2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 0209 今日塔羅：抱負 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/137579719 除夕夜，是告別過去舊年，也是情感流動之夜 最近認識了一位妹子 她，40多歲，未婚 她，農曆春節一個人，很多年 她說 她喜歡一個人的自由 然後我想到了 去年，農曆春節，大部分時間我也都是一個人 原本我也以為我很好，那幾天，靜靜得過生活 結果當月月底我就生病了 長達2個多星期 應該，之前的”好”是硬撐著 其實，那時的我，應該不是挺好的 好生佩服這妹子 也許她的樂觀有逞強的成分 但當身邊沒有人可以互相依賴、依靠時 即使脆弱也得裝堅強 生活裡一起分享春花、夏陽、秋風、冬雪的人 不一定只限於親密愛人和家人 可以是淡泊之友、老友、舊友 我的窗玻璃起了一層霧 窗外飄著細雨，不大，就是有點煩人 風吹著是會冷的那種 泡了一壺茶 川燙一盤青菜 碗公裡是昨天沒喝重新溫熱的鮮奶茶 這是怎樣的組合我也搞不懂 隨心所欲的結果罷了 門上貼了春聯 算是給自己添加一些年節喜氣 貼糊得很醜 也挺符合我的style ~ 不講究的生活主義者 守歲了 添歲了 新年新氣象 新春新希望 新年快樂!! On New Year's Eve, it's a night to bid farewell to the old year and also a night of emotional flow. Recently, I met a girl. She, in her forties, unmarried. She spends the Lunar New Year alone, for many years. She said she likes the freedom of being alone. Then I thought Last year, during the Lunar New Year, most of the time I was also alone. I thought I was fine, living quietly those days. But by the end of the month, I fell ill For over two weeks. Perhaps, the previous "fine" was just me pushing through. Actually, I wasn't doing so well back then. I truly admire this girl. Perhaps her optimism has an element of bravado. But when there's no one to rely on, no one to lean on, Even if you're vulnerable, you have to pretend to be strong. People who share the joys of spring, the warmth of summer, the breeze of autumn, and the snow of winter in life. Not limited to intimate lovers and family can be casual friends, old friends, acquaintances. There's a layer of mist on my window. Outside, there's a drizzle, not heavy, just a bit annoying. The wind blowing is the kind that makes you cold. Brewed a pot of tea. Stir-fried a plate of green vegetables. In the bowl is yesterday's reheated milk tea. I don't understand this combination either. Just the result of following my heart. Spring couplets are posted on the door. Adding some festive atmosphere to myself. They're pasted on so clumsily. Quite fitting my style ~ a carefree lifestyle enthusiast Staying up late on New Year's Eve. Added another year old in New Year. New outlook! New spring! New hope! Happy New Year!! #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Aspiration #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #權杖 #抱負

