2024 0425 今日塔羅：熱情 Passion

2024 0425 今日塔羅：熱情 Passion 經過昨日被安撫好的挫折，今日心情已趨向平靜。 甚至有可能安慰的人實在是太懂難過的心靈，話語講得溫柔婉轉，如黃鶯出谷餘音繞樑，受傷得以平息外，像是引擎可拉高至1000匹馬力，身體都覺有點輕盈，可起舞一番。 結果，今日的集體塔羅牌果真就抽到了極具激揚心念的心牌卡 ~ 『熱情』。 你有熱情嗎？ 對什麼人會展現你的熱情？ 是什麼事會激出你的熱情？ 是什麼人或事可延續你的熱情？ 熱情，是什麼？ 經理人雜誌於一篇『熱情是做你「喜歡」的事， 不是你「非做不可」的事』文章中寫著：『根據研究，熱情的來源可分為「和諧性熱情」（harmonious passion）和「強迫性熱情」（obsessive passion）。 「和諧性熱情」是指因為「喜歡」從事某件事情而主動去做。 「強迫性熱情」則是認為自己「必須」從事某項活動，從中證明自己的價值而著手行動。』 這樣的論調跟『對你來說，工作是「職業」還是「事業」？』的思考脈絡很是雷同。 不過也有許多人跟我一樣，雖然工作只是「職業」，可我們卻是用像是拚自己的「事業」般那樣投入，那樣熱情，那樣奮不顧身的拼命。 「熱情」這張塔羅牌 ~ 是聖杯牌組裡的第十張。 是飽滿，快要溢出來的激動情感。 色調是飽滿且貴氣騰騰，獅頭金杯在牌卡正中間，黃澄澄地閃耀著。 象徵獅子狂熱的追尋他的使命。 也許是森林的動物之王，可能是獅群的領導者，可能是危險來臨時最強大的保護者。 不管獅子頭的鬃毛是否豎立起來，認真的獅子總是威嚴且精神抖擻地。 今天，熱情地表達情感！ 但若是生氣，請先冷靜，讓憤怒之氣息稍稍冷卻，再進行溝通。 不然，怕正事還沒開始討論，對方已被你的怒火給燒得心臟快要停歇，不敢也無法理性地回應。 今日別害怕感受情感。 喜歡探索自己的內心世界，表示想要成長，想要了解，想要解惑，想要學習。 當踏出第一步，即已為自己開啟了靈性世界的那扇門。 這是為自己感到驕傲與喜悅的時刻。 日本「經營之聖」稻盛和夫曾經分享了他的工作觀以及人生觀之「方程式」： 「人生‧工作的結果」＝「思考方式×熱情×能力」。 美國的主持人麥克．羅 （Mike Rowe）在探索頻道 （Discovery Channel）的實境秀《幹盡苦差事》（Dirty Jobs）裡體驗挖礦、捕鱷魚、鑽油井、修鐵路等300種我們一般人心中的「辛苦工作」。 在體驗過200多個工作後，他用全新的角度去看見苦差事背後的認真與笑容。 他認為世界上那麼多危險、骯髒、氣味難聞等的苦差事，若沒有一群群的人默默付出，我們大家根本就無法有所謂乾淨、進步的現代生活。 他看見了每份苦差事的背後，都有無可取代的價值和打自心底樂在其中的人。 『Don't follow your passion, but always take it with you. 別朝著熱情的方向前進，而是不管往哪走，都讓熱情與你同行。』 來自：─麥克．羅（Mike Rowe） 資料來源：©經理人 https://www.managertoday.com.tw/articles/view/40097?utm_source=copyshare 資料來源：2013-05-01 Cheers 雜誌152 期 Today's Tarot: Passion After being comforted from yesterday's setbacks, today's mood has tended towards tranquility. It's even possible that the comforter truly understands the pain, speaking with gentle words that soothe like the lingering melody of a nightingale. With the wounds eased, it feels like the engine can rev up to 1000 horsepower, and the body feels a bit lighter, ready to dance. As a result, today's collective Tarot draw indeed pulled the card of passionate thoughts - "Passion". Do you have passion? For whom do you show your passion? What things ignite your passion? Who or what can sustain your passion? What is passion? According to an article in Manager Magazine, passion can be divided into "harmonious passion" and "obsessive passion". "Harmonious passion" is engaging in something because you "like" it. "Obsessive passion" is feeling that you "must" engage in an activity to prove your worth. This perspective resonates with the question, "Is your work a 'job' or a 'career'?" But like many others, even though our work is just a "job", we invest in it with the dedication, passion, and determination as if it were a career. The Tarot card of "Passion" is the tenth card in the Suit of Cups. It represents overflowing, almost bursting, emotions. The colors are rich and luxurious, with a lion's head cup shining in the center. It symbolizes the lion's fervent pursuit of its mission - perhaps as the king of the forest animals, the leader of a pride, or the most formidable protector in times of danger. Whether the mane of the lion's head is raised or not, a serious lion always exudes dignity and vigor. Today, express your emotions passionately! But if you're angry, please calm down first, let the anger subside a bit, and then communicate. Otherwise, before the discussion even begins, the other person might be burned by your anger, unable to respond rationally. Don't be afraid to feel emotions today. Exploring your inner world indicates a desire for growth, understanding, clarity, and learning. By taking the first step, you have already opened the door to your spiritual world. It's a moment to be proud and joyful. The Japanese "management sage" Kazuo Inamori once shared his formula for work and life: "Results of life and work" equals "way of thinking times passion times ability". American host Mike Rowe, in the reality show "Dirty Jobs" on the Discovery Channel, experienced over 300 kinds of "dirty, tough jobs" such as mining, alligator hunting, oil drilling, and railroad repair. After experiencing more than 200 jobs, he saw the seriousness and smiles behind the tough jobs from a new perspective. He believes that without the silent dedication of countless people in the world, we would not have the clean, progressive modern life we enjoy. He saw the irreplaceable value and the genuine joy in every tough job. "Don't follow your passion, but always take it with you." —Mike Rowe Sources: Manager Today Sources：Cheers Magazine Issue 152, May 1, 2013. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Passion

