2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。 今日牌卡：皇后

今日牌卡：皇后 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/131644330 一直以來很喜歡用一句話形容女人，溫柔但堅定的力量。 我媽媽，是我這輩子第一個認識的女強人。 她，很霸道，尤其是關於家裡生活採買的物品。 她，很獨裁，尤其是關於家中大小事日期的安排。 她，很果斷，尤其是跟孩子們追討代墊款項的時候。 她，很開朗，當面對婆婆和犯小錯的時候。 她，很溫柔，當與老公分享談心事的時候。 她，很可愛，當逗著可愛帥氣孫子的時候。 我媽，她沒有所謂的強勢氣場。 她沒有高跟鞋、西裝和精緻的濃妝。 頂著一顆捲捲頭，十根圓圓短短胖胖的手指頭。 人未到，開朗暢懷笑聲已先到。 她是皇后，孕育了孩子，孕育出一個家的溫暖。 若說父親是一個家的精神支柱，頂梁柱，那我說母親則是一個家的靈魂，是那繞著樑，伴著樑，不可或缺的靈魂。 我認為所謂的女強人，是內心裡有股源源不絕的強大力量支撐著她面對人生裡的風風雨雨。 她將力量化為溫暖開朗的能量，融化了一路上遇到的冰雪寒天，暖了內心裡孤寂的寸土。 而不是只存在於職場上精明幹練的模樣。 也不是用銳利眼神將人從頭到腳的掃描過一遍。 更不是使用尖銳語言去討論、評價甚至是攻擊。 我，終究，沒有成為像媽媽一樣的女強人。 我沒有堅定的心念，欠缺強大力量，奉行逃避並不可恥的理論，對無心面對的事情，那就托著吧。 還是因為沒有人用溫柔形容過我？！ I always loved describing women with a single phrase - the gentle yet firm strength. My mother, she's the first powerhouse woman I've ever known in my life. She is very domineering, especially when it comes to purchasing items for home life. She is very authoritative, especially regarding the arrangement of dates for all major events at home. She is very decisive, especially when it comes to collecting advance payments from her children. She is very cheerful when facing her mother-in-law and making small mistakes. She is very gentle when sharing her thoughts with her husband. She is very cute when teasing her cute and handsome grandson. My mother, she doesn't have this so-called domineering aura. She doesn't have high heels, suits or elaborate makeup. It has a curly hair and ten round, short and fat fingers. Before she arrives, her cheerful laughter has already set the tone. She's a queen, nurturing children and bringing warmth to a home. If a father is the spiritual pillar, the backbone of a family, then I say a mother is the soul, the indispensable spirit that surrounds and accompanies, weaving through the beams of a home. I believe a so-called powerhouse woman has an inexhaustible inner strength that supports her through life's ups and downs. She transforms that strength into warm and cheerful energy, melting the icy challenges encountered along the way, warming the lonely corners of her heart. It's not just about being savvy and competent in the workplace. It's not about scanning people from head to toe with sharp eyes. It's certainly not about using sharp language to discuss, evaluate, or even attack. I, in the end, haven't become a powerhouse woman like my mother. I lack a firm mindset, lack immense strength, and adhere to the theory that avoiding things isn't shameful; if it's something I don't want to face, then just leave it be. Or maybe it's because no one has ever described me as gentle?! #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Empress #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #皇后 #溫柔的力量