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142147564 “均衡”這牌，無法去對照偏愛和唯一，因這牌不適合用在情感上。 畢竟，愛情是唯一，講的是真愛。 而，友情和親情，會偏心，會偏向，也就造成了偏愛。 俗話說，女兒當寶養，兒子當草養。 對女兒是偏愛，對兒子，難道就不愛嗎? 當然不是呀。 所以這張牌，不講感情，講得是情緒，收放自如的情緒，自我控管良好的情緒。 這牌，講事業，重點也是放在情緒控管的能力上。 今日看了一個短視頻，主播形容一為他遇到的業務銷售人員，他特稱讚得，因那年輕銷售人員，雖然學識學歷不高，可情商特高，主播說，那已可算是研究生等級的，而他身為一位專業口說人才，仍被他的銷售方式、氛圍、行為給打動了，且當場下單買了。 這讓人明白與人交談，讓人如沐春風，且不自覺得進入你的話語中，讓人花了錢，還覺這錢花得值得的，那真是難得，可厲害了。 而身為社畜的我們，也要明白，人生在世，不是啥都要拚個輸贏。 就好比，有人是專才，有人是通才， 要論哪個厲害？ 其實，兩個都很厲害。 專才的專業那樣艱澀，要像嚼蜜般喜歡著。 通才的全能總是艱難，事事會，樣樣都要有門道的程度，這可不是三兩三的功夫就能做到的。 一個強大的隊伍裡，專才、通才都須擁有。 而，你適合哪一種？就看你自己是專才，還是通才，只要是適合自己的，最好。 今天，要注意情緒的控管，該洩，該攔阻，像水庫般有效地調節。 讓水，承載你的舟，順流而下。 The card "Equilibrium" cannot be compared with favoritism or uniqueness, as it is not suitable for emotional matters. After all, love is unique; it speaks of true love. However, friendships and family ties can be biased, leading to favoritism. As the saying goes, "Raise daughters as treasures and sons as grass." Showing favoritism towards daughters, does that mean one doesn't love their sons? Of course not. So, this card doesn't talk about emotions but rather about emotions that are well-controlled and managed. In terms of career, this card also emphasizes the ability to manage emotions. Today, I watched a short video where the host described encountering a young salesperson. Despite their lack of academic qualifications, the salesperson had high emotional intelligence. The host praised them, saying their emotional intelligence was at the level of a graduate student. Even as a professional speaker, the host was impressed by their sales approach, atmosphere, and behavior, and ended up making a purchase on the spot. This shows the importance of conversing with people in a way that makes them feel good and willing to spend money, feeling it's worth it. As individuals in the workforce, we must understand that life is not all about winning or losing. Just like some are specialists and some are generalists, which one is more impressive? Actually, both are impressive. Specialists' expertise requires deep understanding and dedication, akin to savoring honey. Generalists' versatility is always challenging; they need expertise in everything they do, which isn't achieved easily. In a strong team, both specialists and generalists are needed. Which one suits you? It depends on whether you are a specialist or a generalist, but what matters most is what suits you best. Today, pay attention to managing your emotions. Let them flow when necessary, and hold them back when needed, effectively regulating them like a reservoir. Let the water carry your boat downstream smoothly. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Equilibrium #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #均衡 #聖杯 #情緒