2024 0516今日塔羅：月亮 Moon

2024 0516今日塔羅：月亮 Moon 每日累積的學習，我已較不慌張，也慢慢進入狀況。 雖然跟不上的時候居多，再多花些時間，也可已有明顯進展。 自己可掌控的感覺，慢慢地回到生活裡，很好。 這起頭得一個多月來，從陌生到有點適應的過渡期，不要輕易遺忘。 在這段不輕言放棄的日子裡，一堂一打擊，一天一失落，一堂一進步，一日一讚賞，堂堂、天天、日日、步步都是妙不可言的好時光。 若沒有好同學們的協助與鼓勵，恐被驚嚇幾天後就會萌生退意，或者是，即使繼續學習，可不會像今日這般享受著學習的過程，享受著累積經驗的過程，享受著倉皇失措，不知該如何是好的窘況，還成為我與同學們之間共同的記憶笑點。 我，情感豐沛。 我，敏感察覺。 每天都是我的月亮日，而農曆初一十五對我情緒的影響更是猛烈。 今天我們大家的塔羅牌是『月亮』。 而今天是農曆初九。 算是月兒半熟時，不是月缺，也非月圓。 『月亮』這張塔羅牌 ~ 女人當道日。 聽女人的話，鴻運當頭似榮錦。 讓女人說了算，低谷盡頭似退休。 女人當家，鬍鬚讓柳眉，日日逍遙似神仙。 今天，要相信你的直覺。 活躍得靈感，要記得緊緊抓牢。 敏銳的感知力，讓你有點疲於應付，但只要學會淨化，你就是勇者一枚。 月亮是週期的代表。 陰晴圓缺，既是潮汐漲退，也是情緒高漲與疏離。 有時，有人，莫名的冷淡，無關是非對錯，是月亮啊。 緣分，不分善孽，皆感覺是宿命的牽引，避不開，逃不了。 是真愛，是無法自拔的依戀。 是迷戀，是無法清醒的想像。 真實，需要靠智慧判斷。 《月亮惹得禍》 「我承認都是月亮惹的禍，那樣的夜色太美你太溫柔， 才會在剎那之間只想和你一起到白頭。 我承認都是誓言惹的禍，偏偏似糖如蜜說來最動人， 再怎麼心如鋼鐵也成繞指柔。」 都是月亮的錯，暈黃的朦朧太美讓人感到迷惑。 都是月亮的錯，月弦如勾太動人讓人感到衝動。 浪漫得無可救藥，期盼牽手到白頭。 在月亮的日子裡，夢幻是主調，理智、邏輯無法成為特效藥。 走錯了路，嚐到了人生的苦，才發現失控是瘋魔，自以為是成了無可救藥。 在掌控範圍裡瘋狂。 在理性殿堂裡抓狂。 這樣有界限的毀壞，是可承受的傷。 反覆無常，時而敏感，時而冷淡，若即若離，是人際之間最跨不過的坎。 今天，心情是陰天，可能常會有一點小感傷，但無妨。 若日日是豔陽，苗兒枯死，汗淌淌，腦沉沉，想跳進水裡泡個涼。 若感傷，淚未先留，已曬乾，臉頰像沙灘，淚水已成沙。 說到底，今天，月亮，就是廢話多一耙。 沒力了，散場，待明日再繼續談。 Tarot of the Day for 2024-05-16: The Moon The cumulative learning each day has made me less anxious, and I am gradually getting the hang of things. Although I often fall behind, spending a little more time has led to noticeable progress. The sense of being in control is slowly returning to my life, which is great. Over this past month or so, transitioning from unfamiliarity to a bit of adaptation should not be easily forgotten. During these days of not giving up, each lesson and each setback, each day and each disappointment, each lesson and each progress, each day and each praise, every class, every day, every step is a wonderful time. Without the assistance and encouragement of good classmates, I might have considered quitting after a few days of fright. Even if I continued learning, it wouldn’t be as enjoyable as it is now, enjoying the process of learning, the process of accumulating experience, and even enjoying the panic and confusion, which have become shared memories and jokes among classmates and me. I am emotionally rich. I am keenly perceptive. Every day is my moon day, and the lunar phases on the 1st and 15th of the lunar month have a strong impact on my emotions. Today's Tarot card for all of us is "The Moon." And today is the 9th day of the lunar month. It's a time when the moon is halfway through its cycle, neither new nor full. The Moon Tarot Card ~ A day for women to take the lead. Listening to women brings great fortune. Letting women take charge makes even the lowest points feel like a restful retirement. With women in charge, beards bow to eyebrows, and every day is a carefree delight. Today, trust your intuition. Hold tightly to your lively inspirations. Your acute sensitivity may be tiring, but if you learn to purify it, you are truly brave. The Moon represents cycles. Waxing and waning, it mirrors the ebb and flow of tides, as well as the peaks and valleys of emotions. Sometimes, someone might be inexplicably cold; it’s not about right or wrong, it’s the Moon’s influence. Fate does not distinguish between good and bad; it feels like a predestined pull, unavoidable and inescapable. True love is an irresistible attachment. Infatuation is an unbreakable illusion. Reality requires wisdom to discern. "The Trouble Caused by the Moon" "I admit it’s all the Moon’s fault, the beauty of the night and your tenderness, Making me want to grow old with you in an instant. I admit it’s all the promises’ fault, sweet as sugar, most touching, Even a heart of steel would become soft and pliable." It’s all the Moon’s fault, the hazy beauty is too enchanting, causing confusion. It’s all the Moon’s fault, the crescent is too captivating, causing impulsiveness. Hopelessly romantic, longing to hold hands until old age. In the days of the Moon, fantasy is the main theme, and reason and logic cannot be the cure. Taking the wrong path, tasting the bitterness of life, then realizing losing control is madness, and thinking oneself incurable. Being crazy within control. Being frantic in the hall of reason. This kind of limited destruction is a bearable wound. Inconsistent, sometimes sensitive, sometimes cold, close yet distant, this is the hardest hurdle in human relationships. Today, the mood is overcast, there may be some minor sadness, but it's okay. If every day were sunny, the seedlings would wither, sweat would pour, the brain would feel heavy, and you’d want to jump into water to cool off. If sad, before tears fall, they have dried, cheeks like a sandy beach, tears turned to sand. In the end, today, the Moon means more nonsense. I’m out of energy, show’s over, we’ll talk again tomorrow. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Moon

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0614 今日塔羅：力量 Strength

2024 0614 今日塔羅：力量 Strength 昨天，又是充滿挫折的一天。 學習了那麼多時數，實際練習也好幾次，但記憶好像僅限於當天存在似的，當需要運用時，腦袋空空。 又完成了一份不是自己獨立作業的作品。 老師笑得無奈，我也微笑得回應了我的無力感。 我很認真學習，真的。 但我卻始終記不住。 現在甚至回頭在翻看講義，陷入像看其他語言書籍或天書，那般難懂，看了數次，也未能勾起一點點回憶。 老師問我說，你都還給我了嗎？ 我尷尬地回應說，是你的，我始終都沒有拿走過。 聽到的同學們哄堂大笑。 難受，無力，難過，無法跨過。 這電腦圖層的變化技巧，我跨不過去。 跟同學分享說，我覺得人工智能的文字生圖方式還是比較適合我。 同學笑說，她同意。她說，我還是比較擅長發號司令，找厲害的人來執行。 原來，我今日的和諧是，我與自己的能力不足和解。 我終究還是放棄了我實在是無法勝任的圖層概念。 於是繳交作業，老師說，這作品，真美。他做的。 我也說，這作品，真的很美。我想的。 我們合作無間。 套句最近我常說的一句話，「我很有想法，但我就是沒有辦法。」 還好，我還有個優點，懂求救，坦率接受也向他人表示自己的無能力情況，並親切拜託他人的協助及指導。 這樣的情況，我認為也能呼應到今日的塔羅牌『力量』。 我們總會覺得，力量是存在在自己的身體裡，肌肉裡，還有意志裡。 這次的學習，我明白，力量，不一定是陽剛，不一定是陰柔，且不一定是發自自己的身體和內心裡。 力量，也可來自於他人。 只要我們能夠尋求協助，並真誠請求他人的協助。 各種不同的力量，串聯在一起，團體在一起，發揮的不會只是團結的力量，還有共同心願的能量。 在『力量』這張牌的圖案裡，有一位輔助祭祀的人，雙肩和頭頂，扛著和頂著一個圓弧底的玉石，玉石中間放著一顆像是會滾動的蛋，若沒能保持平衡，沒能全心專注，很容易就會發生蛋掉落。 而這顆蛋象徵著什麼？ 象徵著每個人心中珍惜，視為珍寶的人事物。 有的人是名聲，有的人是家人孩子，有的人是做人做事的原則，也有的人是日日變動增加的銀行存款。 當認知到自己珍惜的事情，更會花費一百二十個心思去保護，維持，甚至也有可能發生搶奪。 為了保守自己的所愛，所堅持，需要力量。 力量的形容詞是強大。 強大的力量可幫助我們保護好，也有助於我們取得想要的。 為了擁有力量，需要做好多努力。 群體中，是領導者，統御者，擁有力量。 擁有了力量，需繼續堅持原則，並且莫忘初衷。 力量，若沒有慎用，傷人，誤己，又壞事，不得不小心。 在我們平凡人的人生裡 ~ 因被需要，而激發力量。 因被愛著，而產生力量。 因擁有，而擁抱力量。 因失去，而渴求力量。 因力量，得以守護。 因力量，得以展現。 因力量，得以自在。 因力量，得以駕馭。 要溜走的，不甘願留下的，緊握，不放手，不是力量，是蠻力，是暴力。 溫柔的力量，才能直搗人心，才能讓人交心，託付真心，給予真心。 Tarot for Today, June 14, 2024: Strength Yesterday was yet another day full of frustrations. Despite putting in countless hours of study and practice, it felt as though my memory only lasted for the day. When it came time to use that knowledge, my mind went blank. Once again, I completed a project that wasn’t entirely my own work. The teacher smiled wryly, and I responded with a smile that conveyed my sense of powerlessness. I truly am studying diligently. But I just can’t seem to remember. Now, even when I look back at my notes, it feels like I’m reading a foreign language or some incomprehensible text. No matter how many times I review them, they fail to jog any memories. The teacher asked me, “Did you return everything to me?” I awkwardly replied, “It’s yours. I never took it.” The classmates around us burst into laughter. I felt distressed, powerless, and sad, unable to overcome these feelings. This technique of altering computer layers is beyond my grasp. I told my classmates that I find AI-generated text-to-image more suitable for me. One classmate agreed, joking that I’m better at giving orders and finding skilled people to execute them. It turns out, my harmony today is about making peace with my limitations. In the end, I had to give up on the concept of layers that I simply couldn’t master. When I submitted the project, the teacher said, “This work is beautiful. He did it.” I replied, “Yes, it’s truly beautiful. I thought of it.” We collaborated seamlessly. As I’ve often said lately, “I have many ideas, but I just can’t execute them.” Fortunately, I have one advantage: I know how to ask for help, accept my limitations frankly, and sincerely request assistance and guidance from others. This situation, I believe, also resonates with today’s tarot card, Strength. We often think that strength resides within our bodies, muscles, and willpower. Through this learning experience, I’ve come to understand that strength doesn’t have to be masculine or feminine, and it doesn’t always come from within ourselves. Strength can also come from others. As long as we can seek help and sincerely request assistance from others. Different strengths can come together, forming a collective that not only manifests the power of unity but also the energy of shared goals. In the imagery of the Strength card, there is an assistant priest who carries and balances a curved jade stone on their shoulders and head. Inside the jade stone is an egg that seems like it could roll out at any moment. If the balance is lost, if full concentration is not maintained, the egg can easily fall. What does this egg symbolize? It represents the things we cherish and hold dear in our hearts. For some, it’s reputation; for others, family and children; for some, it’s principles in life and work; and for others, it’s the ever-increasing balance in their bank accounts. When we recognize what we cherish, we are more dedicated to protecting, maintaining, and sometimes even fighting for it. To preserve what we love and stand for, we need strength. The adjective for strength is powerful. Powerful strength helps us protect and obtain what we desire. To possess strength, we need to put in a lot of effort. In a group, the leader, the commander, possesses strength. Once we have strength, we must continue to adhere to our principles and never forget our original intentions. Strength, if not used carefully, can hurt others, mislead oneself, and cause harm, so we must be cautious. In our ordinary lives, strength is sparked by being needed. Strength arises from being loved. Strength grows from having something to hold on to. Strength is sought after in loss. Because of strength, we can protect. Because of strength, we can shine. Because of strength, we can be free. Because of strength, we can control. What wants to slip away, what is unwilling to stay, if we grasp it tightly and refuse to let go, that’s not strength; it’s brute force, it’s violence. Gentle strength can touch hearts, build trust, and foster genuine connections and true kindness. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Strength