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe 樹樹對於豬隊友般的同組同仁感到氣憤，不能理解為何可以如此不上心，不在意。 樹樹認為若無心，那為何不選擇離開，為何要在公司裡，在團隊中，迫害著別人，影響努力工作者的心情，偷竊認真工作者的努力成果。 樹樹說今天下班前跟豬隊友同事吵架了，其他同事對豬隊友喊請趕快離職，可以嗎。 天兒呀，共事已到這般水火不容的程度，工作時彼此的心情都在煎熬吧。 樹樹問，為何工作上什麼事情都要人家盯？為什麼要這樣擺爛？為何這樣還不離開公司？ 這，有時恐怕連當事人都沒能有所謂的正確答案。 明白我的回覆樹樹應該是不滿意的，但是我認為現在聊的這情況不是在論對與錯，也不是可以說如何思考，如何做是正確的。 『人，這個中文字，很簡單，就2撇，但，也讓我們看出來，當不同的人時，思考方式不同，彼此的距離就會很遙遠，此時就會需要溝通、 協調。』 樹樹無法理解為何我給她這樣沒有具體的句子。 只有短短數十分鐘的時間，該怎麼說？能怎麼說呢？ 有時候，錯誤的人在錯誤的地方，與其他人無法共融，埋怨也就越來越旺盛；有時，正確的人在錯誤的地方，被欺、被凌、被虐，好好的人，再有多強大的雄心壯志，也會被磨到無菱無角。 世上的事情都太難二分法了，即使是孩子眼中也明白，眼睛看到的所有東西，不是只有黑色和白色兩種，所以呀放手未必是懦弱，堅持有可能是逞強。 至於何時放手才比較好，何時應該要堅持？這只怕神仙也不敢論斷，我又怎可能知道呢。拜託，就別問這種傻白甜的蠢問題了吧。 向宇宙請求給樹樹的祝福指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【宇宙Universe】。 宇宙想告訴年輕又上進的樹樹，這個世界很大，大到我們窮極此生都走不遍，看不完。地球之外還有宇宙，宇宙的無限，更是現在的人類無法想像的神秘與深奧。 現在眼前的不管是不欣賞的人，還是工作上的問題，於宇宙而言如桑海一粟，渺小，沒有重量，也不特別。 樹樹是個自我要求與期望都蠻高的女孩，人生路是一直往前走的，樹樹的志向更是在更高、更遠的層次，不在眼前。 莫位現在的小事給磨損了心志。 離開的時候，就是老天給的答案。 只是，老天從未說過，離開的人會是誰。 Translation: October 25, 2024 - Shushu: The Universe Shushu feels furious at her teammates, whom she describes as "pig teammates," wondering how they can be so indifferent and careless. Shushu can’t understand why, if they lack the will, they don’t choose to leave. Why stay in the company and on the team, making others suffer, impacting the morale of those who work hard, and stealing the achievements of those who put in genuine effort? Shushu mentioned that she argued with her "pig teammate" coworker before leaving work today, and that other colleagues even urged this coworker to leave as soon as possible. Alas, working together has become so unbearable that both sides must be agonizing during work hours. Shushu asks, “Why does everything at work need to be monitored? Why are they slacking off like this? Why don’t they just leave the company?” Sometimes, even those involved might not have a clear answer. I know Shushu may not be satisfied with my response, but I think that this situation isn't about who's right or wrong, nor is it something we can simply reason through or determine what the “right way” is. "The Chinese character for 'person' is simple, made of just two strokes, yet it also reveals that when people differ, the distance in thinking between them can be vast, and that’s when communication and coordination are necessary." Shushu can't understand why I gave her such an abstract reply. With only a few minutes to talk, what more can I say? Sometimes, the wrong person in the wrong place grows increasingly resentful due to incompatibility with others; other times, the right person in the wrong place is deceived, bullied, or oppressed. Even the most ambitious and resilient people can have their sharp edges dulled. Life’s issues rarely divide cleanly; even children understand that the world is not just black and white. So, letting go is not necessarily a sign of weakness, and persistence might sometimes be a form of stubbornness. When is it better to let go? When should one persist? Even deities wouldn’t dare make a call on this, so how could I possibly know? Please, let’s skip these naive questions. Seeking guidance from the universe for Shushu, I drew the tarot card: The Universe. The universe wishes to tell the young and ambitious Shushu that this world is vast—so vast that even in a lifetime, we won’t see it all. Beyond Earth lies the universe, whose boundlessness is mysterious and profound beyond human imagination. The people she finds unappreciative or the issues she faces at work are, in the universe’s eyes, like a grain of sand in the sea—small, weightless, and insignificant. Shushu is a girl with high standards and aspirations. Her life path is always moving forward, with ambitions that reach higher and further, far beyond what’s right in front of her. She should not let these minor issues wear down her will. When it's time to part ways, that is the answer from above. However, heaven never tells us who will be the one to leave. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough 剛稍早，雷神可能這次不在團隊內，天空先悶了一些時間，然後碰一聲，大雨直接傾落，連反應的時間都沒有，若人在外面，妥妥成了落湯雞。 人生會有這樣類似的情景，沒有個心理準備，馬上來個大轉變，幾乎通常都是”無常”這腳色的主場。 一瞬間，天雲變色。 一瞬間，山崩地裂。 一瞬間，意外傷亡鐵錚錚的事實，從前再也無法挽回。 今日跟朋友聊著生活，聊著人生，聊著”變數”，剎那間，對於努力前進和拼命動力，有著嘆息的句點。 可是，人生路上，就是這樣，想法改變沒有停止線。 感嘆是一時，計畫與周全是一世。 我們在嘆息聲中領悟。 我們在挫折聲中成長。 我們在悲憤淚水裡立志更加堅強。 我們在打擊崩垮下濛濛渺渺茫茫。 有句歌詞，「愛情就像一條河，每個人都是摸著石頭過河。」 人生，不也是，像一條河，有奔騰，有停滯，有涓涓細流，有深深的漩渦。 今天的塔羅牌是『突破』。 讓我想起以往工作經驗的習慣。 工作，難免會遇到困境，面臨僵局。 我會視情況而思考要如何面對。 有種事情屬於非常重要等級，不過節奏不須太急躁，因重要而無法輕鬆面對，任何的動作皆會影響後續發展與發酵，但還有時間可以酌量。 這時，建議採取的方式”緩”或”暫停”。 等局勢。 局勢先動，我們再伺機調整行動。 也會有這樣的事情，重要且急的事情，且已非初次站在擂台上的局，奪得先機是攸關未來走向甚至結局如何。 『突破』是我曾採用過，且成功的戰略。 而進行突破之前，得先破除僵局。 僵局破除之法在於『突破』之道。 所謂『突破』 ~ 不是”甘願與否”、”願不願意”或”想不想要”的衡量與思考。 面臨的是就是必須轉變，必須調整，必須改變。 帶著急迫的節奏。 帶著且戰且走且調整的謀略。 考驗的是危機處理能力，冷靜思考能力與團戰是否共心。 提刀上馬，勇往直前，跳躍障礙，衝過攔阻，是最佳制敵之心法。 在戰場上，不能讓猶豫拉垮行動力，不能讓三心兩意澆熄戰鬥力。 去吧！衝吧！實踐吧！ 像奔騰跳躍中的駿馬 ~ 蹬！跳躍！漂亮！完美落地！ Today's Tarot: Breakthrough Just a while ago, it seemed like Thor wasn't on the team this time. The sky stayed cloudy for a while, then with a crash, heavy rain poured down without warning, leaving no time for reaction. If you were caught outside, you'd be soaking wet in an instant. Life can throw us similar situations. Without mental preparation, sudden major changes occur, often with the role of "impermanence" taking center stage. In an instant, the sky changes color. In an instant, mountains crumble. In an instant, the harsh reality of unexpected casualties, irretrievable once gone. Today, chatting with friends about life, about the variability of life, there was a sigh, a punctuation mark to the efforts and driving force to move forward. Yet, on the path of life, thoughts change without a stop sign. Sighing is momentary; planning and consideration are lifelong. We find understanding amidst sighs. We grow amidst setbacks. We resolve to be stronger amidst tears of frustration. We navigate through the haze amidst crushing blows. There's a lyric that goes, "Love is like a river, everyone is feeling their way through." Isn't life, too, like a river? It rushes, it stagnates, it trickles, it swirls deep. Today's Tarot card is 'Breakthrough'. It reminds me of habits from past work experiences. In work, encountering difficulties and facing deadlocks is inevitable. I assess how to proceed based on the situation. Some matters are of utmost importance but don't require haste. Because of their significance, they can't be approached lightly; any action will affect subsequent developments and outcomes, but there's still time for deliberation. In such cases, it's advisable to take a "slow" or "pause" approach. Wait for the situation to unfold. Let the situation move first, then adjust our actions accordingly. There are also situations that are both important and urgent, and it's not the first time facing such challenges. Seizing the initiative is crucial for determining future outcomes and even the final result. 'Breakthrough' is a strategy I've employed before and succeeded with. But before a breakthrough can happen, the deadlock must be broken. The method to break the deadlock lies in the path of 'Breakthrough'. The so-called 'Breakthrough' isn't about whether one is willing or unwilling, or whether one wants it or not. It's about the necessity of change, adjustment, and transformation. It's urgent. It requires a strategy of fighting while adapting. It tests crisis management abilities, the capacity for calm reflection, and whether the team is united. Take up the sword, mount the horse, advance courageously, leap over obstacles, and charge through barriers; this is the best strategy for defeating the enemy. On the battlefield, hesitation dulls action; wavering weakens combat prowess. Go forth! Charge! Act! Like a spirited horse leaping forward—kick, leap, elegant, perfect landing! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Breakthrough

2024 0606 今日塔羅：皇后 Empress

2024 0606 今日塔羅：皇后 Empress 前一天晚上，我與整個世界斷了連結。 看著塔羅牌，腦袋空空的。 翻轉塔羅牌，思緒空空的。 這是長期內耗造成的困境。 這次內耗的形成原因不在他人，在自己。 總是貪心地想要了解更多事情。 總是貪婪地想要知道更多知識。 尤其是身心靈這塊領域。 無論是古老的東方還是遙遠的西方。 無論是過去還是現在。 只要清醒著的時間，聽課、上課，幾乎佔了絕大部分的時間。 能吸收嗎？ 有消化嗎？ 時間不夠吸收，不夠消化。 但學習的機會都是唯一。 也許等有比較多時間可以進行時，課程已不再招開。 我們永遠不會知道未來是什麼情況等著我們。 所以，我珍惜當下的做法就是，若有需要學習的課程，只要時間允許，就排進時間表裡。 原來，我看似無所事事的休息期，被自己的恐慌和貪心給佔據了。 雖然我已跳離職場，卻又忍不住擔憂若不跟進相關議題和資訊，與職場的脫節，是否會造成封閉的自己。 這證明了我是平凡人啊。 自以為能夠淡定，可能是壓抑。 自以為能夠疏離，可能是逃避。 建立自己安全的情感狀態，迫在眉睫，得注意與面對。 想念溫暖的土壤。 想念清新的草地。 想念艷麗的花朵。 想念和煦的微風。 想念涓涓的小溪。 想念無際的天空。 想念我四處逍遙的自然風景。 今日的塔羅是皇后。 皇后，更深層的含意是大地。 大地，更直接的連結是母親。 你心中的母親是什麼模樣？ 我的姪子姪女分別落在兩個世代，一個世代現在剛大學畢業，另一個世代是落在青少年，他們彼此之間剛好相差十歲。 在年長姪子姪女世代，他們認為他們的母親是世上最棒的。 帶著他們一起玩，一起瘋狂。 帶著他們一起打遊戲，探索世界，學習成長。 進得了廚房，上得了廳堂。 進得了遊戲間，上得了學習殿堂。 較年輕世代的姪子姪女，對於媽媽，是溫柔、美麗、優雅的形像。 輕聲細語的溝通、交流與叮嚀。 跟他們一起研讀聖經，一起面對生命中的所有艱難。 他們知道，父母雖然是成人，是所謂的大人，也是會恐懼、害怕，想躲避，不想面對。 對我來說，我母親的形像，是堅忍的屹立不搖，是超猛的行動力，個子雖嬌小卻有著無比強大的力量。 母親的聲音，是爽朗的笑聲，是快速用力的切菜聲，是噗哧噗哧鍋上熱湯滾動的聲音。 皇后 ~ 是滋養與孕育。 是溫暖與安全。 是掌控與占有。 是守護與維繫。 是付出與傳承。 是依附與束縛。 Tarot of the Day for 2024/06/06: The Empress The night before, I disconnected from the entire world. Looking at the Tarot cards, my mind went blank. Flipping the Tarot cards, my thoughts were empty. This is the dilemma caused by prolonged internal exhaustion. The cause of this internal struggle lies not with others but within myself. I always greedily want to understand more things. I always greedily want to know more knowledge. Especially in the realm of body, mind, and spirit. Whether it is the ancient East or the distant West. Whether it is the past or the present. As long as I'm awake, most of my time is spent listening to classes and attending lectures. Can I absorb it? Can I digest it? There isn't enough time to absorb or digest it. But the opportunities to learn are unique. Maybe by the time I have more time to engage, the courses will no longer be available. We never know what the future holds for us. Therefore, my way of cherishing the present is that if there is a course I need to learn, as long as time permits, I schedule it. It turns out that my seemingly idle rest period was occupied by my own panic and greed. Although I have left the workplace, I can't help but worry whether not keeping up with relevant issues and information will lead to a disconnect that will close me off. This proves that I am an ordinary person. Thinking I can remain calm might just be repression. Thinking I can be detached might just be escapism. Establishing a safe emotional state for myself is urgent and must be addressed. I miss the warm soil. I miss the fresh grass. I miss the vibrant flowers. I miss the gentle breeze. I miss the trickling stream. I miss the boundless sky. I miss the natural scenery where I roamed freely. Today's Tarot is the Empress. The deeper meaning of the Empress is the Earth. The more direct connection to the Earth is the Mother. What does the mother in your heart look like? My nieces and nephews are from two generations: one has just graduated from college, and the other is in their teenage years, with a ten-year gap between them. The older generation of nieces and nephews believes their mother is the best in the world. She plays with them and goes crazy with them. She plays games with them, explores the world, and learns and grows together. She can handle the kitchen and manage the living room. She can navigate the game room and the hall of learning. The younger generation of nieces and nephews sees their mother as gentle, beautiful, and elegant. She communicates, interacts, and gently reminds them. She studies the Bible with them and faces all the challenges in life together. They know that although their parents are adults, they also experience fear, want to hide, and sometimes don't want to face things. To me, the image of my mother is one of unwavering resilience, incredible action, and immense strength despite her small stature. Her voice is the sound of hearty laughter, the swift and forceful sound of chopping vegetables, and the bubbling of hot soup on the stove. The Empress ~ Is nourishment and nurturing. Is warmth and safety. Is control and possession. Is protection and maintenance. Is giving and inheritance. Is attachment and restriction. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Empress

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner 最近有朋友們發現，對於文字的用字上，我有自己的較真。 也許我用的詞不常見，或者有可能自創的句子，朋友們覺得很是生動與貼近。 心裡很是開心。 被看見，被欣賞的滿足。 前天晚上的線上課程學習到一個新詞「擾動」。 課堂上老師是用在與靈魂、靈性有關。 比如，擾動靈魂，擾動心性。 不知道大家之前是否有曾聽過這動詞。 以往我只聽過「攪動」、「攪亂」、「擾亂」。 所以一聽到「擾動」，感到好興奮，認為學到一個新詞，且這詞好適合用在身心靈關於能量運動中的狀態。 在『學習者』塔羅牌的這一天，建議大家可以試著將自己的心房打開，也許會不經意的有新學習，新獲得。 在學習過程中，我發現自己總是非常貪心地什麼都想碰觸一些。 以正向思考來說，我的學習是雜食派，只要有興趣的，就東碰一點，西碰一些，妥妥當當地符合學生時代對於經營管理系或企業管理系的期待，就是啥都知道，啥都能扯，能聊，但若再往深一點扒，那就真不知道有什麼料可被挖掘。 以消極面來說，很多面向都知道一些，那可能就是其實都不懂。 不懂深度，不懂門道，不懂專業，也就不懂何謂。 四不懂，就難與專業人士真正的交流與分享，有點可惜。 不過，「多欲為苦，生死疲勞。枉心不歇，歇即菩提。」* 若今日所學能有彈性，是為了累積生命的厚度，想學什麼事情，也要有機緣才有機會學習，這是人生樂事無誤。 喜歡學習的人，對於眼界，不會侷限。 看事情呢，有著更大的寬度與包容。 對新事情喜歡探索，總在探索中，新事物、新訊息，與自己舊有的制約產生衝擊與火花。 我很佩服那些可以從這些火花中，抓到靈感，進而規劃、實現自己的理想或事業的人。 有人喜歡從歷史學習，有人喜歡探索未知。 領航者塔羅牌，這張『學習者』是水晶小孩。 水晶小孩，感覺象徵著剛挖掘出來並洗淨、淨化過的水晶，如同小孩，擁有純真，待鍛鍊、雕琢的心智，像是個大池，等著倒入許多新奇好玩的事物。 這個大池如同我們的心智，倒進入的，將會影響許多事情如何選擇，如何決定的資料來源。 有些是訊息，有些是學習，有些是經驗，有些是代價。 我們的心智需要鍛鍊與磨練，需要學習與吸收。 心智的運作，心智的能量，心智的潛力，心智的影響與心智的陷阱，總是多元、多樣又變化多種。 在鍛鍊歷程中，也要小心注意，過去的成功方式，不一定適用現在，適時的因應與調整是必須的。 這時，新的問題來了，什麼時候需要調整？適時是指什麼？因應對策是什麼？如何調整？調整為什麼？ 要尋求、找到這一切切問題的答案，關鍵只有一個，那就是學習。 不斷學習，精進學習，多元學習，跳出舊有框架思維的學習，也許有機會能慢慢找到答案。 Tarot of the Day, June 27, 2024: The Learner Recently, some friends have noticed that I am quite particular about my choice of words. Maybe the words I use are uncommon, or perhaps I create my own sentences. My friends find them very vivid and relatable. This makes me very happy. The satisfaction of being seen and appreciated is immense. The night before last, I learned a new term, "disturbance," in an online course. The teacher used it in the context of the soul and spirituality, such as disturbing the soul or disturbing the mind. I wonder if any of you have heard this verb before. Previously, I had only heard of "stirring," "disrupting," and "disturbing." So, when I heard "disturbance," I was excited, feeling I had learned a new word that perfectly describes the state of energy movement related to body, mind, and spirit. On this day represented by the 'Learner' tarot card, I suggest that everyone try to open their hearts. You might unintentionally gain new knowledge and new insights. In the process of learning, I find myself always wanting to touch on everything. From a positive perspective, my learning is omnivorous. As long as I am interested, I will touch on a bit of everything. This aligns perfectly with the expectations of students in business management or corporate management, knowing a bit about everything, able to talk about anything, but if you dig deeper, there might not be much substance to uncover. On the downside, knowing a little about many areas might mean understanding nothing deeply. Not understanding depth, not understanding the intricacies, not understanding the profession, and therefore not understanding the essence. This superficial understanding makes it difficult to truly engage and share with professionals, which is a bit unfortunate. However, "Desire leads to suffering; life and death bring fatigue. When the mind ceases, enlightenment is attained."* If today's learning can be flexible, it is to accumulate the depth of life. Wanting to learn something also requires the right opportunity, which is indeed one of life's pleasures. People who love learning are not limited by their perspectives. They see things with greater breadth and tolerance. They love exploring new things, always finding new things and new information that clash and spark with their old conditioning. I greatly admire those who can capture inspiration from these sparks and then plan and realize their ideals or careers. Some like to learn from history, while others like to explore the unknown. The 'Learner' card in the Navigator Tarot represents a crystal child. Crystal children symbolize newly unearthed and purified crystals, much like children, with innocent minds awaiting training and honing, like a large pool ready to be filled with many new and interesting things. This large pool, like our minds, influences the choices and decisions we make with the information poured into it. Some are messages, some are lessons, some are experiences, and some are costs. Our minds need training and honing; they need to learn and absorb. The operation of the mind, its energy, potential, influence, and traps are always diverse and ever-changing. In the process of training, we must also be careful. Past successful methods may not apply now; timely adaptation and adjustment are necessary. This brings a new question: When is adjustment needed? What does timely mean? What are the countermeasures? How to adjust? Why adjust? To seek and find answers to all these questions, there is only one key: learning. Continuous learning, diligent learning, diverse learning, and learning beyond old frameworks may slowly lead to the answers. 補充資料來源：”*”之文句係抄自臉書傅月庵老師之文章擷取而來。 咒語：根據您的要求，我已經為您創作了一幅新的插畫。插畫中的主角是一位約40歲的臺灣女性，她的頭髮是中短的，微卷，且表現出一種俏麗和灑脫的氣質。她身著現代的服裝，並披著紅色的斗篷。她正處於一個充滿書籍和學習材料的環境中，面部表情展現出對新知識的好奇和熱情。背景是一個寧靜的學習環境，充滿了書籍和學習材料，強調了學習和知識的重要性。 #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Learner

2024 0403 今日塔羅：成就者 Achiever

2024 0403 今日塔羅：成就者 Achiever 耶！過了今日，就又要開始好幾天連續休假。 春遊，正是現在很適合的事情。 天氣很舒服，心情也跟著鬆鬆然的飄著。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/145382254 今日來個最後衝刺，達標！ 若沒有，怪自己太混，太磨譏，太散漫了。 放假前，把今日效率拉高，衝一波。 日子的盼望，在於平時的打拼。 有人說，不能把希望訂得太過薄弱，顯得志氣小，沒勁。 有人就是適合跳很高，飛很遠。 有人就是習慣靜靜地，慢慢地。 無論怎樣，都好。 大家的期盼，不同，只要欣喜，無論哪樣，都好。 長久以來 土星的紀律 木星的擴展 眾人的辛勞 團隊的合作 大家的共識 投入了資源、金錢、精神、心力和時間 勝利成就在不遠前方，等著成功歡呼聲！ 有時，沒到一定程度，實在看不出努力的方向對不對。 有時，像個天真孩子，只懂悶頭努力，反而更能等待到一片光亮。 成就，有很多樣貌。 財富是一種，人脈是一種。 職位是一種，名氣是一種。 我偏偏喜歡的不是上面列出的任何一種。 我喜歡的成就是，沒給父母丟臉，沒讓晚輩覺丟人。 當朋友想起我的時候是笑顏。 當敵人想到我的時候會汗顏。 我堅持的原則很傻。 傻得讓人覺可笑。 至今，我仍不後悔。 從事人力資源的工作，做到客觀、公正、沒有私心，很難，我很努力將自己的好名聲維持在一定的高度。 我追求的最高成就 ~ 無愧。 有了無愧，不怕偶遇。 達到無愧，不怕打雷。 做到無愧，不怕蓋棺論定。 既無愧，也就能坦然立於天地。 2024/04/03 Tarot Reading: Achiever Hey! After today, it's time for several consecutive days off. Spring outings are just right now. The weather is pleasant, and the mood is relaxed. Today, let's make a final push and reach the goal! If not, blame yourself for being too lazy, too procrastinating, too scattered. Before the holiday, let's increase efficiency for today and make a final push. The hope of days lies in the usual hard work. Some say, don't set hopes too weak, it shows a lack of ambition. Some are suited to jump high, fly far. Some are accustomed to quiet, slow progress. Whichever way, it's all good. Everyone's expectations are different, as long as they are joyful, it's all good. For a long time, The discipline of Saturn, The expansion of Jupiter, The hard work of everyone, The cooperation of the team, The consensus of everyone, Investment of resources, money, spirit, effort, and time. Victory and achievement are just ahead, waiting for the cheers of success! Sometimes, until a certain point, it's hard to see if the effort is right. Sometimes, like an innocent child, only head-down effort can wait for a bright future. Achievement comes in many forms. Wealth is one, connections are another. Position is one, fame is one. But what I like is none of the above. The achievement I like is not embarrassing my parents, not making the younger generation feel ashamed. When friends think of me, they smile. When enemies think of me, they sweat. The principle I adhere to is very silly. Silly enough to be laughable. Yet, to this day, I have no regrets. Working in human resources, achieving objectivity, fairness, and selflessness is difficult. I work hard to maintain my good reputation at a certain level. My ultimate pursuit - to be without regret. With no regret, I fear no encounters. Having reached a state of no regret, I fear no thunder. Being without regret, I fear no posthumous judgment. Being without regret, I can stand confidently in the world. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Achiever

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest 辛苦了，64女士 ~ 宇宙送給妳的祝福是【豐收 Harvest】。 過去不得不逼自己強大，強悍的妳，現在是採收過去辛勤努力勞動成果的時候。 妳的付出，有人看見，有人視而不見，但不管如何，都不會被抹煞消失，那些辛苦的過程，點點滴滴都深刻在妳自己的心裡頭。 妳分享，妳付出，享受的人給予的回應只有當下簡單的謝謝兩個字，感覺像是妳的給予和疼惜是理所當然，所以受傷的妳對於這樣的回應，難過與傷心常在心中翻攪個不停。 妳自問，錯了嗎？給，錯了嗎？ 給，和付出，是何等高貴的行為，何況給的對象不是妳的家人，而是妳的親人。 只是，多情的人總是傻，卻又那麼地自以為是。 將對情感的需求建構在這樣有點歪扭的架構下，當對方沒能同等回應情感時，就覺被利用，被辜負，好受傷，好難過，好傷心。 付出，是妳當時心甘情願的，不是嗎？ 給予，是妳當時心思所盼的，不是嗎？ 他們，沒討，沒要，沒求，一切都是妳的主動。 是把愛想得太過功利了。 是心中匱乏到竟然要利用給予的恩，換來日常的愛。 是的，我確實是這樣認為的。 當我們聊到這裡時，我也審視著我自己，我是否也捲進這樣的漩渦中而不自知，而感到傷心，難過？ 跟妳聊天，原本是妳感到苦悶想找人說說話，沒想到，跟妳對話觸動到我的心裡，甚至讓我自己反思著一些情況。 當然與妳聊天的結尾，我給予妳祝福和鼓勵，沒讓妳知道的是，那些話我也是在寫給自己的。 謝謝自己。辛苦了。 妳的付出，妳的給予是美麗的，當下的歡喜與喜樂，就是最好的回應和回饋。 若心意，帶著算計，這不是心意，這是企圖，是謀取。 當初的給予就是那樣的單純，唯有這樣純粹的美好，值得放在我們的心裡。 善與好的流動，有時回到身邊的，不是以具體的形式回來，也不是曾享有妳的疼愛的人的回應，有時，老天會派不同的人來到妳身邊，也許是偶然的驚喜，也許是化險為夷的安康，也許是平安與健康。 妳所曾付出的，老天都會讓那樣的善回到妳身邊。 老天，必不虧待每個真心誠意的。 而妳和我，其實，都一直享受著豐收而不自知。 願你我都能更懂得明白且接收到善與美的回應。 November 19, 2024 Ms. 64: Harvest Dear Ms. 64, You’ve worked hard, and the universe is sending you its blessing: Harvest. In the past, you were forced to become strong, even tough. Now, it’s time for you to reap the rewards of your tireless efforts. Your contributions may have been noticed by some and overlooked by others, but no matter what, they cannot be erased. Every moment of your hard work is etched deeply in your heart. You give, you share, and the only response you often receive is a simple “thank you.” It feels as though your care and generosity are taken for granted. This lack of appreciation stirs a constant wave of sadness and hurt within you. You ask yourself, “Was it wrong to give? Was it wrong to care?” To give, to contribute, is such a noble act, especially when it’s not directed toward your immediate family but your loved ones. Yet, those who are deeply emotional can sometimes be naïve and overly self-assured. When we build our emotional expectations on fragile foundations, the absence of reciprocation leaves us feeling used, betrayed, deeply hurt, and heartbroken. But wasn’t your giving voluntary at the time? Wasn’t your offering driven by heartfelt intent? They didn’t demand, ask, or beg—it was all your initiative. Perhaps you’ve turned love into something transactional. Perhaps the void in your heart led you to use giving as a way to secure love. Yes, that’s exactly what I believe. As we discuss this, I reflect on myself: Have I also unknowingly fallen into this whirlpool of emotions, feeling hurt and sorrowful? Talking with you began as your need to vent, to find someone to talk to. But during our conversation, your words touched my heart and even made me reflect on my own situations. At the end of our talk, I gave you my blessings and encouragement. What I didn’t tell you is that those words were also meant for myself. Thank you, dear self. You’ve worked hard. Your giving and generosity are beautiful. The joy and happiness of the moment are the best forms of feedback and gratitude. If our intentions are laced with calculation, they cease to be intentions—they become schemes and strategies. The purity of your original offering was what made it beautiful. Only such pure beauty deserves a place in our hearts. The flow of goodness doesn’t always return in obvious forms. Sometimes, it doesn’t come from those who benefited from your love. Instead, heaven may send someone new into your life, perhaps as a pleasant surprise, a safeguard from harm, or blessings of peace and health. The goodness you have given will always find its way back to you. Heaven never shortchanges the sincere and kind-hearted. Both you and I have actually been enjoying the harvest all along without realizing it. May we both come to better understand and embrace the responses of goodness and beauty. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor 昨白天搞砸了兩件事情，精神因前天的晚上，為了準備充裕點好面對昨晚塔羅面談，複習相關資料到凌晨兩點多，後又因太晚去睡覺而遲遲無法順利入睡，導致睡眠不足而恍惚。 第一件事，每天我會在第一聲鬧鐘醒來，起床準備早餐。 早餐準備很簡單兩步驟，按下咖啡機，按下電鍋蒸蛋和饅頭。 然後回去床上賴床一下。 結果昨早上，我忘記了。 想起來時趕緊跑進廚房，要出門時，發現饅頭的中間仍是冷凍狀態，當下沒想那麼多，將蛋放進去午餐袋後，就出門。 等紅綠燈的時候，肚子有點餓，想拿出雞蛋吃，發現只摸到熱呼呼的液狀物質。 看。 我的媽呀！沒有熟的蛋，破殼了，蛋黃流淌在袋子裡，又透過袋子網隙縫滴到車子椅墊上。 顧不了課程已開始進行，清潔、整理要先進行，否則下課時開車門，經過高溫曬過的蛋液，不臭也腥。 今天老師要搭乘火車回台北。 想說順路，載她一程。 到了車站，老師沒下車，繼續在車上跟我聊天。 我不知道車站前停車有科技執法的攝像機，等發現時，已不知道拍了多少照片，罰單會有幾張？罰款會有多少？ 我害怕，卻也無能為力。 自己沒有留心、留意，能怪誰。 晚上要進行面談考試了。 資料好多，頭好痛，肚子好餓，怎麼辦？ 早餐的內容，晚上再吃一次，最是省時，省力，省心。 電鍋蒸著，人先睡著，資料放著，二十分鐘後，醒了，頭不痛了，有食物吃了，可專心讀書了。 今晚有點苛刻自己，無妨。 畢竟，經年累月的積累出來的胖，很久才這樣精簡的一頓，撼動不了已穩若磐石肥肉的。 完成一件拖延二年多的事情。 總算，完成。 原本的一手好牌，被我的漫不經心，拖延至情勢轉變了，不怪誰，但必須得責罰自己。 錯誤的代價，沒上心，等於沒學到，白搭，白費。 如何責罰呢？ 要求自己接下來的暑假，得兢兢業業地整理過往學習資料、資訊，不得延遲。 畢竟，現在是在耕種未來的福田。 現若偷懶，來日，哪來的收成。 今日塔羅牌是『創造者』。 多好啊。 生活的便利起始於創造。 創造的起因於人性。 怎樣的人性會讓人想創造，點子發想。 有時是為了討好他人。 有時是為了拯救世界。 很多時候是為了賺大錢。 更多時候是因為想偷懶。 不管是為了什麼，總之這些的因素轉化成了動力。 動力放在行動十足的人身上，那根本就是上緊發條，加足馬力的情景。 源源不絕的創造力，讓人羨慕不已。 創造力，加上科技產品的應用，生活便利，哄人開心，製造驚喜，製造更多時間得以享受生活，享受人生。 新創意，可落實，會帶來龐大財富。 想法很多，是好事。 想法太多，無法落實，是恐怖的落差，會讓人焦躁，心煩。 有想法，要整理，要釐清，要評估自身能力，要評估輕重緩急，要計畫，要落實。 思慮太多，腦瓜子受不了，會抗議。 若依然沒調整作法，腦袋小宇宙大爆炸，那就糟糕了。 所以，別貪心，別著急，別心慌。 心急吃不了熱豆腐，急躁無法品味細雕慢啄的精緻。 檢視一下。 有時汰換老舊設備，更新老派思維，調整老式觀點，也許就茅塞頓開，發現有時候，想太多了，不知不覺中思緒早就扭歪了卻不自知。 梳理思緒，有助於將創造力發揮價值，並創造價值。 2024-06-20 Today's Tarot: The Inventor Yesterday, I messed up two things. My mind was hazy due to staying up until 2 AM the night before to prepare for last night's tarot reading. I couldn't fall asleep easily, resulting in a lack of sleep and a state of confusion. The first incident happened in the morning. I usually wake up to the first alarm and prepare breakfast. The process is simple: press the coffee machine button, and then the electric cooker button to steam the eggs and buns. Then, I go back to bed for a while. However, I forgot yesterday morning. When I remembered, I rushed to the kitchen, only to find the buns still partially frozen. Without thinking much, I put the eggs into my lunch bag and left the house. While waiting at a traffic light, feeling hungry, I reached for an egg only to find a warm, liquid substance. Oh no! The eggs weren't cooked and had cracked, with the yolk leaking into the bag and dripping onto the car seat. I had to clean up immediately before attending my class, otherwise, the egg liquid would become unbearable under the sun by the time class ended. Today, my teacher is taking the train back to Taipei. I offered her a ride to the station. At the station, she continued chatting with me in the car. Unbeknownst to me, there were surveillance cameras enforcing parking regulations. By the time I noticed, I didn't know how many photos had been taken or how many fines I would receive. I felt helpless and scared, but it was my own negligence. In the evening, I had an interview exam. With so much material to review, my head hurt and I was starving. The simplest solution was to have the same breakfast again for dinner. I set the electric cooker and took a nap. Twenty minutes later, I woke up feeling better, with food ready and a clearer head for studying. I was hard on myself, but it was necessary. After all, years of accumulated weight can't be shed by a single meal. I finally completed a task that had been delayed for over two years. It was my own lack of diligence that allowed the situation to change, and I must hold myself accountable. The cost of a mistake is not learning from it, which is a waste. To penalize myself, I committed to diligently organizing past study materials and information over the summer, with no delays. After all, the present is the time to cultivate future blessings. Slacking off now means no harvest later. Today's tarot card is 'The Inventor.' How wonderful. The convenience of life begins with creation, which is rooted in human nature. Different motivations drive invention—sometimes to please others, sometimes to save the world, often to make money, and more frequently out of laziness. Whatever the reason, these factors convert into motivation. When such motivation drives a proactive person, it's like winding up a clockwork mechanism and boosting its power. Endless creativity is enviable. Combined with the application of technological products, it brings convenience, joy, surprises, and more time to enjoy life. New ideas, if implemented, can bring great wealth. Having many ideas is a good thing. However, too many unimplemented ideas can lead to anxiety and frustration. It's important to organize, clarify, assess one's abilities, prioritize, plan, and execute ideas. Overthinking can overwhelm the brain, leading to protests. If not adjusted, it might result in a catastrophic mental explosion. Therefore, don't be greedy, anxious, or panic. Haste makes waste, and impatience can't savor the finesse of delicate work. Sometimes, replacing outdated equipment, updating old thoughts, and adjusting old perspectives can provide clarity. Often, overthinking leads to distorted thoughts without us realizing it. Organizing thoughts helps maximize creativity and create value. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Inventor

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity 昨日有小小的不開心。 上課教室空調因過去空間配置與現在的方式不一樣，導致左右兩邊像是冰山和赤道。 左邊舒適宜人時，右邊得穿上戴帽外套，冷風還會從袖口、褲管口灌進，冷吱吱的。 若是右邊溫度感受舒服，那左邊就會像被掐喉般，悶得透不過氣來。 因此，右邊同學去調整了空調設定，左邊同學不開心，自己又不想說這事，用一個很可笑的理由要我去跟右邊同學溝通。 我拒絕了。 我表示，這是小事，你可以直接跟他溝通的。 這與我跟那位同學交情比較好，無關。 沒把這事放在心上的我，在休息時間跟左邊同學打招呼，被他刻意忽視，不理會。 我就這樣被列入他冷暴力的名單裡。 多無辜呀。 對於不成熟、不理智的人，我們很多時候真的是莫可奈何。 我當然可不以為意，但同學的態度確實有讓我感到難過和不舒服。 在過去幾週一起上課的期間裡，這位同學很常找我協助他，在休息時間一直拉著我要聽他說一些負面心情的話。 他說，他沒有可以說說話的人。 他今天的反應讓我反思過去幾週我對他的包容與體諒是不是太多了。 不過這樣多次互動，也就較清楚知道，課程結束後與他不會成為朋友我也不會有小小的難過。 結果，今天的塔羅牌抽到『負面性』。 若你也有這樣的情緒，不妨抽絲剝繭一下，想想是甚麼事情，甚麼原因造成的。 我現在的這課程蠻吃力的，週一確實會是大家要為新的一週學習課程重新調整步調，週二大部分同學都已可進入狀況。 不過，週二的課程內容很繁瑣，非常細緻的各種人工智能指令。 還沒上課，我的心已感到比平時多些煩躁。 可能積累了這段時間的疲憊，也沒能找到時間好好休息，我的心情就也輕鬆不起來，直盼望著這週趕緊結束，趕快過去。 我好再度迎接”無所事事的美好歲月”。 『負面性』 ~ 總看到對方的缺點。 昨天的我，是。 總覺得對方過於負面。 昨天的我，是。 最近開始抱怨自己，批評別人。 關於自己，我是。 關於他人，有一點點 … 其實也就是有。 學習 ~ 學習對負面思緒說”不”。 學習對負面情緒說”滾”。 學習對負面腦袋說”斷”。 學習對負面體驗說”捨”。 學習對負面批判說”離”。 學習看見光，享受光的明亮。 學習感受愛，沉浸愛的溫暖。 學習辨真實，相信實的穩固。 學習悟真理，了解真的坦率。 Tarot for Today, 2024-06-18: Negativity Yesterday, there was a bit of unhappiness. In the classroom, the air conditioning setup didn't match the current space layout, causing the left and right sides to feel like an iceberg and the equator, respectively. When the left side felt comfortable, people on the right had to wear hooded jackets, with cold air seeping in through sleeves and pant legs. If the right side felt comfortable, the left side would feel suffocatingly hot. As a result, a student on the right adjusted the air conditioning settings, which made the students on the left unhappy. Instead of voicing this issue, one of them asked me to speak to the student on the right, using a ridiculous excuse. I refused. I said this was a small matter that they could handle directly. This had nothing to do with the fact that I was better friends with the student on the right. I didn't dwell on this, but during the break, when I greeted the student on the left, they deliberately ignored me. Just like that, I was added to their silent treatment list. How innocent I am. Dealing with immature and irrational people often leaves us helpless. While I can shrug it off, the student's attitude did make me feel sad and uncomfortable. Over the past few weeks of class, this student often sought my help and constantly pulled me aside during breaks to vent their negative feelings. They said they had no one else to talk to. Their reaction today made me reflect on whether I had been too tolerant and understanding over the past few weeks. However, after these repeated interactions, it's clear that once the course is over, I won't feel sad about not becoming friends with them. As it turns out, today's tarot card is "Negativity." If you also have such emotions, try to dissect and analyze what events and reasons caused them. This course I'm taking is quite challenging, and Mondays are when everyone has to readjust to the new week's learning pace. By Tuesday, most students are already in the groove. However, Tuesday's course content is very detailed and intricate with various AI commands. Even before class started, I felt more restless than usual. Perhaps due to accumulated fatigue and not finding time to rest properly, I haven't been able to lighten my mood, and I'm just hoping this week will end quickly so I can return to "the beautiful days of doing nothing." Negativity Always seeing others' flaws. Yesterday, that was me. Always feeling that others are too negative. Yesterday, that was me. Recently starting to complain about myself, criticize others. About myself, yes. About others, a little bit...actually, yes. Learning Learn to say "no" to negative thoughts. Learn to say "go away" to negative emotions. Learn to say "cut off" to negative thinking. Learn to say "let go" to negative experiences. Learn to say "leave" to negative criticism. Learn to see the light, enjoy the brightness of light. Learn to feel love, immerse in the warmth of love. Learn to recognize truth, believe in the solidity of truth. Learn to understand truth, appreciate the honesty of truth. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Negativity

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

#Alyson搜尋結果

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough

2024 0606 今日塔羅：皇后 Empress

2024 0606 今日塔羅：皇后 Empress

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0403 今日塔羅：成就者 Achiever

2024 0403 今日塔羅：成就者 Achiever

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

#Alyson搜尋結果

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。 今日牌卡：皇后

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。 今日牌卡：皇后

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough

2024 0606 今日塔羅：皇后 Empress

2024 0606 今日塔羅：皇后 Empress

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0403 今日塔羅：成就者 Achiever

2024 0403 今日塔羅：成就者 Achiever

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后