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death 你說，幾個月前你衝動下犯了一個大錯，這超過一百多天的日子，每夜無法安歇，清醒時間都在煩惱問題該怎麼辦，能怎麼解決，最糟糕的情況有可能會是如何，而你是否能夠承受。 你說，非常痛苦，無法生活，無法靜下心來。 你說，怎會變成這樣，你怎會讓自己變成現在這個模樣？ 我，沒有話語可以安慰你，更無法鼓勵你。 有的時候我們會不知不覺做了某些決定，無法用理智或者是智慧去評論。 我想每個人天性裡的賭性，其實比我們認知的還要強大，且像是躲藏在角落裡，蠢蠢欲動著，只要有機會，就會以猛虎之姿跳躍出來，掌控全局。 你說，無法告知任何人發生了什麼事情，這讓你更痛苦。你形容這段期間不像是活著，比較像是活死人，得撐著這幾口氣，得把問題解決了，不能連累任何人。 我想說點話，卻不知道要說什麼，只能靜靜聽。 你說，你不是想找人說話的，你是想要找人聽你說說話，這幾個月所有的苦與澀，難與痛都在腹內、心上、腦中翻攪著，需要有個出口。 我們嘆，這社會，怎有那麼多心思惡意的壞人。 我們痛，這社會，怎有那麼多有心人利用著已是在低谷的人們，想要奮力一搏的勇氣。 宇宙送給阿寺的祝福是：【死亡 Death】。 這張塔羅牌有著憂傷者坐在愛達荷蛇河上，穿著黝黑深藍色的長袍，斗篷帽遮住了大半張臉，讓人會產生心中一沉的情緒，而後面又是新幾內亞祖靈的面具，像刀子般的鼻尖，讓人感到驚悚害怕。 我們都懼怕死亡，很難接受死亡的發生，而在宇宙裡，在這個萬物繽紛的世界上，死亡，是如常的事情之一，如同太陽升起落下般，那樣的自然。 而當抽到塔羅牌卡的死亡時，更是不需恐懼與擔憂。 孫子兵法說道，『投之亡地然後存，陷之死地然後生。』世界上，沒有任何一個人可以回到過去，然後有機會改變已經發生的事情。 宇宙透過【死亡】這張塔羅牌傳遞著，已發生的事情讓人感傷，而死亡之後呢？除了哀傷，難過，痛苦以外，也有著解放、自由與完完全全地切割。 當然也不能輕忽死亡背後的力量，那失落的情緒，那低迷的心情，那恐懼憂慮的心思，這一波波的不安與害怕，一時無法消散，仍會纏繞著你，要堅定心志，要好好地保有自己的心。 過去的錯的痛苦，放下吧。 人生就像一個杯子，杯內發臭的水得先倒掉，才能注入新氣象，人生也就有了轉機與生機。 加油！ 別被自己的心魔打敗了。 2024-11-29 阿寺：Death You said, a few months ago, in a moment of impulse, you made a huge mistake. Over the past hundred days or so, you haven’t been able to rest at night. During your waking hours, you’ve been consumed with worry—about how to handle the situation, how to resolve it, what the worst-case scenario might be, and whether you could endure it. You said it’s been unbearably painful, that you can’t live your life, can’t calm your mind. You said, how did it come to this? How did you let yourself become the person you are now? I have no comforting words to offer, nor any encouragement to give. Sometimes, we unknowingly make decisions that defy logic or wisdom. I believe the gambling instinct in every person is far stronger than we realize. It lurks in the corners, waiting for the right moment to leap out like a tiger and take control of everything. You said you can’t tell anyone what happened, which makes it even more painful. You described this period as less like living and more like being a walking corpse—barely breathing, holding on just enough to resolve the problem, ensuring no one else gets dragged into it. I wanted to say something, but I didn’t know what to say. I could only listen quietly. You said you weren’t looking for someone to talk to; you just needed someone to listen—to hear all the bitterness, sourness, difficulties, and pain that have been churning within you for months. You needed an outlet. We sighed: How can this society have so many malicious people with scheming minds? We ached: How can this world have so many opportunists preying on those already at rock bottom, exploiting their desperate courage for one last gamble? The universe sent 阿寺 the blessing of Death. This tarot card depicts a sorrowful figure sitting on Idaho's Snake River, draped in a dark navy-blue robe with a hood that obscures much of their face. The image evokes a sinking feeling, and the ancestral mask from New Guinea behind them—with its knife-like nose—adds an air of horror and dread. We all fear death. It’s hard to accept its inevitability. Yet in the universe, in this vibrant world, death is one of life’s constants, as natural as the rising and setting of the sun. Drawing the Death card in tarot is nothing to fear or worry about. As The Art of War says, “Throw them into perilous ground, and they will survive. Plunge them into death ground, and they will live.” No one can return to the past to change what has already happened. The universe, through the Death card, conveys this: while what has occurred may bring sorrow, what follows death is not just grief, sadness, and pain but also liberation, freedom, and a clean break. Of course, we must not underestimate the power behind death—its accompanying emotions of loss, despair, fear, and anxiety. These waves of unease and dread won’t dissipate easily and will continue to entangle you. You must stay steadfast, holding onto your inner self. Let go of the pain of past mistakes. Life is like a cup; the stale water inside must first be poured out before fresh water can flow in, bringing vitality and opportunities for renewal. Stay strong! Don’t let your inner demons defeat you. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

