？ 看見花兒的綻放，聽見鳥兒的歌唱， 聽完好幾次的”大夢”，大哭了幾場。 “恐懼”牌卡說，將害怕轉化為紅色有勁的能量，要成長，就要走進恐懼裡，去感受，去學習，去曉得該怎麼辦。 恐懼的另一面，就是”財富”。 Question: Will you embrace an opportunity to start? Card Drawn: Seven of Cups - Fear Reading: A nauseating darkness, the air thin. Yearning to hide, yet nowhere to go. No scent of peace, no soothing sound. Forgotten? Abandoned? When will the day break? When will the light come? Should one delve into the fear, or step towards the light? After deep contemplation, the feeling isn't excitement, it's fear, worry. Do I still possess my past abilities? Can I still be as strong as before? This is an unprecedented experience, what should one do? Fear of underperforming, fear of unfavorable outcomes, what should one do? After two or three days of consideration, the mind is in turmoil, what should one do? Seeing the blossoming of flowers, hearing the birds' songs, After listening to "Dream Big" several times, crying profusely. The "Fear" card says, transform fear into potent red energy, to grow, one must step into fear, to feel, to learn, to understand what to do. The flip side of fear is "wealth." #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Fear #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #恐懼 #聖杯 #情緒

Alyson’s 2/12 Tarot：滿足

Alyson’s 2/12 Tarot：滿足 我期待的願望總是小小的 在冬天時能喝杯熱咖啡 在肚餓時能吃碗熱騰騰 在自在時能躺下翻滾圈 這是喜歡的生活的模樣 可對於人生 會忍不住想要更多，更貪心 總想要再添加更多的元素和色彩 心中一直有幅美麗的風景 這幾年因為心的迷惘而模糊了 這段時間 有可能是因為心境轉折 所以夢想圖重新設計架構著 所以，我一直告訴自己，不急，不擔心 憧憬的理想圖會再度清晰的 當，心，安住的時候 那時，會是最高階的滿足 生命裡擁有許多故事的我 非常清楚，人，不能太奢求，太貪求的 珍惜有能力可以讓小滿足實現的機會 每個小心願的實現，就是最美好的模樣 My desired wishes are always simple: To enjoy a cup of hot coffee in winter, To eat a steaming bowl of food when hungry, To lie down and roll around when at leisure. This is the life I love. But when it comes to life, I can't help but desire more, be more greedy, Always wanting to add more elements and colors. There has always been a beautiful landscape in my heart, But in recent years, it has become blurred due to the confusion in my mind. During this time, Perhaps due to a shift in mindset, My dreams are being redesigned. So, I keep telling myself, don't rush, don't worry. The ideal picture of longing will become clear again, When the heart finds peace, That will be the highest level of satisfaction. As someone with many stories in life, I am very clear that one should not demand or be too greedy. I cherish the opportunities to achieve small satisfactions, Because each realization of a small wish is the most beautiful sight. #FULLFILLMENT #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Alyson #Cups #塔羅 #捕夢人 #滿足 #聖杯 #情緒

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142914343 今天是我們的婦女節 ~ 我們的刑法對於”婦女”是這樣定義範圍的： 婦女專指女性而言，從而，本罪之適格客體，遂僅以下列三者為限，分別為： 一.年齡已滿二十歲之婦女。 二.未滿二十歲但已結婚之婦女。 三.未婚且尚未成年，但並無家庭及其他監督權人保護之女子。 國語辭典則是這樣說明的：婦人女子的總稱。《禮記．曲禮下》：「居喪不言樂，祭事不言凶，公庭不言婦女。」 我認為，每一個個體的女孩、女性，就是婦女。 問 ~ 喜歡妳現在的樣子嗎？ 喜歡妳現在的生活嗎？ 很多人說，女人，要成為母親後，才算擁有完整的人生。 而我卻認為，女人，要成為完整的自己，也就擁有自己的人生。 是怎樣的角色，會被稱為什麼稱呼，是很重要。 稱呼，是特別的，是具有一種身分意義的。 但並非唯一定義人生勝利女人的標準。 幸福，才重要。 美滿，才重要。 生活，我喜歡的是歲月靜好。 日子，我喜歡的是寧靜致遠。 人生，我喜歡的是知足常樂。 在屬於我們的日子，犒賞自己，愛自己，感謝自己。 Today is our Women's Day~ Our criminal law defines "women" in the following way: Women specifically refer to females, and thus, the eligible subjects of this offense are limited to the following three categories: 1. Women over the age of twenty. 2. Women under the age of twenty but already married. 3. Unmarried and underage girls without family or other guardian protection. The Mandarin Chinese dictionary explains it as: A collective term for women and girls. "Book of Rites: Etiquette" says: "During mourning, do not speak of joy; during sacrifices, do not speak of misfortune; in the court of the ruler, do not speak of women." I believe that every individual girl and woman is a woman. Questions: Do you like yourself as you are now? Do you like your life now? Many people say that a woman only has a complete life after becoming a mother. But I believe that a woman becomes complete when she becomes her true self, thus having her own life. What kind of role deserves what kind of title is important. Titles are special and carry a sense of identity. But they do not define the standard of a successful woman's life. Happiness is what matters. Fulfillment is what matters. In life, what I like is peace and tranquility. In days, what I like is serenity and distance. In life, what I like is contentment and joy. On our special day, reward yourself, love yourself, and thank yourself. #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Regenerator #Sorrow #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #悲傷 #聖杯 #情緒

#情緒搜尋結果

2月的第一天，今日牌卡：駕馭者

2月的第一天，今日牌卡：駕馭者

Alyson’s 2/11 Tarot：感受者

Alyson’s 2/11 Tarot：感受者

2024 0314 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0314 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

Alyson’s 3/12 Tarot：失望 Disappointment

Alyson’s 3/12 Tarot：失望 Disappointment

20天斷捨離計畫，找出從未發現的問題及啟動新生活模式～（上）

20天斷捨離計畫，找出從未發現的問題及啟動新生活模式～（上）

Alyson’s 3/07 Tarot：熱情 Passion

Alyson’s 3/07 Tarot：熱情 Passion

Alyson’s 2/22 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

Alyson’s 2/22 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

Alyson’s 3/08 Tarot：恐懼 Fear

Alyson’s 3/08 Tarot：恐懼 Fear

Alyson’s 2/12 Tarot：滿足

Alyson’s 2/12 Tarot：滿足

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow