2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 0209 今日塔羅：抱負 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/137579719 除夕夜，是告別過去舊年，也是情感流動之夜 最近認識了一位妹子 她，40多歲，未婚 她，農曆春節一個人，很多年 她說 她喜歡一個人的自由 然後我想到了 去年，農曆春節，大部分時間我也都是一個人 原本我也以為我很好，那幾天，靜靜得過生活 結果當月月底我就生病了 長達2個多星期 應該，之前的”好”是硬撐著 其實，那時的我，應該不是挺好的 好生佩服這妹子 也許她的樂觀有逞強的成分 但當身邊沒有人可以互相依賴、依靠時 即使脆弱也得裝堅強 生活裡一起分享春花、夏陽、秋風、冬雪的人 不一定只限於親密愛人和家人 可以是淡泊之友、老友、舊友 我的窗玻璃起了一層霧 窗外飄著細雨，不大，就是有點煩人 風吹著是會冷的那種 泡了一壺茶 川燙一盤青菜 碗公裡是昨天沒喝重新溫熱的鮮奶茶 這是怎樣的組合我也搞不懂 隨心所欲的結果罷了 門上貼了春聯 算是給自己添加一些年節喜氣 貼糊得很醜 也挺符合我的style ~ 不講究的生活主義者 守歲了 添歲了 新年新氣象 新春新希望 新年快樂!! On New Year's Eve, it's a night to bid farewell to the old year and also a night of emotional flow. Recently, I met a girl. She, in her forties, unmarried. She spends the Lunar New Year alone, for many years. She said she likes the freedom of being alone. Then I thought Last year, during the Lunar New Year, most of the time I was also alone. I thought I was fine, living quietly those days. But by the end of the month, I fell ill For over two weeks. Perhaps, the previous "fine" was just me pushing through. Actually, I wasn't doing so well back then. I truly admire this girl. Perhaps her optimism has an element of bravado. But when there's no one to rely on, no one to lean on, Even if you're vulnerable, you have to pretend to be strong. People who share the joys of spring, the warmth of summer, the breeze of autumn, and the snow of winter in life. Not limited to intimate lovers and family can be casual friends, old friends, acquaintances. There's a layer of mist on my window. Outside, there's a drizzle, not heavy, just a bit annoying. The wind blowing is the kind that makes you cold. Brewed a pot of tea. Stir-fried a plate of green vegetables. In the bowl is yesterday's reheated milk tea. I don't understand this combination either. Just the result of following my heart. Spring couplets are posted on the door. Adding some festive atmosphere to myself. They're pasted on so clumsily. Quite fitting my style ~ a carefree lifestyle enthusiast Staying up late on New Year's Eve. Added another year old in New Year. New outlook! New spring! New hope! Happy New Year!! #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Aspiration #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #權杖 #抱負

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation 給迷茫中的可欣 ~ 迷茫是人生中一定會遇到的坎，可出現還不只一次。 一開始我確實以為想聊這話題的妳，可能才剛從學校畢業沒有多久。 妳擁有敏銳的直覺，馬上告訴我妳是一位30歲的大女孩，然後又馬上反應出對這樣的年紀還對未來是沒有方向的，覺害羞，不好意思。 若年紀是標準，那現在半百的我，對於接下來還在找尋方向，確認目標，不就得自我羞愧而亡了。 不應該這樣思考的。 年紀，累積了經驗，增添了智慧，突破了困難，並不是就代表接下來就一帆風順的。 人生無論何時都常會遇到需要思考，需要適應調整的局面。 誰幾歲遇到什麼事情，這也沒有一定的公式可套入，畢竟，人生的軌跡不會重疊，不會一致，只有類似，卻又不盡相同。 請宇宙送給妳的祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【停滯 Stagnation】。 有點遺憾，可這樣也好。 跟妳聊天過程中，確實有發現妳沒有很專心，同時間可能還在進行其他的事情，甚至也許我們的對話內容沒能吸引住妳的注意力，所以妳的回覆和回應都是簡短的語句，感覺有點在應付我而已。 若真是這樣的情形，那真是蠻可惜的。妳錯過了我的金玉良言，錯失了我經驗的分享，錯開了我識人、讀人的到位剖析。 也許就是因為如此，即使經過聊天後，妳還沒懂得現在所處的問題核心是什麼，所以妳被困住了，無法行動，無法前進。 認知沒有打破，意念沒有形成，沒有因緣俱足的能量，也就造成窒礙難行的情景。 想改變，需打自內心。 這是我個人經驗打磨出來的結論。 很多話，不需說出口。 因妳要說服的人是妳自己。 靜下心，好好思考。想要什麼，適合什麼，只有自己最清楚，旁人所說的，只會是建議，只能是僅供參考而已。 2024/11/20 To Kexin: Stagnation To the lost Kexin ~ Feeling lost is an inevitable part of life, and it’s something we’ll encounter more than once. Initially, I thought that someone who wanted to discuss this topic might have just graduated from school. But your keen intuition quickly corrected me, revealing that you are a 30-year-old young woman. Then, almost instantly, you shared a sense of embarrassment and unease about still feeling directionless at your age. If age were the benchmark, then I, at almost 50, would have to drown in shame for still searching for direction and clarifying my goals. But this is not the way to think. Age accumulates experiences, adds wisdom, and helps us overcome challenges—but it doesn’t guarantee smooth sailing ahead. Life, at any stage, often presents situations requiring deep thought, adaptation, and adjustment. There’s no fixed formula for when and what kind of challenges one might face. Life paths don’t overlap or align perfectly; they’re only similar yet uniquely distinct. The Tarot card drawn for you, as a blessing from the universe, is Stagnation. It’s a little disappointing, but perhaps it’s a good thing. During our conversation, I noticed that your attention wasn’t entirely focused. Perhaps you were multitasking, or maybe our discussion didn’t capture your full interest. Your responses were brief, almost as if you were merely humoring me. If that’s the case, it’s truly a pity. You missed my pearls of wisdom, my shared experiences, and my sharp insights into understanding and analyzing people. Perhaps that’s why, even after our chat, you still don’t grasp the core issue of your current situation. You remain stuck, unable to act or move forward. When your understanding hasn’t shifted, your mindset hasn’t formed, and the necessary energy hasn’t come together, obstacles arise, and progress is hindered. To create change, it must come from deep within your heart. This conclusion is one I’ve honed from my own experiences. Many things don’t need to be said aloud. After all, the person you need to convince is yourself. Take a moment to quiet your mind and think deeply. What do you truly want? What suits you best? Only you can know these answers. What others say are merely suggestions—for reference, and nothing more. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0410 今日塔羅：追尋者 Seeker

2024 0410 今日塔羅：追尋者 Seeker 今天晚上報名河流雜誌舉辦的線上學習，關於「水晶骷髏頭」，我呼請宇宙，請宇宙告訴我們，老師瑞．強德蘭開辦這場講座要我們從中去學習什麼？ 宇宙透拓塔羅告訴我們成為一個「追尋者」的重要。 老師說，水晶骷髏象徵完美的人類，最完美的水晶骷髏頭名字叫做Max，由大角星人所創作的，散發著純淨的光與極高頻振動。 當我們與之連結時，可感受到強大的能量，領悟內在蘊藏的關於宇宙的訊息，以及關於揚升的教導。 最讓人吸引的是，透過水晶骷髏獲得的金色鑰匙可以開啟宇宙的藏書庫，像是超級無限巨大的資料庫，有著浩瀚的知識與比長江、尼羅河還要古老的歷史。 我們每一個人的出生都是有著各自須完成的使命與任務，我們都有著自己的英雄之旅要前進。 「追尋者」是權杖子牌的其中一張，是權杖小孩Child of Wands。 是意念，是我們的內在，是我們神性、靈性的部分。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146085310 生而為人，你相近神嗎？你接受造物主這樣的觀念嗎？ 宇宙一直在用不同的方式與語言告訴大家 ~ 存在，並非只限於具體、實體。 存在，並非只存在於當下，還有期待的未來。 追尋內在。 追尋根源。 你想追尋的還有什麼？ 在宇宙之間，在神的面前，在造物主的跟前， 謙卑得像個孩子吧！ 像個孩子不設限。 像個孩子不畫地。 像個孩子張開雙眼，打開雙手，奔跑於天地間。 感受風，體驗雨，品嚐雪。 像個孩子好奇，好玩，好學。 最強大的心靈力量來自於純粹，純淨，純潔。 今天放下大人的鏡框，那些是是非非，今日完全謝絕。 用我們早已遺忘的孩子般雙眼，看世界。 敞開心胸的感受與接納。 花點時間欣賞眼前。 也許等再次戴上大人眼鏡時，你內心已有小小的改變。 Today's Tarot: The Seeker Tonight, I signed up for an online learning session hosted by River Flow Magazine, about "Crystal Skulls." I called upon the universe to tell us, what do we need to learn from Teacher Ray Chongdalan's lecture? The universe, through Tarot, tells us the importance of being a "Seeker." The teacher says, crystal skulls symbolize the perfect human, and the most perfect crystal skull is named Max, created by the Pleiadians, emitting pure light and extremely high-frequency vibrations. When we connect with it, we can feel powerful energy, understand the cosmic messages within, and teachings about ascension. Most intriguingly, the golden key obtained through crystal skulls can unlock the universe's library, like an immensely vast database, containing vast knowledge and a history older than the Yangtze and Nile rivers combined. Each of us is born with missions and tasks to fulfill, each of us has our own hero's journey to embark on. "The Seeker" is one of the cards of the Wands suit, specifically the Child of Wands. It represents thoughts, our inner selves, and our divine and spiritual aspects. Are you close to the divine as a human? Do you accept the concept of a creator? The universe has always been telling everyone in different ways and languages ~ Existence is not limited to the concrete, the tangible. Existence is not just in the present, but also in the anticipated future. Seek within. Seek the roots. What else do you want to pursue? In the universe, in the presence of God, before the Creator, Be humble like a child! Like a child without limits. Like a child without boundaries. Like a child, open your eyes, open your hands, run between heaven and earth. Feel the wind, experience the rain, taste the snow. Curious like a child, playful, eager to learn. The strongest spiritual power comes from purity, purity, and cleanliness. Today, put down the frame of adulthood, the rights and wrongs, are completely rejected today. Look at the world with the eyes of a child that we have long forgotten. Open your heart to feel and accept. Take some time to appreciate what's in front of you. Perhaps when you put on the glasses of adulthood again, you'll find a slight change within. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Seeker

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142147564 “均衡”這牌，無法去對照偏愛和唯一，因這牌不適合用在情感上。 畢竟，愛情是唯一，講的是真愛。 而，友情和親情，會偏心，會偏向，也就造成了偏愛。 俗話說，女兒當寶養，兒子當草養。 對女兒是偏愛，對兒子，難道就不愛嗎? 當然不是呀。 所以這張牌，不講感情，講得是情緒，收放自如的情緒，自我控管良好的情緒。 這牌，講事業，重點也是放在情緒控管的能力上。 今日看了一個短視頻，主播形容一為他遇到的業務銷售人員，他特稱讚得，因那年輕銷售人員，雖然學識學歷不高，可情商特高，主播說，那已可算是研究生等級的，而他身為一位專業口說人才，仍被他的銷售方式、氛圍、行為給打動了，且當場下單買了。 這讓人明白與人交談，讓人如沐春風，且不自覺得進入你的話語中，讓人花了錢，還覺這錢花得值得的，那真是難得，可厲害了。 而身為社畜的我們，也要明白，人生在世，不是啥都要拚個輸贏。 就好比，有人是專才，有人是通才， 要論哪個厲害？ 其實，兩個都很厲害。 專才的專業那樣艱澀，要像嚼蜜般喜歡著。 通才的全能總是艱難，事事會，樣樣都要有門道的程度，這可不是三兩三的功夫就能做到的。 一個強大的隊伍裡，專才、通才都須擁有。 而，你適合哪一種？就看你自己是專才，還是通才，只要是適合自己的，最好。 今天，要注意情緒的控管，該洩，該攔阻，像水庫般有效地調節。 讓水，承載你的舟，順流而下。 The card "Equilibrium" cannot be compared with favoritism or uniqueness, as it is not suitable for emotional matters. After all, love is unique; it speaks of true love. However, friendships and family ties can be biased, leading to favoritism. As the saying goes, "Raise daughters as treasures and sons as grass." Showing favoritism towards daughters, does that mean one doesn't love their sons? Of course not. So, this card doesn't talk about emotions but rather about emotions that are well-controlled and managed. In terms of career, this card also emphasizes the ability to manage emotions. Today, I watched a short video where the host described encountering a young salesperson. Despite their lack of academic qualifications, the salesperson had high emotional intelligence. The host praised them, saying their emotional intelligence was at the level of a graduate student. Even as a professional speaker, the host was impressed by their sales approach, atmosphere, and behavior, and ended up making a purchase on the spot. This shows the importance of conversing with people in a way that makes them feel good and willing to spend money, feeling it's worth it. As individuals in the workforce, we must understand that life is not all about winning or losing. Just like some are specialists and some are generalists, which one is more impressive? Actually, both are impressive. Specialists' expertise requires deep understanding and dedication, akin to savoring honey. Generalists' versatility is always challenging; they need expertise in everything they do, which isn't achieved easily. In a strong team, both specialists and generalists are needed. Which one suits you? It depends on whether you are a specialist or a generalist, but what matters most is what suits you best. Today, pay attention to managing your emotions. Let them flow when necessary, and hold them back when needed, effectively regulating them like a reservoir. Let the water carry your boat downstream smoothly. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Equilibrium #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #均衡 #聖杯 #情緒

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment 這週末週日，很靜。 靜得連門都沒走出去。 想到外面赤熱的太陽，想著自己很難承受溫度急冷急熱的變化，還是別出門找罪受了。 在家，有冷氣，有食物，雖沒有奢華享受，可自己的窩，怎麼待怎麼舒服。 曾有人跟我說，沒出門的日子，怎是過充實的生活呢？ 這道理，其實我是比較沒有辦法接受的，但不評論。 雖然我認為充實生活，為何一定要出門才能擁有。 不過，大家對於充實生活的定義不同，那也就不奇怪想法不一致了。 只是，今天恐會讓大家失望的是，今天的塔羅牌，沒有抽到直接的，顯而易見的正向牌卡。 今天的塔羅牌是『失望』。 對什麼失望呢？ 對人？ 對事？ 對自己？ 對結果？ 我查看了自己今日的行事曆，沒有大事，難道這樣就不擔心會發生失望的情況嗎？ 非也。 我對自己失望的，不會只有今天。 課程結束之後這些天來，蠻多天我都因自己的消極感到失望。 明明，需要做的事情那麼多。 明明，塔羅閱讀師的事情目前是半吊子狀態，還欠一些資料沒提供給老師，可就是沒開始進行。 但我卻仍沒重整好自己。 維基百科裡寫道，「失望是人類情緒的一種，是由於沒有達到某種期望或實現希望的情況而產生的不滿足而導致的情緒。失望和後悔有類似之處，不同之處在於後悔的情緒是由先前的選擇導致了令人不滿的結果而造成，而失望情緒則更多是由於令人不滿的結果，與造成這種結果的原因關聯不大。失望是人的心理壓力的來源之一。研究失望情緒的起因、表現和對人行為、意識的影響是心理學的課題之一。」 失望，是對現況，對當下的情緒。 要如何跨越失望？ 是要等時間過去？ 還是已想好如何主動出擊？ 失望，也會積累。 我曾因積累了太多的失望，對人雖沒產生絕望的心情，可也距離不遠了。 因那時的我對任何人都不感興趣，也不想交流。 是很大的打擊之後的正常反應。 是被背叛欺負之後的正常反應啊！ 於是學習到了，不將自己的情感寄託在他人身上。 先愛自己，且是很愛很愛的程度。 別人如何待我，不好的態度，那就笑看唄，可若是彼此開心互動與往來，當然就是歡喜接受。 不受別人惡意的行徑給困擾。 失望因此就減少。 既然今天塔羅牌是『失望』，那就讓我們小心點行事。 在沒能力對抗或衝破之前，我們躲，我們閃，總可以做到的，是吧。 2024/07/01 Today's Tarot: Disappointment This Sunday was very quiet. So quiet that I didn't even step outside. Thinking of the scorching sun outside and knowing I can hardly withstand sudden changes in temperature, I decided not to go out and suffer. At home, there's air conditioning, food, and while it's not luxurious, my own space is always the most comfortable. Someone once told me, how can you live a fulfilling life without going out? Honestly, I can't quite accept this notion, but I won't argue. I believe that a fulfilling life doesn't necessarily require going out. However, everyone has a different definition of a fulfilling life, so it's not surprising that opinions vary. But today, I might disappoint everyone because today's tarot card is not directly and obviously positive. Today's tarot card is "Disappointment." Disappointed by what? People? Things? Oneself? Results? I checked my schedule for today and there are no major events. Does that mean there's no worry of being disappointed? Not really. I'm often disappointed in myself, and today is no exception. For many days after my course ended, I've been feeling disappointed in my own passivity. Clearly, there's so much to be done. Clearly, I'm still halfway through my tarot reading assignments, with some materials still pending for my teacher, yet I haven't started. But I still haven't managed to pull myself together. Wikipedia states, "Disappointment is a type of human emotion, arising from unfulfilled expectations or hopes. It is similar to regret, but while regret is caused by unsatisfactory results due to previous choices, disappointment is more related to unsatisfactory outcomes, regardless of the cause. Disappointment is a source of psychological stress. Studying the causes, manifestations, and effects of disappointment on human behavior and consciousness is one of the subjects of psychology." Disappointment is an emotion tied to the current state, to the present moment. How do we overcome disappointment? Do we wait for time to pass? Or have we already figured out how to take the initiative? Disappointment can also accumulate. I once accumulated so much disappointment that, although I didn't become completely hopeless about people, I wasn't far from it. At that time, I had no interest in anyone and didn't want to interact. It was a normal reaction after a significant blow. It's a normal reaction after being betrayed and bullied! So I learned not to place my emotional reliance on others. First, love yourself, and love yourself deeply. How others treat me—if it's negative, I'll just laugh it off, but if we have happy interactions, then I'll gladly accept. Don't let others' malicious actions bother you. This way, disappointment decreases. Since today's tarot card is "Disappointment," let's be cautious in our actions. Until we have the ability to confront or overcome it, we can avoid it. We can dodge it, can't we? #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Disappointment

2024 0621 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0621 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor 連續兩天都抽到同一張塔羅牌。 真的是讓我感到驚訝，且也深思有甚麼事情讓宇宙這樣提醒著我們。 昨天，上完最後一天的電腦培訓課程。 從完全不懂的小白，到現在，有些技能知道了，很多都還是懵懵懂懂。 過去在學校時，聽著那些搞不懂的專業科目，我到底是如何過關，如何仍對自己充滿自信，認為自己日後有能力可以在江湖上有風得走著。 年紀越長，看得越多，也曾走遠過，雖然也沒有走得太遠，就每天通勤到另一個城市而已，不過城市不同，屬性不同，看過廣闊的世界，認識很多很棒的人，深感自己的渺小，也覺自己的能力，可發揮的價值不多。 常會有”冒牌者心理”的感受浮上心頭。 我有像他們認為的那樣棒嗎？ 我值得被人好好對待嗎? 應該很快就會被人發現我是硬撐的吧？ 我總是佩服專業又有自信的人。 我總是欣賞能力強大又情緒穩定的人。 我總是靠近溫柔又善解人意的人。 我總是想要成為他們每一個人。 我也想成為創造者，創意者。 在我們的腦袋裡，每天激發龐大的能量，所以常常動腦後，會更覺疲憊，有些人會想吃東西，補充一下，有人則是會想睡覺。 心智，是東西嗎？ 可說是東西，但又不具體。 不具體，無形，卻有確確實實的存在。 心智，你在想甚麼？你想要做甚麼？你怎麼想？你想怎麼做？ 如何抓到腦中的飛逝而過的想法？ 如何鍛鍊心智？ 如何發揮心智？ 這都是創造者可以思考的事情。 在學習電腦平面插畫的過程裡，除了技能的學習，技巧的練習，我自己發現一開始的發想、構想、構圖，就已是影響成敗的關鍵了。 技能可以靠持續學習而獲得。 技巧可以靠不斷練習而熟稔。 想法，構想，更是需要長期的發覺、發想、連結。 美的眼光在日日的培養，薰陶。 創意也是。 作家，需要持續地練筆鋒，練筆觸，也需要容納百川地多閱讀，多吸收各種常識、知識。 藝術家，需要勇敢地嘗試不同材質或工法，也須從各種角度欣賞、挖掘美的不同姿態，不同風景。 學習課程今日要結訓了。 不過，自我學習的路，是沒有終點時間的。 繼續努力。 Tarot of the Day for June 21, 2024: The Creator – Inventor For the first time, I’ve drawn the same tarot card two days in a row. This really surprises me and makes me reflect on what the universe is trying to remind us. Yesterday, I finished the last day of a computer training course. From knowing nothing at all, now I’ve gained some skills, although many aspects are still confusing. In the past, when I was in school, I managed to pass those incomprehensible professional subjects. How did I do it? How did I remain confident, believing that I would be able to navigate the world successfully? As I’ve grown older, seen more, and traveled further, though not too far—just commuting to another city each day—the different city with its distinct characteristics broadened my horizons. I met many amazing people and deeply felt my own insignificance. I often questioned my abilities and the value I could offer. Feelings of being an "impostor" often surface. Am I as good as they think I am? Do I deserve to be treated well? Will people soon realize that I’m just faking it? I always admire people who are professional and confident. I always appreciate those who are highly capable and emotionally stable. I am always drawn to gentle and understanding individuals. I always want to become each of them. I also want to be a creator, an inventor. Our minds generate enormous energy daily, which often leaves us feeling exhausted after intensive thinking. Some people might want to eat to replenish themselves, while others may feel the need to sleep. Is the mind a tangible thing? It can be said to be a thing, yet it is not concrete. Intangible, invisible, but undeniably real. Mind, what are you thinking? What do you want to do? How do you think? How do you want to act? How can we capture fleeting thoughts in our minds? How can we train our minds? How can we utilize our minds? These are the questions that creators can ponder. During the process of learning computer graphic illustration, besides acquiring skills and practicing techniques, I’ve discovered that the initial idea, concept, and composition are crucial to success. Skills can be acquired through continuous learning. Techniques can be mastered through constant practice. Ideas and concepts require long-term discovery, brainstorming, and connection. Aesthetic appreciation is cultivated and nurtured daily. So is creativity. A writer needs to continuously practice their writing and touch, absorbing a wealth of knowledge and information from extensive reading. An artist needs to bravely try different materials and techniques, appreciating and exploring beauty from various angles and different landscapes. Today marks the end of the training course. However, the journey of self-learning has no end. Keep striving forward. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Inventor

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man 好久不見了，Derek ~ 看著你的訊息，與跟你對話的過程中，我感受到你的痛苦與已想盡辦法卻仍困在死局裡的狀況。 如同你所寫的，我們算不上熟悉，甚至可以說我們其實也不太認識對方，在那幾天的課程中，我們會閒聊一些，一起吃了頓飯，喝了一杯咖啡，之前的緣分如此淺薄，但依然將對方視為朋友。 時光倒推回去，約莫是去年的此時認識的你，而你的人生如同你的計劃，在今年創業了。 記得那時你跟我分享著這創業夢時，我那時腦海中閃過了幾個模糊畫面和一些情緒。 看著你發亮得意的神情，我也不好意思說太多，只輕輕提了幾句，也不敢說是提醒，就像閒聊般去帶到。 而今日你所說的現在面臨到的問題與困境，竟然與一年前我腦海中浮出的景象重疊了起來，並且清晰許多。 身為淡交的朋友的我，沒有立場，沒有角色，沒有資格去評論任何事情，但確實對現在的你的情況感到擔憂。 於是我馬上向宇宙詢問給你指引，抽到的塔羅牌：【倒吊者 Hanged Man】。 我常對於塔羅牌的神奇感到驚訝不已。 現在的情況對你來說就像是被掐住脖子般那樣窘迫，想盡辦法依然無法解決，快要無法呼吸的痛苦與窒悶。 傍晚冷靜後的我覺得需要多關心你，跟你提起向父母求援，才知道現在你們的關係是僵化與冷漠的。 我的直覺是認為趁這次的關係，一來跟父母多些情感關係的建立與連結，二來可打破你們目前相敬如冰的情況，三來可解決你現在卡住的急迫問題。 固執的你，馬上回應不可能找父母談。 哎呀！你怎就是不懂呢，父母的協助可讓你的危機化為轉機，不管是你的事業還是你們家庭氛圍。 對於倒吊者這張塔羅牌，積極面對問題的關鍵，會有”反轉”的機會。宇宙在告訴你，Derek，藉此機會，你需學習與接納，今日的情況與你的溝通、協調以及認知有很大的關係，你從你自己的角度、視野評估與衡量，然後衝動做了決定，卻又沒能將一些情況周全設想到，所以面對了現在，無論是人、事、金錢都出現了卡住、停滯、掐住的窘迫。 當然，這也與你非常年輕有關係。 試著傾聽。 試著放下自我。 試著就事論事。 也許，你以為的冰山，其實一直想成為你的靠山，只是你很少讓他們有機會接近你。 2024-11-07 Derek: The Hanged Man Hello, Derek. It's been a while. Reading your message and conversing with you, I can sense the pain and frustration you’re enduring, trying everything yet still feeling trapped in a deadlock. As you mentioned, we’re not particularly close; in fact, we barely know each other. During those few days of class, we exchanged small talk, shared a meal, and had a cup of coffee. The bond was brief, yet we still regard each other as friends. Looking back, it was around this time last year that we met, and your life, just as you planned, took a big step forward when you started your own business this year. I remember you telling me about your entrepreneurial dream back then. A few hazy images and emotions flashed through my mind. Seeing your proud, radiant expression, I hesitated to say too much, only lightly mentioning a few things, not as a warning but just casual remarks. Today, as you talk about the challenges and struggles you’re facing, I realize they overlap precisely with the visions I had a year ago, now much clearer. As a distant friend, I hold no position, role, or right to judge, yet I do feel concerned for you in your current situation. So, I immediately asked the universe for guidance on your behalf and drew the Tarot card, The Hanged Man. I'm always amazed by the mysterious insight of Tarot cards. Right now, your situation feels as if a hand is gripping your throat, an unbearable struggle to breathe as you try to break free, yet find no solutions. After calming down in the evening, I felt the need to reach out more, to suggest that you consider asking your parents for help, only to find that your relationship with them is currently distant and cold. My intuition is that this could be a good opportunity to reconnect emotionally with your parents. Not only could this alleviate the current strain, but it might also shift the icy dynamic between you all, while possibly resolving your urgent issue. But your response was immediate—no way you would talk to your parents. Oh! How can you not see? Their support could turn this crisis into an opportunity, benefiting both your business and the atmosphere within your family. Regarding The Hanged Man card, the key to facing challenges lies in seeking a “reversal” of perspective. The universe is telling you, Derek, that this is a time to learn and accept. Today's situation is closely linked to your communication, coordination, and perception. You’ve evaluated and acted based on your own view, making impulsive decisions without fully accounting for other aspects. And now you’re facing blockages, with people, circumstances, and finances all stalled, squeezed, and at an impasse. Of course, part of this is due to your youth. Try to listen. Try to let go of self-centeredness. Try to address matters as they are. Perhaps what you perceive as a cold, distant iceberg has always wanted to be your support. You’ve just rarely given them the chance to come close. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0305 今日塔羅：財富/命運 Fortune

2024 0305 今日塔羅：財富/命運 Fortune https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142628575 有時候，生活本身就是件很難熬的事， 實在是沒辦法有多些心力注意和學習。 人善，被人欺， 人好，被人負。 為難你的，永遠都是”人”，而非心裡恐懼的形影。 今日散步回來，聽到社區大樓負責清潔的大姊和隔壁社區，一樣負責清潔的大姊，她們皆是同一家公司的員工，被老闆惡意虧欠依法應該提撥的退休金。 大姊很苦澀的說，光是工作、生活，她已耗盡心思，完全不懂政府的法令和政策，也不知道要去哪裡請教。 我只能用過去一些淺薄的經驗提供了幾個小建議。 並提醒大姊，同個坑，咱們別再栽進跟頭一次了。 除了找專業的人請教該如何討回應拿到的錢以外， 現況也要了解清楚。 另一住戶告知，其實，她去年還是前年就有建議大姊要如何保護自己的權益， 那時的大姊感到害怕，也不知該如何開口。 我想，人都是這樣的，對於自己陌生的、不懂的，即使有人說明了，還是害怕，還是恐慌，不知道該怎麼辦。 我懂法律，我懂權益，但，我還是摔了好大一跤。 欺負、霸凌我們的人，永遠都是你曾經信任且推心置腹的人。 我想，生活和成長，不就都是這樣的嗎？ 沒哪個人，什麼事情，是不用透過學習，經過處理，獲得較多了解後而更懂得該如何面對與防範。 而這些過程和經驗，就是宇宙給我的財富，給我的祝福。 學習從坑爬出來，學習不再掉入坑。 學習拒絕，學習更加聰明一點點。 這點點滴滴，都是財富。 抓住機會，掌握命運，擁有財富。 這張塔羅牌告訴了我們人生其中一條真諦。 Sometimes, life itself is very difficult to endure, and it's just impossible to muster up enough mental energy to pay attention and learn more. When you're kind, you're taken advantage of, When you're good, you're betrayed. It's always "people" who make things difficult for you, not the shadows of fear in your heart. Today, coming back from a walk, I heard the elder sister responsible for cleaning in our community building and the elder sister from the neighboring community, who also cleans, both employees of the same company, being maliciously deprived by the boss of the retirement benefits they're entitled to by law. The elder sister bitterly expressed that between work and life, she's already exhausted, completely unaware of government regulations and policies, and doesn't know where to seek advice. I could only offer a few small suggestions based on some shallow past experiences. And I reminded the elder sister, let's not fall into the same pit again. Apart from seeking advice from professionals on how to recover the owed money, the current situation also needs to be clearly understood. Another resident informed that, actually, she had suggested to the elder sister last year or the year before how to protect her rights, but at that time, the elder sister felt scared and didn't know how to speak up. I think people are like this, even if someone explains to them about things they're unfamiliar with or don't understand, they still feel afraid, still panic, and don't know what to do. I understand the law, I understand rights, but I still took a big fall. The people who bully and oppress us are always the ones we once trusted and confided in. I think life and growth are just like this, aren't they? There's no person or thing that doesn't require learning, processing, and gaining a better understanding through experience to know how to face and prevent it. And these processes and experiences are the wealth and blessings the universe gives me. Learning to climb out of the pit, Learning not to fall into it again. Learning to refuse, Learning to be a little smarter. Every little bit of this is wealth. Seize opportunities, control destiny, and possess wealth. This tarot card tells us one of the truths of life. #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Fortune #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #財富 #命運

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0422 今日塔羅：愛 Love

2024 0422 今日塔羅：愛 Love 今天是週一，這週工作日的第一天，大家心情好嗎？ 從前兩週開始學習後，過去那種面對週一的壓力心情，又開始冒出。 有些心情，不是已淡忘，不是已消散。 若人生中又有過去類似的情景出現，那些不舒服的心情都在伺機而動，等著脆弱的時機，全軍出巢行動。 今天的塔羅牌到了『愛』。 什麼是愛？ 這是個簡單的問題嗎？ 大家都如何傳達”愛”？如何表達”愛”？ “愛”對我來說，很難捉模，既是名詞，也是動詞。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/147445945 在”愛”的這個字，不管是哪種型態，我都跌過大坑，摔過大跤，疼過，痛過，傷過，討厭過，也恨過。 以前，我用行動表示愛，傳達愛，以為時間久了，大家能懂得。 多麼傻氣又天真。 後來，我用行動說出愛，傳出愛，從一開始的彆扭，多次後，自己感到熟練，接收者也就不覺怪異。 多麼直率又直白。 宇宙想告訴我們，今日 ~ 讓我們在愛中享受春風得意的舒爽。 繽紛的花朵從瓶中流瀉而出，讓春意流淌，讓愛流動。 在接受接收的同時，請記得，也要付出，也要主動。 愛，是雙向的流動。 若是單向的，很快地，愛就倒完，不再存在的。 愛，是單純，不能量數，不能計較的。 很多事情都可以有個單位計算，唯有愛，不可數，不可衡量，不可論價值。 在死亡的面前，再大的權勢，再高的地位，再多的爭執與恨，都不成為”事”。 在愛的面前，金銀財寶，珠寶鑽石，再多的財富，都無法為”愛”估價。 今天適合踏出我們平時框起來的小世界，走向他人，走進群體。 愛的關懷，在於一句好話，一段美麗的文字。 愛的行動，在於一下拍肩，一個溫暖的擁抱。 愛的表示，在於一次眼神，一種鼓勵的示意。 在付出愛的同時，不要忘記愛自己。 接納自己的不足。 接受自己的欠缺。 接收他人的關愛。 接下宇宙的訊息。 每個人都是富有且貧瘠的狀態。 愛，能填補胸口落空的那塊，不感到缺失。 前提是，也要付出愛，才有”愛”的收穫。 Today's Tarot: Love Happy Monday, everyone! How are you feeling on this first workday of the week? Since starting our learning journey two weeks ago, the pressure and stress of facing Mondays seem to be creeping back in. Some emotions, they haven't faded away, they haven't dissipated. If similar situations from the past reappear in our lives, those uncomfortable feelings lie in wait, ready to strike at vulnerable moments, waiting to swarm out en masse. Today's Tarot card is "Love." What is love? Is it a simple question? How do we convey "love"? How do we express "love"? "Love" for me, it's elusive, both a noun and a verb. In the word "love," in whatever form, I've fallen into deep pits, tripped over obstacles, felt pain, hurt, been wounded, loathed, and even hated. In the past, I expressed love through actions, communicated love, thinking that over time, everyone would understand. How naive and innocent. Later, I spoke love through actions, conveyed love, starting from awkwardness, but after many times, I felt proficient, and the recipients no longer found it strange. How straightforward and blunt. The universe wants to tell us today ~ Let's enjoy the refreshing breeze of spring in love. Colorful flowers pour out of the vase, letting the spring flow, letting love flow. While receiving, please remember to give back, to take initiative. Love is a two-way flow. If it's one-sided, love will quickly run dry, cease to exist. Love is pure, immeasurable, incalculable. Many things can be measured in units, but love cannot be counted, measured, or valued. In the face of death, no matter how great the power, how high the status, how much dispute and hatred, they all become nothing. In the face of love, gold and silver, jewels and diamonds, no matter how much wealth, cannot evaluate "love." Today is a good day to step out of our usual boxed-in worlds and reach out to others, join the community. Caring in love can be a kind word, a beautiful message. Actions of love can be a pat on the back, a warm hug. Expressions of love can be a glance, an encouraging gesture. While giving love, don't forget to love yourself. Accept your shortcomings. Embrace your imperfections. Receive love from others. E mbrace the messages from the universe. Everyone is both rich and impoverished. Love can fill the emptiness in the chest without feeling lacking. The condition is, you must also give love to reap the rewards of "love." #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Love

#Alyson搜尋結果

2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 0410 今日塔羅：追尋者 Seeker

2024 0410 今日塔羅：追尋者 Seeker

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0621 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0621 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 0305 今日塔羅：財富/命運 Fortune

2024 0305 今日塔羅：財富/命運 Fortune

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 0422 今日塔羅：愛 Love

2024 0422 今日塔羅：愛 Love