2024 0902 給阿雄的祝福：女祭司 Priestess

2024 0902 給阿雄的祝福：女祭司 Priestess 阿雄，你好，今天的你提早到。你問是否可提早開始，剛好我也沒其他事情，於是我們就馬上開始今日的約談，並且開門見山地直接了解你遇到的問題還是困難。 你說，工作非常忙，今天和同事有一點小糾紛。 你說，你討厭現在的上班氣氛，同事之間不互相幫忙，該認真工作都不認真，整天只知道嘻皮笑臉。 曾經擔任人力資源工作的我馬上先了解，「主管知道嗎？主管有清楚你們團隊現在的工作狀況嗎？主管有採取任何行動嗎？」 你說，「主管知道，但不管，你講到很多次狀況，可是都沒有什麼幫助。」 還說，「主管說，那些都是新人，一些時間熟悉工作後，就不會這樣散漫了。」可是，沒有人告訴新人應該要做到什麼工作，都已經來一個月來，還是新人？你說，你很想吐槽主管這句話。 阿雄，很多工作，到職一個月而已，真的還只能算是新人，甚至即使到職三個月，也還是只有新人的程度。 我說，「會不會在對於新人的定義，你和主管的想法不同。」「你覺得怎樣的工作表現不算新人 … 。」我還沒說完想要表達的，心情不好的你搶話說道，「我很想跟老闆說，〝你知道你在說什麼嗎？時間是不等人的，其他人不上手，工作要做比較多的是你。」 接著，你不太想聽我說了，你持續說著，「根本沒辦法好好工作。」「上班不喜歡被外物影響。」「業務工作很競爭，沒有時間可以浪費。」 我能感受到現在的工作環境讓你感覺到窒悶，沒有被重視，甚至有被同事拖後腿的感覺。 我試著詢問，「有沒有試著跟同事溝通，大家一起努力工作 … 」。 我的話還是沒有機會說完，你說，「不想說太多，不想牽扯太多。」「已經浪費太多時間在這裡了。」「做得夠多，說的也很多，沒人贊同。」「需要更好的工作環境。」「繼續這樣下去不知道我可以撐多久。」「真的倒楣，工作遇到這些隊友。」 我趕緊插話說，「今天要不要先從修改履歷開始？」 你說，「也是可以，不過想要明天才開始。明天休假。」 都好，終究是要開始，要有行動，才會有機會改變。 於是最後我建議了，「履歷修改好後，先放下一兩天，然後再拿出來看，思考可以再如何調整，哪裡要修改，這樣履歷的品質會更優。」 你道謝後，說「心態不好，做什麼事情都做不好，亂手亂腳的。」「討厭這樣的心態在工作。」 我說，「也許你的好運就在你轉換的地方等著你。」 情緒還有點上頭的你說，「或許真是這樣。很多事情沒遇到不知道。」 我說，「只有前進才知道前方有什麼等著我們。」 你說，「沒錯，原地踏步怎麼會有成長。」然後接著說，「其實我自己已經決定好了想怎麼做。就從明天開始做。」 宇宙給阿雄的塔羅牌祝福和消息：【女祭司 Priestess】。 情緒遲遲無法冷靜的阿雄，不佳的情緒狀況會影響我們的思緒和判斷。能明白在紛紛擾擾與不開心的狀況下，冷靜是多麼不容易的事情。 不過我們都知道，沒有了冷靜，就沒有辦法客觀的審視情況，事情或同事也許沒有你現在認為的那麼糟糕。 喪失了冷靜，也會造成無法平衡的評估自己。 有的時候看似積極進取的決定與行為，其實是另一種消極的逃避與抗議。 試著讓自己come down一點，再決定要如何改變，有的時候改變，不一定是指環境的不同，而是我們的觀念與態度不同。 Blessings for Ah Hsiung on September 2, 2024: Priestess Hello, Ah Hsiung. You arrived early today. You asked if we could start earlier, and since I had no other plans, we immediately began today's session, diving straight into understanding the issues or difficulties you are facing. You said that work has been very busy, and today you had a minor dispute with a colleague. You mentioned that you dislike the current work atmosphere, where colleagues don't help each other. Those who are supposed to work seriously don't, and they just fool around all day. Having worked in human resources before, I immediately inquired, "Does your supervisor know? Are they aware of your team's current work situation? Have they taken any action?" You said, "The supervisor knows but doesn't care. You've mentioned the situation many times, but nothing much has been done." You also mentioned, "The supervisor said that those are just new employees, and after some time getting familiar with the job, they won't be so lax." But no one has told these new employees what they are supposed to do. They've been here for a month; are they still considered new? You said you wanted to retort to the supervisor's comment. Ah Hsiung, in many jobs, after just one month, you are still considered a newcomer. In fact, even after three months, you might still be at the level of a newcomer. I said, "Perhaps your definition of a newcomer differs from your supervisor's. What kind of job performance do you consider to not be that of a newcomer...?" Before I could finish expressing my thoughts, you interrupted in your frustration, saying, "I really want to tell the boss, 'Do you even know what you're saying? Time waits for no one. If others don't get the hang of it, the ones who have to do more work are us.'" Afterward, you were not too keen on listening to me. You continued, "I can't work properly in such an environment. I don't like external influences at work. The business environment is highly competitive, and there's no time to waste." I can feel that the current work environment makes you feel stifled, undervalued, and even held back by your colleagues. I tried to ask, "Have you tried communicating with your colleagues, encouraging everyone to work hard together...?" Before I could finish, you said, "I don't want to say too much or get too involved. I've already wasted too much time here. I've done enough and said enough, but no one agrees. I need a better work environment. I don't know how long I can keep going if things continue like this. It's really unlucky to work with these teammates." I quickly interjected, "How about starting by updating your resume today?" You said, "That's also possible, but I'd rather start tomorrow. I'm off tomorrow." That's fine. The important thing is to start; actions lead to opportunities for change. Finally, I suggested, "After updating your resume, set it aside for a day or two, then review it again to see what can be adjusted or modified. This way, the quality of your resume will be even better." After thanking me, you said, "When my mindset is off, nothing I do goes well, and I feel clumsy. I hate having this kind of mindset at work." I said, "Maybe your good fortune is waiting for you at the place where you make a change." With your emotions still high, you said, "Maybe that's true. You don't know until you encounter it." I said, "Only by moving forward will we know what awaits us ahead." You replied, "That's right; there can be no growth by standing still." Then you added, "Actually, I've already decided what I want to do. I'll start tomorrow." The Tarot card blessing and message from the universe for Ah Hsiung: Priestess. Ah Hsiung, your lingering emotional turmoil can affect your thoughts and judgment. It's understandable how difficult it is to remain calm amidst turmoil and unhappiness. However, we all know that without calmness, it's impossible to objectively assess the situation. Things or colleagues may not be as bad as you currently perceive. Losing calmness can also lead to an imbalanced evaluation of yourself. Sometimes, decisions and actions that seem proactive are actually another form of passive avoidance and protest. Try to calm down before deciding on any changes. Sometimes, change doesn't necessarily mean a different environment but rather a shift in our mindset and attitude. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0419 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devils Play