我自己今日(0202)的牌卡：追尋者

2024 0202 很多人都有這樣的疑問 塔羅牌，準嗎？ 我自己這段時間的每日抽牌 塔羅對我來說，是提醒，是指引，是注意 昨日我個人的牌卡抽到”悲傷” 昨天的我確實心裡充滿著悲傷的情緒 我是前天中午臨時決定要去看我爸媽 我是前天傍晚抽塔羅牌的 最近一次去看爸媽已經較少流淚難過 昨日情緒在開車前往的山路上就潰堤 二年多前 爸爸在櫻花盛開的日子離開了 今天，天氣非常好，像夏天，太陽高掛 而我可能上週在日本凍怕了，竟然穿高領 路邊的櫻花盛開著 一株一株得開著茂密或稀疏的花朵 老爸、媽 今日，我在櫻花開的日子向您走去 您們看到我，開心嗎？ 今日我個人的塔羅牌是”追尋者” 是權杖牌 是宇宙在提醒著 因還沒定性，還在尋找，還在思考要追尋什麼 我喜歡從樂觀面來想，那就是不急，敞開心，多了解 探尋，即使對象是自己，也是不容易 探尋得過程，應會很有意思 Many people have this question: Are Tarot cards accurate? In my daily card draws during this period, Tarot serves as a reminder, a guide, a point of attention for me. Yesterday, my personal card drew "Sadness." Indeed, my emotions were filled with sadness yesterday. It was the day before yesterday that I spontaneously decided to visit my parents, and it was yesterday evening when I drew the Tarot cards. The last few visits to my parents were less tearful and sorrowful, but yesterday, emotions overflowed as I drove through the mountain roads. Over two years ago, Dad left on a day when cherry blossoms were in full bloom. Today, the weather is exceptionally good, resembling summer, with the sun high in the sky. Surprisingly, despite last week's freezing temperatures in Japan, I'm wearing a turtleneck. Cherry blossoms along the roadside are blooming. Each tree adorned with dense or sparse flowers. Dad, Mom, today, on this day of cherry blossoms, I walk towards you. Can you see me, and are you happy? Today, my personal Tarot card is "The Seeker," a Wand card. The universe is reminding me that I haven't settled, still searching, contemplating what to pursue. I prefer to think optimistically – it's a matter of not rushing, keeping an open heart, and gaining understanding. Exploration, even when the subject is oneself, is not easy. The process of exploration should be intriguing. #SEEKER #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Alyson #Wands #塔羅 #捕夢人 #追尋者 #權杖