2024 0419 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devils Play 學習課程的內容對我來說實在是蠻困難的。 今天忍不住跟班主任說，看著大家的背影，追得好辛苦。 班主任苦笑回覆說，妳得繼續撐著。苦，得忍著。不然要賠錢的。 聽到這話，我也只能握緊拳頭，默默低著頭進教室裡繼續上課。 好久沒有這樣的心情了 ~ 開心迎接週五的心情。 真是太棒了！ 今天，是週五，地獄學習週我撐過了第二次。 下次，就是第三次需要再度經歷的苦熬日子了。 不過，那也是兩天後的事情。 今晚，就來歡樂放鬆一下啦。 昨天就計畫了，週五的晚餐要吃點不一樣的。 鹹酥雞？炸雞？還是披薩呢？ 好想念有夥伴，與朋友同公司工作的情景。 週五晚，可以相約吃晚餐，喝咖啡，聊得天南地北都不怕累。 現在，買了披薩還要考慮吃不完，怎麼辦。 宇宙知道我們經過一週的努力工作，認真學習，都挺累得。 宇宙說 ~ 魔鬼之樂之夜！開趴囉！ 就是歡樂，就是激情，就是興奮不已。 喝一杯，喝兩杯，喝得天花亂墜，小心危險，注意安全。 犒賞自己，慰勞自己，辛苦了！ https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/147134758 當然可以慶祝的，自己身上經歷的辛勞，自己最清楚，自己不重視，不對自己好些，要等誰呵護妳呢？ 等一等，不可怕。 恐怖的是，慢慢等，慢慢等，等到花兒都謝落了，還沒等來。 慶祝生命力 ~ 慶祝辛勤努力 ~ 慶祝歡喜收穫 ~ 慶祝豐收喜樂 ~ 若要送走悲傷，就用歡笑與愉快吧。 若要提振精神，就用歡樂與開懷吧。 若要破除舊有，就用喜樂與更新吧。 今天是二十四節氣的穀雨。 據說是黃帝向全國百姓和丞相宣布倉頡造字的成就，在這一天，天空下起了一場雨，雨中帶著許許多多的穀米。 在這節氣裡，有些事情要注意： l 不要生氣 忽冷忽熱的天氣，讓我們的身體光是適應就耗費不少元氣，別再加重身體的負擔。 l 不要穿太少衣物 還沒到完全夏天，小心夜間露水重，別著涼。 l 不要去森林 冬眠的動物們已甦醒，肚子很空很餓的他們，單獨或成群結隊外出覓食了。別去驚擾他們的饗宴。 l 注意濕氣 雨下完了，太陽還沒來，青苔倒是先趕上了。 濕，讓環境增加了危險，讓身體增加了黏滯感，不清爽，不舒服。 l 注意傳染病 春風吹呀吹，吹到妳我的心窩，也吹起了無法斷絕根部的雜草及等待風起的病毒。 小心，還是戴起口罩，保護自己吧。 l 別輕易去山區 春雷動，春雨落。 在山中，在山谷，在溪河裡。 暴漲，不知會是何時何地。 不熟悉，別亂入。 熟悉，別輕忽。 在這個重要的節氣，請妥善照顧好自己的健康與安全。 Tarot Reading for April 19, 2024: Devils Play The content of my study course is quite challenging for me. Today, I couldn't help but tell the homeroom teacher that chasing after everyone's backs was so exhausting. The homeroom teacher smiled bitterly and replied, "You have to keep holding on. Endure the bitterness, or else you'll lose money." Hearing this, I could only clench my fists tightly, silently lower my head, and continue attending classes in the classroom. It's been a while since I felt like this - eagerly welcoming the mood for Friday. It's just great! Today is Friday, and I survived the second week of hellish learning. Next time, it will be the third time I have to endure such hardship again. But that's two days away. Tonight, let's relax and have some fun. I planned it yesterday; I want something different for Friday dinner. Fried chicken? Pizza? I miss having companions, working in the same company as friends. On Friday evenings, we could arrange to have dinner together, drink coffee, and chat endlessly without getting tired. Now, after buying pizza, I have to consider what to do if we can't finish it. The universe knows we've worked hard all week, studied seriously, and we're all quite tired. The universe says, "The night of devil's play! Let's party!" It's all about joy, passion, and excitement. Have a drink, have two, indulge until you're dizzy. Be careful, it's dangerous. Reward yourself, comfort yourself, you've worked hard! Of course, you can celebrate; you know best the hardships you've experienced, if you don't value yourself, who else will take care of you? Wait a moment, it's not scary. What's terrifying is waiting slowly, waiting until the flowers wither, and still not getting what you waited for. Celebrate vitality, Celebrate hard work, Celebrate joyous harvest, Celebrate abundant joy. If you want to bid farewell to sadness, use laughter and joy. If you want to boost your spirits, use joy and openness. If you want to break free from the old, use joy and renewal. Today is the Grain Rain, one of the twenty-four solar terms. It is said that on this day, Emperor Huang announced the achievement of Cangjie in creating characters, and it rained heavily with lots of grains. During this solar term, there are some things to note: *Don't get angry. The sudden changes in temperature make our bodies consume a lot of energy just to adapt, don't burden yourself further. *Don't wear too little clothing. It's not fully summer yet, be careful of heavy night dew, don't catch a cold. *Avoid going into the forest. Hibernating animals have woken up and are very hungry. They are going out alone or in groups to find food. Don't disturb their feast. *Watch out for humidity. After the rain, before the sun comes out, moss has already appeared. The dampness makes the environment more dangerous, and the body feels sticky and uncomfortable. *Be mindful of contagious diseases. The spring breeze blows, blowing into your and my hearts, also blowing up the weeds and viruses waiting for the wind. Be careful, wear your mask to protect yourself. *Don't easily go to mountainous areas. Spring thunder, spring rain. In the mountains, in the valleys, in the streams. Flash floods, we don't know when or where. If you're not familiar, don't enter. If you're familiar, don't underestimate it. During this important solar term, please take good care of your health and safety. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #DevilsPlay

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner 以前總會說，「太陽底下確實沒有什麼新鮮事」，安撫著大驚小怪，呼天搶地的人們。 這幾年高科技的發展，去除掉人的貪念，對於權勢的慾望而製造許多的戰爭、紛爭以外。 我想以前的網路免費電話和視訊，到近年的人工智能，這應該都是新鮮事了吧。 從去年開始參加一些學習課程，有些內容聽著聽著就覺得索然無味，有些課程不僅是津津有味，連班上同學看起來都可愛極了，這真是很棒的收穫。 想要學習的思緒與心情延續到了今年。 最近的我要在二個半月內學會三到四個電腦軟體。 第一個禮拜，同學們是收穫頗豐，我是挫折滿滿。 後來才知道只有我和另一位同學從未接觸過這些軟體，其他同學感覺是再進修，再研習的。 上週和家人及朋友打趣道，「我這輩子最認真學習的時光就是現在呢。」 上課認真，尤其是週一到週五的電腦軟體課程，連分心都不敢，一恍神就完全聽不懂，原本就跟不上的我，每堂課都在追趕著大家的背影中度過。 週末假日的課程是完全不同領域，也會有專業內容，艱澀難懂。 雖然忙碌成這樣，每一日，我都覺得有趣極了。 每天就只有進步一點點的進展，也都讓我開心，快樂，還有感到滿足。 雖然我也很想念無所事事的美好，無所事事的另一種充實生活，不過能有新學習，交到新朋友，每天都有話題閒扯，沖淡學習挫折的心情，很是精實的生活。 今天的塔羅牌是『學習者』。 這是我最近的生活寫照呢！ 『學習者』 ~ 允許自己像個孩童般探索著愛情或情感。 沒有一份感情是可以複製、貼上的那樣相似。 獨立的特質，獨立的思考，獨立的情感，獨立的反應，又會因不同的對象，不同的角色，不同的經歷，不同的人格，激盪豐富多元的火花。 這就是人與人相處最為迷人的地方了。 我渴望財富，卻也有許多堅持。 違心的錢，不賺。 雖然我被一些誆過，尤其是保險員。 我不懂的情況下做了錯誤的決定，這樣的虧損，我自己認了。 為了個人業績，沒考量到客戶的需求與經濟情況，為賺佣金而舌燦蓮花，這樣的金錢，這一生的你認為那些是你應得的報酬。 這並非說業務不能賺佣金，賺，當然可以，但若有點欺瞞，有點訛詐，有點規避，有點說謊，那就是很不厚道的事情。 對於金錢，對於財富，我們也需一段時間就思考和釐清，去察覺對金錢的看法和評價。 與健康相比，金錢是在甚麼位置？ 可，沒有了金錢，又要如何照顧到健康？ 多次媒體報導，在許多國家，很多肥胖的人，健康都很不好，但為何無法改變現況，甚至越來越糟糕？ 因為貧窮。 因為便宜的食物很多都是我們所謂的垃圾食物。 曾經我也想嘗試運用綠茶鐵，來改善身體狀況。 購買可以製作一杯綠拿鐵的食材費用是昂貴的，至少是我沒辦法輕鬆負擔得。 健康，無價。 生病，標價。 擁有健康，得有金錢支撐。 關於財富，我們除了學習或試著深思以外，難道就舉手投降，放棄？ 非也。 非也。 關於財富，這也是專業、精深且博大的知識及技能架構出來的。 可，我們可以慢慢學，學習我們需要理解的部分。 對我們的理財、投資或者是規劃，都會有不小的幫助。 持續學習，長久學習。 這不容易，除了毅力外，還要抱持對知識，對資訊的好奇心，渴望和期待裡面的知識有多棒。 寶藏，都是神秘且不容易發覺，挖掘到的。 要知道哪裡有寶藏，得先學習甚麼是寶藏。 還有挖掘、保存、運送、市場與銷售等等的事項要知曉。 唯一之法，學習。 對我來說，學習，真的是挺有意思的。 Today's Tarot: Learner (May 21, 2024) In the past, people often said, "There is nothing new under the sun," to soothe those who were easily startled and panicked. However, recent advancements in high technology have proven otherwise, aside from the greed for power that leads to wars and conflicts. From free internet calls and video chats in the past to the artificial intelligence of recent years, these indeed are new developments. Since last year, I’ve been participating in various learning courses. Some of them are quite dull, while others are not only fascinating but also make the classmates look extremely adorable. This has been a wonderful experience. My eagerness to learn continues this year. Recently, I’ve committed to learning three to four computer software programs within two and a half months. The first week, while my classmates gained a lot, I felt immense frustration. I later found out that only one other classmate and I had no prior experience with these software programs; the rest were just refreshing and furthering their knowledge. Last week, I joked with my family and friends, "The most diligent learning period of my life is now." I attend classes seriously, especially the computer software courses from Monday to Friday. I dare not let my mind wander for a moment, or I’d completely lose track. Each class is a race to catch up with everyone else. Weekend courses are in entirely different fields, also involving specialized content that is complex and challenging. Despite being so busy, I find each day incredibly interesting. Even a little progress every day makes me happy, joyful, and satisfied. Though I miss the bliss of idleness and the fulfilling life it brings, I cherish new learning experiences, making new friends, and having daily conversations that lighten the mood from learning setbacks. It’s a truly enriching life. Today's tarot card is 'Learner'. This reflects my current lifestyle perfectly! Learner Allow yourself to explore love or emotions like a child. No relationship can be copied and pasted to be the same. Independent characteristics, independent thoughts, independent emotions, and independent reactions will generate rich and diverse sparks due to different individuals, roles, experiences, and personalities. This is the most charming aspect of human interactions. I yearn for wealth, but I also have my principles. I won’t earn money against my conscience. Though I’ve been deceived before, especially by insurance agents, I acknowledge my mistakes when I made wrong decisions out of ignorance. For those who eloquently sell insurance for their commission without considering the clients' needs and financial situations, the money they earn might seem like their rightful reward to them. This isn't to say that agents shouldn't earn commissions; they can, but if there's deception or dishonesty involved, it’s unethical. Regarding money and wealth, we need time to think and clarify our perceptions and evaluations of money. Compared to health, where does money stand? Without money, how can we maintain our health? Many media reports indicate that in many countries, overweight individuals often have poor health. Why can't they change their situation, or why does it worsen? Because of poverty. Cheap food is often what we call junk food. I once tried to use green tea iron to improve my health. However, the cost of ingredients to make a cup of green latte was too high for me to afford easily. Health is priceless. Illness has a price tag. To maintain health, financial support is essential. Besides learning or contemplating wealth, should we just surrender and give up? No, absolutely not. Wealth is built on extensive and profound knowledge and skills. But we can learn gradually, understanding the parts we need. This will greatly benefit our financial management, investments, or planning. Continuous learning, lifelong learning. It’s not easy. It requires perseverance and a constant curiosity and enthusiasm for knowledge and information, eager to discover how wonderful it is. Treasures are mysterious and hard to find and uncover. To know where treasures are, we must first learn what they are. There are also aspects like excavation, preservation, transportation, market, and sales to understand. The only way is through learning. For me, learning is genuinely interesting. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Learner