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor 這是宇宙送給覺得自己每天都在苦悶世界裡的怡貞的祝福塔羅牌：【感知者 Sensor】。 這次與個案聊的不是很順利，可以感受得到個案不願意敞開心情和思緒，所以回應的文字簡單，甚至多為不是很有含意的訊息，導致中間我像是在唱獨角戲般，然後個案會突然插進來一句與前文完全無關的問句，這要讓人如何回應。 在這短短三十分鐘的時間裡，怡貞即使是抱怨，文字都那樣簡短，顯得非常無力，感覺連聊聊都使不上力。 就因不到一百個字的回應，我感受到怡貞處於一個封閉的心結裡，想掙脫，但也沒使上蠻荒之力，想改變，卻也沒真正想下定決心。 也許上線找人聊聊天，已是怡貞最近做得最為積極和具體的行為改變。 可，這樣是完全不夠的。 一開始，可能是因為現實，因為壓力，因為許許多多我們無力對抗的因素，所以被困住了。 我們就像被一根細繩綁住的大象，在想要掙開時，被威嚇住，不敢再亂動，即使後來我們已茁壯，已夠堅強，卻仍擺脫不了那細繩綁住的恐懼與制約。 後來，把我們困住的是我們自己。 我們知道要求救，然後，也許，我們就是只有坐在原地等他人救援。 卻沒有奮力自救，沒有用雙手用力扒開身體旁邊的泥土，即使理智告訴我們再不把土撥開，就要被活埋，無法呼吸了，我們依然被動地，等待著他人的援助。 這樣的無力與無奈，我能懂，我也曾經經歷過，甚至不只一次。 別苛責自己，有時我們是沒有意識到被束縛住了。 有時，我們茫然了，忘記了須要專注的焦點是什麼，整天渾渾噩噩的。 但，我們在這樣的情況下，沒有放棄自己，這就是一個很棒的突破口。別輕易否定自己的一切努力。 越是這樣不知所措的時候，越是要打開我們的心靈天線，像是站在草原上，感受著風從哪個方向來，風中的氣味，風的力道，請風帶走我們的憂愁。 去感受大自然，在大樹前面，我們的生命是如此短暫又脆弱，在磅礡瀑布前，我們的意志和力量是如此渺小又薄弱，在萬紫千紅的百花裡，我們的創意和想法是如此蒼白又侷促。 宇宙給怡貞的話在感知者這張塔羅牌裡道盡了祝福與提醒。 我們擁有心靈溝通的力量，全身都是接收器的我們，可以看透，洞悉許多事情的深處及真相，可我們得打開心胸，打開感知的天線，才能接收，才能進而覺知、覺察，甚至調整與改變。 把自己關鎖起來，看似安全，可僵局無法打破，無法從泥沼中逃脫，時間久了，反而是致命等級的危險。 試著從改變一點點開始努力，當僵固的泥土裂了隙縫後，再多做一些積極與努力，會越來越能爬出泥漿，也越來越能活動，進而鼓起力氣，用力掙脫，大步跨步往前邁進，跑向希望，跑向明亮與光彩的世界。 2024 1031 Yizhen: The Sensor This is the blessing Tarot card that the universe has sent to Yizhen, who feels trapped in a world of daily gloom: The Sensor. The recent conversation with the client didn’t go smoothly. I could sense that the client wasn’t willing to open up emotionally or mentally. Their responses were brief, often devoid of any real meaning, leaving me feeling like I was performing a monologue. Occasionally, the client would interject with a question entirely unrelated to the previous discussion, which made it difficult to respond naturally. In just thirty minutes, Yizhen’s replies, though sometimes complaints, were so brief and drained of energy that it felt as if even speaking required too much effort. With responses totaling less than a hundred words, I sensed Yizhen was caught in a closed-off emotional knot—wanting to break free yet lacking the strength to do so, desiring change yet not fully committed to it. Perhaps, coming online to find someone to chat with has been the most proactive step Yizhen has taken recently. But it’s far from enough. Initially, it could have been due to reality, to stress, to countless factors beyond our control, that we felt trapped. We’re like elephants tethered by a thin rope—intimidated into staying put even though we’ve grown strong enough to break free. In the end, we’re bound not by the rope, but by our own conditioning. We know to seek help, but perhaps, we’re simply waiting, sitting in place for someone to rescue us. We don’t actively try to save ourselves, don’t use our hands to claw at the soil beside us. Even when logic tells us that if we don’t break free soon, we’ll be buried alive, gasping for breath, we continue passively awaiting someone else’s assistance. I understand this feeling of helplessness and frustration, having been through it myself more than once. Don’t be too hard on yourself—sometimes we’re not even aware that we’re bound. Sometimes we lose focus, drifting through the day in a fog. Yet, the fact that we haven’t given up on ourselves in this state is a great breakthrough. Don’t easily dismiss your efforts. The more lost you feel, the more important it is to open your inner antenna, as if standing on a vast prairie, sensing the direction of the wind, its scent, and its strength, and letting it carry away our sorrows. Take in nature: standing before a towering tree, we realize our lives are short and fragile; before a majestic waterfall, our willpower and strength seem minuscule; among the colorful blooms, our creativity and ideas feel pale and constrained. The universe’s message to Yizhen, embedded in The Sensor card, is filled with blessings and reminders. We have the power of spiritual communication; we are receivers in our entirety, capable of perceiving and penetrating the essence and truths of many things. But we must open our minds and our sensory antennae to receive, become aware, and, ultimately, to adjust and change. Locking ourselves away may feel safe, but it only keeps us stagnant, unable to escape the mire, which, over time, turns into a perilous trap. Try starting with small changes, and as cracks appear in the hardened soil, gradually add more effort and positivity. You’ll find it easier to crawl out of the mud, move more freely, and build the strength to break free, taking strides toward a world of hope, brightness, and brilliance. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity 即將成為新娘的霜霜 聽到妳滿是煩躁的心情，沒有了即將成為新娘的喜悅和幸福，有點替妳擔心。 妳說，剛跟父母吵了架，為了婚禮。 可，妳自己知道，父母的建議才是好的。 妳就是感到很煩，胸口很堵，很想大聲地發脾氣，可又找不到正當理由，所以就只能在討論婚禮的事情上，找大家的麻煩。 妳說，妳擔心著婚禮還沒舉行，大家的情感都吵散了。 我問了妳，當初答應結婚的決定是什麼？ 妳說，男友想結婚，雙方談了未來的一些事情，妳回家問妳爸媽的意思，家人也覺是結婚的好時機，所以妳也就答應。 我說，以為是因男友求婚浪漫，當下衝動Say了”Yes”。 妳說，妳自己是個理智的人，求婚感覺也沒多浪漫，且妳不喜歡很多人注視下的求婚，還好妳男友夠了解妳，沒有做這些安排，不然妳可能當場的反應會傷到很多人的心，情況會變得很尷尬。 我問，結婚，為何讓妳覺得很煩？是婚禮的瑣碎覺得厭煩？還是其他什麼？ 妳說，妳也不知道，就感覺結婚後，妳不能再成為妳，光是想到這點就覺煩躁不已。 我再深入地詢問，妳說，結了婚後，沒有了自由，像是被綁住，無法呼吸。 我微笑著跟妳回應說，我單身，沒有類似經驗的可跟妳分享。不過從家人、朋友、電視、小說裡，有記得一些事情可以分享。 聊到後來，妳說了一句話，我笑了出來。 妳說，妳知道了，妳陷入了煩躁的情緒裡，但沒有好好想過到底為什麼煩躁，所以好像問題很多，其實，現在冷靜想想，原本糾結的事情，有些，連”事”都稱不上，根本就不是問題。 最後我們的結論就是，溝通，跟現在的未婚夫，未來的老公溝通。 妳跟男友之間的愛很濃，妳擔心婚後吵架會把情感吵薄了，可忘了先思考你們會為什麼事情吵架？吵架之前，是否有什麼想法，就提出來先討論，互相了解呢。 最後，妳說，今晚可以好好睡覺了。 然後我們就結束了談話。 妳，感覺像是位女漢子，一但不糾結，就放下。這樣的個性，挺好。 送給妳祝福的塔羅牌：【負面性Negativity】。 來自宇宙的訊息是，提醒碧霜，遇到糾結的事情時，負面思緒和情緒會先慣性地湧現，這部分要注意。在發生這樣的情況時，適時地與相關的人進行討論、分享，有助於卡住的思緒或情緒。 預祝霜霜 新婚幸福 百年好合！ 2024-08-26 Blessings to Bishuang: Dear Bishuang, who is about to become a bride, Hearing your anxious feelings, lacking the joy and happiness of becoming a bride, I feel a bit worried for you. You mentioned that you just had an argument with your parents about the wedding. But you know that your parents' suggestions are well-intentioned. You just feel annoyed, like there's a weight on your chest, wanting to vent loudly but without a proper reason, so you end up taking it out on the wedding discussions. You said you're worried that even before the wedding happens, everyone's emotions will already be scattered by the arguments. I asked you, what was your initial reason for agreeing to get married? You said your boyfriend wanted to get married. Both of you talked about the future, you went home and asked your parents' opinion, and your family also thought it was a good time to get married, so you agreed. I thought it was because of a romantic proposal from your boyfriend, and in a moment of impulse, you said "Yes." You replied that you are a rational person and the proposal wasn’t particularly romantic. Moreover, you don’t like being the center of attention during a proposal. Fortunately, your boyfriend knows you well and didn’t plan anything like that; otherwise, your reaction might have hurt many feelings, making things awkward. I asked why getting married makes you feel so annoyed. Is it the trivialities of the wedding that you find frustrating, or something else? You said you don’t really know; you just feel that after getting married, you can no longer be yourself, and just thinking about it makes you feel uneasy. I probed a little deeper, and you said that after marriage, there would be no more freedom, like being tied down and unable to breathe. I smiled and responded that, as a single person, I don’t have similar experiences to share. However, from family, friends, TV, and novels, I do recall some things that might be worth sharing. As our conversation continued, you said something that made me laugh out loud. You mentioned that you realized you were caught up in your anxious emotions without really thinking about why, so it seemed like there were many problems. However, upon calmly reflecting, some of the things that were troubling you weren’t even real "issues" at all. Our final conclusion was communication—communicating with your current fiancé, your future husband. The love between you and your boyfriend is strong. You worry that arguments after marriage might dilute your feelings, but you forgot to consider what you might argue about. Before arguing, why not bring up your thoughts and discuss them openly to better understand each other? In the end, you said you could finally have a good night's sleep tonight. And then we ended our conversation. You seemed like a strong woman, someone who, once they let go, truly lets go. That’s a great personality to have. The Tarot card drawn for you: Negativity. The message from the universe is to remind you, Bishuang, that when you encounter tangled situations, negative thoughts and emotions might habitually surface first, and you should be mindful of this. When this happens, it is helpful to discuss and share with the relevant people to clear the blocked thoughts or emotions. Wishing you a happy marriage and a lifetime of love! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。 今日牌卡：皇后

今日牌卡：皇后 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/131644330 一直以來很喜歡用一句話形容女人，溫柔但堅定的力量。 我媽媽，是我這輩子第一個認識的女強人。 她，很霸道，尤其是關於家裡生活採買的物品。 她，很獨裁，尤其是關於家中大小事日期的安排。 她，很果斷，尤其是跟孩子們追討代墊款項的時候。 她，很開朗，當面對婆婆和犯小錯的時候。 她，很溫柔，當與老公分享談心事的時候。 她，很可愛，當逗著可愛帥氣孫子的時候。 我媽，她沒有所謂的強勢氣場。 她沒有高跟鞋、西裝和精緻的濃妝。 頂著一顆捲捲頭，十根圓圓短短胖胖的手指頭。 人未到，開朗暢懷笑聲已先到。 她是皇后，孕育了孩子，孕育出一個家的溫暖。 若說父親是一個家的精神支柱，頂梁柱，那我說母親則是一個家的靈魂，是那繞著樑，伴著樑，不可或缺的靈魂。 我認為所謂的女強人，是內心裡有股源源不絕的強大力量支撐著她面對人生裡的風風雨雨。 她將力量化為溫暖開朗的能量，融化了一路上遇到的冰雪寒天，暖了內心裡孤寂的寸土。 而不是只存在於職場上精明幹練的模樣。 也不是用銳利眼神將人從頭到腳的掃描過一遍。 更不是使用尖銳語言去討論、評價甚至是攻擊。 我，終究，沒有成為像媽媽一樣的女強人。 我沒有堅定的心念，欠缺強大力量，奉行逃避並不可恥的理論，對無心面對的事情，那就托著吧。 還是因為沒有人用溫柔形容過我？！ I always loved describing women with a single phrase - the gentle yet firm strength. My mother, she's the first powerhouse woman I've ever known in my life. She is very domineering, especially when it comes to purchasing items for home life. She is very authoritative, especially regarding the arrangement of dates for all major events at home. She is very decisive, especially when it comes to collecting advance payments from her children. She is very cheerful when facing her mother-in-law and making small mistakes. She is very gentle when sharing her thoughts with her husband. She is very cute when teasing her cute and handsome grandson. My mother, she doesn't have this so-called domineering aura. She doesn't have high heels, suits or elaborate makeup. It has a curly hair and ten round, short and fat fingers. Before she arrives, her cheerful laughter has already set the tone. She's a queen, nurturing children and bringing warmth to a home. If a father is the spiritual pillar, the backbone of a family, then I say a mother is the soul, the indispensable spirit that surrounds and accompanies, weaving through the beams of a home. I believe a so-called powerhouse woman has an inexhaustible inner strength that supports her through life's ups and downs. She transforms that strength into warm and cheerful energy, melting the icy challenges encountered along the way, warming the lonely corners of her heart. It's not just about being savvy and competent in the workplace. It's not about scanning people from head to toe with sharp eyes. It's certainly not about using sharp language to discuss, evaluate, or even attack. I, in the end, haven't become a powerhouse woman like my mother. I lack a firm mindset, lack immense strength, and adhere to the theory that avoiding things isn't shameful; if it's something I don't want to face, then just leave it be. Or maybe it's because no one has ever described me as gentle?! #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Empress #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #皇后 #溫柔的力量

Alyson’s 2/25 Tarot：感知者 Sensor

Alyson’s 2/25 Tarot：感知者 Sensor 昨日是元宵節，在我們這裡這也是個團圓夜。 記得小時候，每到這天，媽媽像是過農曆除夕那般慎重。 因為呀，過了今夜，就不再是新年了，今天是習俗裡農曆新年的最後一天。 媽媽說，貪玩的心思要好好收一收，明天，真的得要努力認真學習和工作。 為了元宵夜，在農曆除夕前早就準備好了湯圓。 最喜歡媽媽手做的大顆鹹湯圓。 以前我家是從揉糯米皮開始製作，過程繁複，且作業日拉長。 元宵節前還要趕往市場買茼蒿，新鮮的豬肉，回來後手工切成細長肉絲條。 起鍋時，我喜歡灑一些白胡椒粉，更是將湯味提升為大人的滋味。 在節日期間，我總是感性高於理性，感受多過感知。 我的感受雷達很是靈敏，過去沒有塔羅的協助時，已可很快速得接收到旁人的情緒狀況，現在有塔羅這工具，我反而小心翼翼的辨別，甚至有時候，會刻意屏除感受到的氛圍。 感覺，總是加雜著很多自己的以為。 說是純粹，有時卻像是自以為是的認為。 感受，比感覺多了當下的直覺情緒。 我甚至認為，直覺是心裡最深層的秘密。 直覺，是反射性的直接反應，無法掩飾，不會說謊的反應。 感知，在我的想法裡，多了理性的思考。 我們於接收後，得過濾，得分辨，得坦討，這些過程都是理性的思維。 最終我們還是想要明白，神秘簾幕後是什麼？ 可，畢竟我只是凡人，會膽怯，害怕，總是懦弱，想逃避。 也會思考，即使知道神秘後面的秘密，又如何？ 生活是持續不停轉的。 我的認知、學習、成長、退化、躲避，是周而復始的循環，唯一不變的是沒有個固定規則可探尋分析。 繼續接收吧！ 感知者，是宇宙給予的天賦與能力。 珍惜。 Yesterday was the Lantern Festival, which is also a reunion night for us. I remember when I was a child, my mother treated this day with the same seriousness as Chinese New Year's Eve. Because after tonight, it's no longer the new year; today is the last day of the lunar new year in customs. My mother used to say, "Put away your playful thoughts; tomorrow, you really have to work hard and study seriously." For the Lantern Festival, we had prepared tangyuan (sweet rice dumplings) well before Chinese New Year's Eve. I especially loved the large savory tangyuan handmade by my mother. We used to start by kneading the glutinous rice dough, a complicated process that stretched out the preparation time. Before the Lantern Festival, we would rush to the market to buy shepherd's purse and fresh pork, then come back and hand-cut them into fine strips. When cooking, I liked to sprinkle some white pepper, elevating the taste of the soup to an adult level. During the festival, I always found myself more sensitive than rational, experiencing emotions more than perceptions. My emotional radar was quite sensitive. Even before I had the assistance of tarot, I could quickly pick up on others' emotional states. Now with tarot as a tool, I'm more cautious in discerning and sometimes even deliberately block out the atmospheres I sense. Feelings often mix with many assumptions of our own. What we claim as pure sometimes turns out to be merely presumptuous. Sensations include more immediate emotional intuitions. I even believe intuition is the deepest secret of the heart. Intuition is a reflexive, unfiltered response that cannot lie. Perception, in my understanding, involves more rational thinking. After receiving input, we need to filter, discern, and be honest. These processes are all part of rational thinking. Ultimately, we still want to understand: what lies behind the mysterious curtain? But, after all, I am only human. I get scared, afraid, often cowardly, wanting to escape. I also ponder, even if I knew the secret behind the mystery, what then? Life continues its ceaseless rotation. My understanding, learning, growth, regression, and avoidance are all part of a recurring cycle. The only constant is that there's no fixed rule to explore and analyze. Keep receiving! Sensor and perception is the gift and ability bestowed upon us by the universe. Cherish it. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Sensor #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #權杖 #感知者 #意念

#DreamCatc...搜尋結果

2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

我自己今日(0202)的牌卡：追尋者

我自己今日(0202)的牌卡：追尋者

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后

Alyson’s 2/25 Tarot：感知者 Sensor

Alyson’s 2/25 Tarot：感知者 Sensor

#DreamCatc...搜尋結果

2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 0209 除夕日 ~ 今日塔羅：抱負

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 0229 今日塔羅：均衡 Equilibrium

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

我自己今日(0202)的牌卡：追尋者

我自己今日(0202)的牌卡：追尋者

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。 今日牌卡：皇后

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。 今日牌卡：皇后

Alyson’s 2/25 Tarot：感知者 Sensor

Alyson’s 2/25 Tarot：感知者 Sensor

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后

2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。今日牌卡：皇后