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change 現在有一句話說，「變，才是現在永恆的定理。」 跟不上”變”，不想”改變”，不是你唾棄了世界，是世界已走在很前面，遺棄了你。 談”變”還是”改變”，談何容易。 人生在世，有許多珍貴的事物，那些都有著〝不變〞的真理。 真愛，珍愛。 變，就不值錢了。 鑽石、寶石的閃耀與高價在於”不變”。 也許日後變了形，如同人類日漸衰老，英挺帥氣，青春美貌已隨時光漸消失，但本質沒有改變，依然堅如磐石，依然硬如地殼，如同我們愛人的心。 改變，不容易。 論個性，難調。 論品行，難雕。 還好，氣質可靠培養，特質可靠養成。 人生，還有得救，還能有所期待。 最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。 我是想這樣慢慢地調整，改變著自己，分享給大家 ~ 第一，語調的正能量。 從疑問句，驚嘆句，現改為肯定句，溫馨提醒句。 怎麼說呢？ 我現在的寫法：「最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。」 我以前的寫法：「為什麼最近宇宙一直提醒著改變？」 大部分的用字差不多，用心程度也是相近，你喜歡哪句。 第二，鍛鍊樂觀與平衡的心智。 正事越是讓我崩潰，休息時間我越是快樂哼曲調。 生活日日平靜，無味，只要不涉及危險，有點波浪，這海平面也就生動了起來，海底的生物也醒了過來，生機，就盎然了。 第三，做好正念之四好。 四好，賜好。 老天賜予的好好。 好好吃飯。好好睡覺。好好放鬆。好好愛。 心知足，就能專注。 專注，就能做好事情。 事情做好，人就會好好的。 我近年在努力的，就這幾項，不多，可也不容易。 有很多心得與感悟。 有不少灰心及氣餒。 生活即使簡單，也是充滿了改變。 『改變』，你的愛，進入改變期。 不管是愛自己，還是愛著別人，改變，都是為了更美好的將來。 不用擔心，這改變不是誰變了心。 世界確實一直在改變，且速度越來越快，即使快到很難適應，我們也是不得不接受與學習。 很多時候，改變，是蠻好的事情。 科技的改變，讓事情的處理上更輕易。 與地球那端的距離更加拉近。 不在同一個國度或同一時區的彼此，不再那樣困難聯繫，甚至不用花費任何金錢。 科技，讓有心人，更加靠近。 大發利市的趨勢財與智慧財，誰抓得住誰獲利滿滿。 這已不是過去那個認真、努力就能賺錢的時代。 這是個需要衝，且要敢衝，才能賺到錢的時代。 為了生存，我們需改變。 為了未來，我們需改變。 因為改變，不同的壓力，許多的壓力，接踵而來。 現在已不是像過去那樣地一個簡單的時代。 現在，和諧與均衡更加重視，也更加迫切需要。 身體要能迎頭追趕改變，需要後援，需要調整。 身心要能迎接面對改變，需要支持，需要更新。 我們個人的硬體與軟體皆需要懂得改變，才不造成彼此拖累，互相折騰的窘況，方能處在改變之潮流裡，且不被沖走。 每天改變一點點，一個月的改變加起來至少有三十點。 改變，加上時間這項發酵器，是複利的累積。 而你所能做的，就是改變自己不敢向前的腳步。 踏出舊習，踏入新境，心境因應改變而調整，會發現，前進也沒那麼難。 就是辛苦多了一點。 但，不難。 改變，不需等待，不需擇日，動心起念時就可馬上進行。 Today's Tarot: Change There's a saying, "Change is the eternal truth of the present." If you can't keep up with "change" and don't want to "change," it's not that you're rejecting the world; it's that the world has advanced far ahead, leaving you behind. Talking about "change" or "changing" isn't easy. In life, there are many precious things that hold the truth of "unchanging." True love, cherished love. Once changed, they lose their value. The brilliance and high value of diamonds and gemstones lie in their "unchanging" nature. Perhaps they may change form in the future, like how humans age, losing their youthful beauty, but their essence remains unchanged, as solid as a rock, as unyielding as the Earth's crust, like the hearts of our loved ones. Change isn't easy. Difficult to adjust in terms of personality. Difficult to sculpt in terms of conduct. Fortunately, temperament can be reliably cultivated, and special qualities can be reliably developed. In life, there's still salvation, still something to look forward to. Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change. I think I'll gradually adjust like this, changing myself and sharing it with everyone~ First, maintaining a positive tone. From questions and exclamations to affirmations, gentle reminders. How about this? My current wording: "Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change." My previous wording: "Why has the universe been constantly reminding me of change lately? " The choice of words is similar, and the level of care is about the same. Which do you prefer? Second, cultivating an optimistic and balanced mindset. The more stressed I am with work, the happier I hum during breaks. If life is calm every day and tasteless, as long as it doesn't involve danger, a little wave makes the sea surface come alive, and the creatures at the bottom of the sea awaken, vitality abounds. Third, practicing the Four Goods of mindfulness. The Four Goods, the bestowed goods. The goods bestowed by heaven. Eat well. Sleep well. Relax well. Love well. Contentment leads to focus. Focus leads to doing things well. When things are done well, people will be well. These are the few things I've been striving for in recent years, not many, but not easy either. There are many insights and realizations. There's quite a bit of discouragement and frustration. Even if life is simple, it's still full of change. "Change," your love, is entering a period of change. Whether it's loving yourself or loving someone else, change is for a better future. Don't worry, this change doesn't mean someone's heart has changed. The world is indeed constantly changing, and the pace is getting faster. Even if it's so fast that it's hard to adapt, we still have to accept and learn. Many times, change is a good thing. Technological advancements make tasks easier. The distance from one end of the Earth to the other is getting closer. Being in different countries or time zones no longer makes it difficult to connect, and it doesn't even require spending any money. Technology brings like-minded people closer. In the trend of booming financial and intellectual wealth, it's about who can seize the opportunity and profit the most. It's no longer the era where you could earn money just by being serious and hardworking. This is an era where you need to push forward boldly to make money. For survival, we need to change. For the future, we need to change. Because with change comes different pressures, many pressures, one after another. Nowadays, it's not as simple as it used to be. Now, harmony and balance are more valued and urgently needed. Physically, we need support to keep up with the changes, we need adjustments. Mentally, we need support to face the changes, we need updates. Both our hardware and software need to know how to change so we don't burden each other, so we don't end up in a situation where we're dragging each other down amidst the tide of change, but rather we can flow with it without being swept away. Changing a little bit every day, at least thirty points of change add up in a month. Change, coupled with time as a fermenter, is the accumulation of compound interest. And what you can do is to change the steps you're afraid to take forward. Step out of old habits, step into new territory, adjust your mindset in response to change, and you'll find that moving forward isn't so difficult. It's just a little harder. But not impossible. Change doesn't need to wait, doesn't need to choose a day, just act when the urge arises. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion 你是嚴格對待自己的人嗎？ 你是嚴肅要求他人的人嗎？ 你是凡事都認真看待的人嗎？ 你是每句話都在心裡牢牢記著的人嗎？ 當你沒達到自己設定的目標時，你有什麼感受？第一個冒出來的心情是哪一種？是否會分析失敗的原因？這樣的失敗又讓你如何看待自己？ 生自己的氣？ 對自己感到失望？ 當這麼多的負面情緒與想法在腦袋裡亂竄的時候，是否曾有過一絲絲的溫柔閃過？是否曾有想告訴自己一些體己話，「你做得很棒」，「你已盡了最大的努力」。 慈悲，我們會給予長者，給予弱者，給予父母，給予小孩，給予朋友。 慈悲，我們最常忘記給予自己。 在過去拼命的工作生涯中，當有臨時狀況發生的時候，我常會苛責自己，覺得自己能力太差，思慮粗糙，沒有事先設想好可能會發生的所有情況。 於是，在每次的專案活動結束後，我總是將剛結束的相關資料再翻閱一次，並將下次可注意的事情寫完整。 然後，在電腦資料夾裡預設一個下次類似專案的資料夾，裡面存放著我現在對於未來一年後類似活動的預設計劃草稿。 可能就是因為如此在那幾年裡我的身體每半年崩垮掉一次，每次需長達一週以上的時間才能慢慢恢復。 這幾天的身體和心理狀況，很是糟糕，無法進食，連藥粉或者是藥水，身體都會自主排斥的無法吞嚥，還會因過度抗拒而吐，體力更是無法支撐，只能昏睡。 多年後，我放過自己，離開了那個高壓的工作環境。 之前的嚴重內耗，身體反撲得厲害。 需付出的代價，直到今日仍未還清。 苦不堪言，也只能自己承受。 這真是自作虐，就難活的清爽自在。 看著身邊的朋友們，好多人對自己的要求始終都很高。 小說寫著霸道總裁總是很高、很帥、很冷漠，不管是哪項都是”很”這個最高等級。 現實生活中，在職場上，靠著自己拚到一個位置的人，都是很認真、很賣命、很勞碌，也是哪項都是”很”這個等級。 還會被要求高情商、高度協調、高度配合、高度抗壓、高度耐操。 看著社會上那麼多人拚著命，賣著健康的努力，也沒什麼事發生，自己也會是那個幸運兒吧。 可，誰又能保證誰不會是那個”萬中選一”的呢？ 在你的心中，你認為「慈悲」是什麼？ 你如何看待「慈悲」？ 在悲傷的時刻，還能惦記到別人的好，這是共情，是體貼，也是一種慈悲。 倘若在憤怒之際，怒火要噴天時，突然想到對方過去的貼心和彼此間曾有過的笑容，瞬間冷靜下來了，我覺這是一種對他人和對自己的慈悲。 我覺得若眼前的人是曾經欺侮過你，辜負過你的人，懇求你的協助和放下昔日的糾葛，而你，放下了，也放過了，這不只是慈悲；若用這幾年的網路小說用詞，這是聖母神佛層級的大愛，我自認為做不到。 領航者塔羅對於『慈悲』這張牌是這樣認為的 ~ 在愛的世界裡，你是善於為愛注入溫暖和祥和能量的，有你在的場子，大家都會感受到和樂和喜悅。 總是有強大的共情力和同理心，在你的心中及懷抱裡，總是有更多的諒解與更多的寬容。 慈悲有著一隻黃金佛手印，這手印賦予著抽到牌的人，運用慈愛、療癒力及安定力量，去協助與療癒跟你請求指引的人。 因為心懷慈悲，心胸寬大，財運總是會跟隨著善良的人。 財富，範圍不是只有金錢與俗稱的財產，還有許多非具體或實際的。 常有機緣與陌生之人有場愉快的邂垢，就是一種美好的財富。 佛教認為「慈悲」是複合詞，由四無量心的「慈」與「悲」合成，其意義相近。 在網路上看到一位佛教宗師對於「慈悲」的講解，與我內心的以為很是貼近。 「慈悲，原是佛教用語，拆開來看，「慈」是把快樂給人，「悲」是拔一切眾生苦。眾生有苦，我們幫助他解決，帶給他快樂，這個心就叫「慈悲心」。金菩提宗師教導大家：「真正的慈悲就是特別的愛，就像母親呵護孩子一樣的精神特質，包含關懷、包容、真誠、愛心，還有一顆善解人意之心。」慈悲所產生的愛是非常廣博的，他對所有生命都心懷慈悲，從自然界中的山川、河流、鮮花、動物，到任何需要幫助的人，都具有一種憐憫、慈悲之心。」 基督教 「慈悲是讓一個人得到比他應得的還更寬容的對待。 透過耶穌基督的贖罪，才可能有慈悲。 我們的天父知道我們有弱點和罪。 祂寬恕我們的罪，幫助我們回去與祂同住，這就是慈悲的表現。」 不管是哪一種信仰，或是沒有任何信仰。 我覺「慈悲」，是從小我，小愛出發，懂得愛自己的人，不須提醒，自然能夠覺察到別人的用心和難處，會因理解、體諒而溫柔。 慈悲就如同”善”，像漣漪一圈一圈擴散了出去，永不停歇。 資料來源：金菩提宗師 https://www.jinbodhi.org/79729/ Today's Tarot: Compassion Are you someone who holds yourself to strict standards? Are you demanding of others? Do you take everything seriously? Do you hold onto every word spoken? When you don't reach your set goals, how do you feel? What's the first emotion that surfaces? Do you analyze the reasons for failure? How does such failure make you see yourself? Do you get angry with yourself? Do you feel disappointed? Amidst the chaos of so many negative emotions and thoughts swirling in your mind, have you ever felt a hint of tenderness? Have you ever wanted to tell yourself some comforting words like "You did great" or "You've done your best"? Compassion, we give it to elders, to the weak, to parents, to children, to friends. Compassion, the one we often forget to give to ourselves. During my years of relentless work, whenever unexpected situations arose, I often blamed myself, feeling inadequate and poorly prepared, failing to anticipate all possible scenarios. So, after every project, I would review the relevant materials and jot down things to pay attention to next time. Then, I would create a folder in my computer for similar future projects, storing drafts of plans for activities similar to what I had just finished. Perhaps because of this, my body collapsed every six months during those years, taking over a week each time to slowly recover. These past few days, my physical and mental condition has been terrible, unable to eat, unable to swallow even powdered medicine or liquid without my body rejecting it, even vomiting due to excessive resistance, and my strength unable to sustain me, only able to fall into a deep sleep. Years later, I forgave myself and left that high-pressure work environment. The severe internal strain from before led to a strong backlash from my body. The price to pay, still not fully settled until today. It's unbearable, but I have to endure it myself. It's truly self-inflicted suffering, making it difficult to live comfortably and freely. Looking at my friends around me, so many of them have high demands on themselves. Novels depict dominant CEOs as tall, handsome, and aloof, everything being "very" to the highest degree. In real life, those who rise through the ranks in the workplace through their own efforts are very serious, hardworking, and diligent, also embodying "very" in every aspect. They are also expected to have high emotional intelligence, high coordination ability, high cooperation, high resistance to pressure, and high endurance. Seeing so many people in society striving and sacrificing their health without much happening, could I also be one of the lucky ones? But who can guarantee that one won't be the "one in a million"? In your heart, what do you think "compassion" is? How do you view "compassion"? In moments of sadness, being able to remember the good in others is empathy, thoughtfulness, and also a form of compassion. If in anger, when the flames are about to erupt, suddenly remembering the intimacy of the past and the smiles shared, instantly calming down, I think this is a form of compassion for both others and oneself. If the person in front of you is someone who has once mistreated you, disappointed you, and now seeks your help and forgiveness, and you, being able to let go and forgive, this is not just compassion; in terms of the internet novels of recent years, this is a level of great love akin to a saint or a deity, something I believe I couldn't achieve. According to the Navigator Tarot, this card "Compassion" is seen as follows ~ In the world of love, you are adept at infusing warmth and peaceful energy into love. Wherever you are, everyone will feel joy and happiness. You always possess strong empathy and compassion. In your heart and arms, there is always more understanding and tolerance. Compassion bears a golden Buddha's palm imprint. This imprint endows the one drawing the card with the ability to use love, healing, and stabilizing power to assist and heal those who seek guidance from you. Because of compassion and generosity, wealth always follows the kind-hearted. Wealth, its scope is not limited to just money and material possessions, there are also many intangible or abstract forms. There are often opportunities to have pleasant encounters with strangers, which is a kind of beautiful wealth. In Buddhism, "compassion" is a compound word, composed of the "loving-kindness" (maitri) and "compassion" (karuna) of the Four Immeasurables, with similar meanings. I saw an explanation of "compassion" by a Buddhist master on the internet, which resonated deeply with my inner thoughts. He said: "Compassion, originally a Buddhist term, when broken down, 'loving-kindness' is giving happiness to others, and 'compassion' is alleviating the suffering of all beings. When beings suffer, we help them solve their problems and bring them happiness. This heart is called 'compassionate.' Master Jin Bodhi teaches us: 'True compassion is a special kind of love, like the spirit of a mother caring for her child, including caring, tolerance, sincerity, love, and understanding of others.' The love generated by compassion is very extensive, with compassion for all life, from the mountains and rivers of the natural world, to flowers, animals, and any people in need, having a heart of compassion and mercy." In Christianity, "Compassion" is treating someone more leniently than they deserve. Compassion is only possible through the atonement of Jesus Christ. Our Father knows our weaknesses and sins. He forgives our sins and helps us return to dwell with Him, which is the expression of compassion. Regardless of the faith, or lack thereof, I believe "compassion" starts from loving oneself and understanding oneself, without needing reminders, naturally able to perceive others' intentions and difficulties, responding with gentleness due to understanding and empathy. Compassion is like "goodness," spreading out like ripples, never ceasing. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Compassion

#Alyson搜尋結果

2024 0425 今日塔羅：熱情 Passion

2024 0425 今日塔羅：熱情 Passion

2024 0516今日塔羅：月亮 Moon

2024 0516今日塔羅：月亮 Moon

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0614 今日塔羅：力量 Strength

2024 0614 今日塔羅：力量 Strength

2024 0902 給阿雄的祝福：女祭司 Priestess

2024 0902 給阿雄的祝福：女祭司 Priestess

2024 0419 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devils Play

2024 0419 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devils Play

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion