2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner 以前總會說，「太陽底下確實沒有什麼新鮮事」，安撫著大驚小怪，呼天搶地的人們。 這幾年高科技的發展，去除掉人的貪念，對於權勢的慾望而製造許多的戰爭、紛爭以外。 我想以前的網路免費電話和視訊，到近年的人工智能，這應該都是新鮮事了吧。 從去年開始參加一些學習課程，有些內容聽著聽著就覺得索然無味，有些課程不僅是津津有味，連班上同學看起來都可愛極了，這真是很棒的收穫。 想要學習的思緒與心情延續到了今年。 最近的我要在二個半月內學會三到四個電腦軟體。 第一個禮拜，同學們是收穫頗豐，我是挫折滿滿。 後來才知道只有我和另一位同學從未接觸過這些軟體，其他同學感覺是再進修，再研習的。 上週和家人及朋友打趣道，「我這輩子最認真學習的時光就是現在呢。」 上課認真，尤其是週一到週五的電腦軟體課程，連分心都不敢，一恍神就完全聽不懂，原本就跟不上的我，每堂課都在追趕著大家的背影中度過。 週末假日的課程是完全不同領域，也會有專業內容，艱澀難懂。 雖然忙碌成這樣，每一日，我都覺得有趣極了。 每天就只有進步一點點的進展，也都讓我開心，快樂，還有感到滿足。 雖然我也很想念無所事事的美好，無所事事的另一種充實生活，不過能有新學習，交到新朋友，每天都有話題閒扯，沖淡學習挫折的心情，很是精實的生活。 今天的塔羅牌是『學習者』。 這是我最近的生活寫照呢！ 『學習者』 ~ 允許自己像個孩童般探索著愛情或情感。 沒有一份感情是可以複製、貼上的那樣相似。 獨立的特質，獨立的思考，獨立的情感，獨立的反應，又會因不同的對象，不同的角色，不同的經歷，不同的人格，激盪豐富多元的火花。 這就是人與人相處最為迷人的地方了。 我渴望財富，卻也有許多堅持。 違心的錢，不賺。 雖然我被一些誆過，尤其是保險員。 我不懂的情況下做了錯誤的決定，這樣的虧損，我自己認了。 為了個人業績，沒考量到客戶的需求與經濟情況，為賺佣金而舌燦蓮花，這樣的金錢，這一生的你認為那些是你應得的報酬。 這並非說業務不能賺佣金，賺，當然可以，但若有點欺瞞，有點訛詐，有點規避，有點說謊，那就是很不厚道的事情。 對於金錢，對於財富，我們也需一段時間就思考和釐清，去察覺對金錢的看法和評價。 與健康相比，金錢是在甚麼位置？ 可，沒有了金錢，又要如何照顧到健康？ 多次媒體報導，在許多國家，很多肥胖的人，健康都很不好，但為何無法改變現況，甚至越來越糟糕？ 因為貧窮。 因為便宜的食物很多都是我們所謂的垃圾食物。 曾經我也想嘗試運用綠茶鐵，來改善身體狀況。 購買可以製作一杯綠拿鐵的食材費用是昂貴的，至少是我沒辦法輕鬆負擔得。 健康，無價。 生病，標價。 擁有健康，得有金錢支撐。 關於財富，我們除了學習或試著深思以外，難道就舉手投降，放棄？ 非也。 非也。 關於財富，這也是專業、精深且博大的知識及技能架構出來的。 可，我們可以慢慢學，學習我們需要理解的部分。 對我們的理財、投資或者是規劃，都會有不小的幫助。 持續學習，長久學習。 這不容易，除了毅力外，還要抱持對知識，對資訊的好奇心，渴望和期待裡面的知識有多棒。 寶藏，都是神秘且不容易發覺，挖掘到的。 要知道哪裡有寶藏，得先學習甚麼是寶藏。 還有挖掘、保存、運送、市場與銷售等等的事項要知曉。 唯一之法，學習。 對我來說，學習，真的是挺有意思的。 Today's Tarot: Learner (May 21, 2024) In the past, people often said, "There is nothing new under the sun," to soothe those who were easily startled and panicked. However, recent advancements in high technology have proven otherwise, aside from the greed for power that leads to wars and conflicts. From free internet calls and video chats in the past to the artificial intelligence of recent years, these indeed are new developments. Since last year, I’ve been participating in various learning courses. Some of them are quite dull, while others are not only fascinating but also make the classmates look extremely adorable. This has been a wonderful experience. My eagerness to learn continues this year. Recently, I’ve committed to learning three to four computer software programs within two and a half months. The first week, while my classmates gained a lot, I felt immense frustration. I later found out that only one other classmate and I had no prior experience with these software programs; the rest were just refreshing and furthering their knowledge. Last week, I joked with my family and friends, "The most diligent learning period of my life is now." I attend classes seriously, especially the computer software courses from Monday to Friday. I dare not let my mind wander for a moment, or I’d completely lose track. Each class is a race to catch up with everyone else. Weekend courses are in entirely different fields, also involving specialized content that is complex and challenging. Despite being so busy, I find each day incredibly interesting. Even a little progress every day makes me happy, joyful, and satisfied. Though I miss the bliss of idleness and the fulfilling life it brings, I cherish new learning experiences, making new friends, and having daily conversations that lighten the mood from learning setbacks. It’s a truly enriching life. Today's tarot card is 'Learner'. This reflects my current lifestyle perfectly! Learner Allow yourself to explore love or emotions like a child. No relationship can be copied and pasted to be the same. Independent characteristics, independent thoughts, independent emotions, and independent reactions will generate rich and diverse sparks due to different individuals, roles, experiences, and personalities. This is the most charming aspect of human interactions. I yearn for wealth, but I also have my principles. I won’t earn money against my conscience. Though I’ve been deceived before, especially by insurance agents, I acknowledge my mistakes when I made wrong decisions out of ignorance. For those who eloquently sell insurance for their commission without considering the clients' needs and financial situations, the money they earn might seem like their rightful reward to them. This isn't to say that agents shouldn't earn commissions; they can, but if there's deception or dishonesty involved, it’s unethical. Regarding money and wealth, we need time to think and clarify our perceptions and evaluations of money. Compared to health, where does money stand? Without money, how can we maintain our health? Many media reports indicate that in many countries, overweight individuals often have poor health. Why can't they change their situation, or why does it worsen? Because of poverty. Cheap food is often what we call junk food. I once tried to use green tea iron to improve my health. However, the cost of ingredients to make a cup of green latte was too high for me to afford easily. Health is priceless. Illness has a price tag. To maintain health, financial support is essential. Besides learning or contemplating wealth, should we just surrender and give up? No, absolutely not. Wealth is built on extensive and profound knowledge and skills. But we can learn gradually, understanding the parts we need. This will greatly benefit our financial management, investments, or planning. Continuous learning, lifelong learning. It’s not easy. It requires perseverance and a constant curiosity and enthusiasm for knowledge and information, eager to discover how wonderful it is. Treasures are mysterious and hard to find and uncover. To know where treasures are, we must first learn what they are. There are also aspects like excavation, preservation, transportation, market, and sales to understand. The only way is through learning. For me, learning is genuinely interesting. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Learner

2024 0105 想像總是最美的，對吧！ 今日牌卡：平衡

今日牌卡：平衡 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/129167305 你能做到平衡嗎？ 我知道現在的我是做不到的 這平衡的拿捏，太難 腦海中、心窩裡那一張又一張的幻想圖 卻讓現實的骨感打擊地不得不屈服 有時不是不夠認真努力 甚至不是不夠辛勞勤奮 是水到渠成的好時日尚未來到 人生的每個階段 都需有項目讓人全心專注 看似在努力過程中距離願景目標越來越遠 數年後回頭看看 只要有努力實踐 加上適時審視，來年調整 平衡的自在，在不遠的將來 Can you achieve balance? I know I cannot do it now The art of balance is too difficult and too challenging. In the mind and the depths of the heart, there are many imaginary scenes Yet, the stark reality forces one to surrender Sometimes it's not a lack of seriousness or effort Sometimes not even a shortage of hard work and diligence It's just that the opportune time for things to come together has not yet arrived In every stage of life, There must be projects that demand wholehearted focus It may seem that the distance to the vision and goals is increasing during the effort But looking back after a few years As long as there is diligent practice Combined with timely reflection and adjustments for the coming year The ease of balance will be achieved in the not-too-distant future. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Balance #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #平衡

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57) 問題：我4/02的未來日記主題 抽牌：豐收 Harvest https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/145387285 發現從休息開始至今二年多的時光裡，一直在調整，想找到或建立適合現在的自己。 以前，不怕，因有爸爸。 現在，怕，也得自己處理。 以前，低潮，不怕，有爸爸在。 現在，失落，怕，該怎麼辦？ 去年，我把自己封閉在家。 今年，我把自己推了出門。 去哪？ 去市場。 去操場。 去有人的地方。 這是我自己非常清楚知道的改變。 我的『未來日記』第一階段要先「改變」。 改變與豐收，一個是因，一個是果，然後又互成為對方的因和果。 古代的九個太陽，是種詛咒 現代的九個木星，是種祝福 這張「豐收」的塔羅牌，是讓人想到心情飛揚，若是穿著裙子，就會想轉圈圈的裙擺擺揚，然後，定住，撒花慶祝。 冰箱裡沒有新鮮青菜。 打算今天出門跑一趟。 這市場是去年才開始去的，不熟悉。去過幾次後，也開始慢慢找到自己喜歡的攤子。 固定買青菜的有四攤。 每次都會買一卷潤餅當午餐。 之前軟排骨用得很好吃的那攤已不再。 一開始以為較便宜的水果攤，其實是賣很貴的。 每一次的前往，都是一次次的學習與累積。 每一次的採買，都是豐收，都是改變。 在市場裡，能更感受到季節的交替，天氣的變化。 想吃的，想買的，也有可能會失望，找不到，然後學習調整。 有時，老天會教你如何”改變”。 當辛勞努力之後，宇宙允諾的豐盈 最艱苦的工作已完成，只待收割 對於沒有具體勞動的我，哪來的豐收？ 我自己現在是這樣看得，我的豐收，不一定是物品，不一定是具體，不一定是有形。 我的豐收，在於接觸的人，沾染到他們的歡樂，是喜豐收。 我的豐收，在於流淌的事，沾染到這些的人氣，是喜豐收。 我的豐收，在於穿過的想，沾染到腦袋的思考，是喜豐收。 腳程是很緩慢，但越來越有感。 思考是很雜亂，但越理越明白。 欣賞、讚賞自己辛苦後的成果 為這纍纍結果評個高分 當我不一樣，我就是得更加勇敢。 當我不一樣，我就是得更努力闖盪。 當我不一樣，我就是得失敗後馬上思量。 當我不一樣，我就是得事事掛心上，樣樣學精光。 該看的書一大落，沒能有太多時間在感傷。 我已是枚歐巴桑，落淚也不可能有人為我心傷。 好想學習那位女孩好情商。 好想擁有那位學者好智商。 認知到自己不足的困窘，隨著年紀，隨著閱讀，隨著理解別人的一些模樣，更顯得蒼白無力。 心中有點懊惱，怎以往沒能多學習一些。 還好，現在知道了，也有時間，一點一點再累積。 一位媽媽在她兒子開口撒嬌說，晚餐想吃什麼時，馬上豪氣答應。這位媽媽說她有這樣的經濟能力，且兒子撒嬌想要跟她吃飯，有什麼比這更重要，更幸福的事情。 一位大姐在我們一起買水果的攤子前面跟我分享在那個市場哩，她的採買經驗，哪攤的好吃，哪攤的品質好。這是美好的交流。 今天，內心有許多感想，一項項皆像是收成的果實。 在市場看到的，遇到的笑臉，也是收穫。 這些，不是豐收，是什麼。 Alyson's 4/03 Tarot: Harvest (5-57) Question: Theme of my diary entry on 4/02 Card drawn: Harvest I've found that during the two-plus years since I began resting, I've been adjusting, trying to find or build a version of myself that fits the present. In the past, I wasn't afraid because I had my father. Now, I'm afraid, and I have to deal with it myself. In the past, when I hit a low, I wasn't afraid because my father was there. Now, I feel lost, afraid. What should I do? Last year, I kept myself closed at home. This year, I pushed myself out the door. To where? To the market. To the playground. To places where there are people. This is a change I'm very clear about. The first stage of my "Future Diary" is to "change." Change and harvest, one is the cause, the other is the result, and then they become each other's cause and effect. The nine suns of ancient times were a curse. The nine Jupiters of modern times are a blessing. This "Harvest" tarot card makes one think of exuberant feelings, like twirling in a skirt, and then stopping, throwing flowers to celebrate. There are no fresh vegetables in the fridge. I plan to go out for a run today. I started going to this market just last year, so I'm not familiar with it. After going a few times, I've slowly started to find the stalls I like. There are four stalls where I usually buy vegetables. I always buy a roll of pancakes for lunch. The stall where I used to buy delicious soft ribs is no longer there. I initially thought the fruit stall was cheaper, but it's actually quite expensive. Every trip is a learning experience and accumulation. Every purchase is a harvest, a change. In the market, I can feel the changing seasons, the weather. Things I want to eat, want to buy, may be disappointing, unable to find, and then I learn to adjust. Sometimes, heaven teaches you how to "change." After hard work, the universe promises abundance. The most difficult work has been completed, only waiting to harvest. For me, who hasn't done any physical labor, where does the harvest come from? This is how I see it now: my harvest may not be tangible items. My harvest lies in the people I meet, the joy I share with them, is a harvest of joy. My harvest lies in the things I encounter, the enthusiasm I pass on to others, is a harvest of happiness. My harvest lies in the thoughts I have, the insights I gain, is a harvest of wisdom. The journey is slow, but I feel more and more. The thinking is chaotic, but the clearer it becomes. Appreciating and acknowledging the results of my hard work, Giving high marks to these abundant results. When I'm different, I have to be braver. When I'm different, I have to work harder. When I'm different, I have to reflect immediately after failure. When I'm different, I have to care about everything, learn everything thoroughly. A lot of books to read, not enough time to be sentimental. I'm already a middle-aged woman, there's no one to hurt for me when I cry. I really want to learn from that girl's emotional intelligence. I really want to have the intellect of that scholar. Realizing my own shortcomings, as I grow older, as I read, as I understand others' experiences, it becomes more apparent. There's a bit of regret in my heart, why didn't I learn more in the past. Fortunately, I know now, and there is time, slowly accumulating bit by bit. A mother, when her son sweetly asks what he wants for dinner, immediately agrees. She says she has the emotional ability to do this, and her son's desire to have dinner with her is more important and happier than anything else. An older sister shares her shopping experience with me in front of the fruit stall we're buying from together, telling me which stalls have delicious food and good quality. It's a beautiful exchange. Today, there are many thoughts in my heart, each one seems like the fruit of the harvest. The smiling faces I see in the market are also a harvest. If these aren't harvests, then what are they? #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Harvest

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor 這是宇宙送給覺得自己每天都在苦悶世界裡的怡貞的祝福塔羅牌：【感知者 Sensor】。 這次與個案聊的不是很順利，可以感受得到個案不願意敞開心情和思緒，所以回應的文字簡單，甚至多為不是很有含意的訊息，導致中間我像是在唱獨角戲般，然後個案會突然插進來一句與前文完全無關的問句，這要讓人如何回應。 在這短短三十分鐘的時間裡，怡貞即使是抱怨，文字都那樣簡短，顯得非常無力，感覺連聊聊都使不上力。 就因不到一百個字的回應，我感受到怡貞處於一個封閉的心結裡，想掙脫，但也沒使上蠻荒之力，想改變，卻也沒真正想下定決心。 也許上線找人聊聊天，已是怡貞最近做得最為積極和具體的行為改變。 可，這樣是完全不夠的。 一開始，可能是因為現實，因為壓力，因為許許多多我們無力對抗的因素，所以被困住了。 我們就像被一根細繩綁住的大象，在想要掙開時，被威嚇住，不敢再亂動，即使後來我們已茁壯，已夠堅強，卻仍擺脫不了那細繩綁住的恐懼與制約。 後來，把我們困住的是我們自己。 我們知道要求救，然後，也許，我們就是只有坐在原地等他人救援。 卻沒有奮力自救，沒有用雙手用力扒開身體旁邊的泥土，即使理智告訴我們再不把土撥開，就要被活埋，無法呼吸了，我們依然被動地，等待著他人的援助。 這樣的無力與無奈，我能懂，我也曾經經歷過，甚至不只一次。 別苛責自己，有時我們是沒有意識到被束縛住了。 有時，我們茫然了，忘記了須要專注的焦點是什麼，整天渾渾噩噩的。 但，我們在這樣的情況下，沒有放棄自己，這就是一個很棒的突破口。別輕易否定自己的一切努力。 越是這樣不知所措的時候，越是要打開我們的心靈天線，像是站在草原上，感受著風從哪個方向來，風中的氣味，風的力道，請風帶走我們的憂愁。 去感受大自然，在大樹前面，我們的生命是如此短暫又脆弱，在磅礡瀑布前，我們的意志和力量是如此渺小又薄弱，在萬紫千紅的百花裡，我們的創意和想法是如此蒼白又侷促。 宇宙給怡貞的話在感知者這張塔羅牌裡道盡了祝福與提醒。 我們擁有心靈溝通的力量，全身都是接收器的我們，可以看透，洞悉許多事情的深處及真相，可我們得打開心胸，打開感知的天線，才能接收，才能進而覺知、覺察，甚至調整與改變。 把自己關鎖起來，看似安全，可僵局無法打破，無法從泥沼中逃脫，時間久了，反而是致命等級的危險。 試著從改變一點點開始努力，當僵固的泥土裂了隙縫後，再多做一些積極與努力，會越來越能爬出泥漿，也越來越能活動，進而鼓起力氣，用力掙脫，大步跨步往前邁進，跑向希望，跑向明亮與光彩的世界。 2024 1031 Yizhen: The Sensor This is the blessing Tarot card that the universe has sent to Yizhen, who feels trapped in a world of daily gloom: The Sensor. The recent conversation with the client didn’t go smoothly. I could sense that the client wasn’t willing to open up emotionally or mentally. Their responses were brief, often devoid of any real meaning, leaving me feeling like I was performing a monologue. Occasionally, the client would interject with a question entirely unrelated to the previous discussion, which made it difficult to respond naturally. In just thirty minutes, Yizhen’s replies, though sometimes complaints, were so brief and drained of energy that it felt as if even speaking required too much effort. With responses totaling less than a hundred words, I sensed Yizhen was caught in a closed-off emotional knot—wanting to break free yet lacking the strength to do so, desiring change yet not fully committed to it. Perhaps, coming online to find someone to chat with has been the most proactive step Yizhen has taken recently. But it’s far from enough. Initially, it could have been due to reality, to stress, to countless factors beyond our control, that we felt trapped. We’re like elephants tethered by a thin rope—intimidated into staying put even though we’ve grown strong enough to break free. In the end, we’re bound not by the rope, but by our own conditioning. We know to seek help, but perhaps, we’re simply waiting, sitting in place for someone to rescue us. We don’t actively try to save ourselves, don’t use our hands to claw at the soil beside us. Even when logic tells us that if we don’t break free soon, we’ll be buried alive, gasping for breath, we continue passively awaiting someone else’s assistance. I understand this feeling of helplessness and frustration, having been through it myself more than once. Don’t be too hard on yourself—sometimes we’re not even aware that we’re bound. Sometimes we lose focus, drifting through the day in a fog. Yet, the fact that we haven’t given up on ourselves in this state is a great breakthrough. Don’t easily dismiss your efforts. The more lost you feel, the more important it is to open your inner antenna, as if standing on a vast prairie, sensing the direction of the wind, its scent, and its strength, and letting it carry away our sorrows. Take in nature: standing before a towering tree, we realize our lives are short and fragile; before a majestic waterfall, our willpower and strength seem minuscule; among the colorful blooms, our creativity and ideas feel pale and constrained. The universe’s message to Yizhen, embedded in The Sensor card, is filled with blessings and reminders. We have the power of spiritual communication; we are receivers in our entirety, capable of perceiving and penetrating the essence and truths of many things. But we must open our minds and our sensory antennae to receive, become aware, and, ultimately, to adjust and change. Locking ourselves away may feel safe, but it only keeps us stagnant, unable to escape the mire, which, over time, turns into a perilous trap. Try starting with small changes, and as cracks appear in the hardened soil, gradually add more effort and positivity. You’ll find it easier to crawl out of the mud, move more freely, and build the strength to break free, taking strides toward a world of hope, brightness, and brilliance. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0104 別悶著頭工作，抬頭看一下，也許有人正微笑看著你 今日牌卡：協力

今日牌卡：協力 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/128947123 工作中，我喜歡團隊一起努力，你呢？ 幾個月前認識了一位朋友 他就像一個苦行僧那般一個人默默做了許多工作 沒有太多人知道他為了公司這個大家庭做了多少的努力 在這個張揚的年代 團隊夥伴是支撐走得更遠的原動力 一個人走，自由 兩個人走，有伴 好多人走，有趣，且還能變換隊形 盟友、隊友、志同道合的朋友 好友、老友、情同家人的密友 都讓生命花園增添了許多好風景 During work, I like to be one part of a group and work together How about you? Many months ago met a friend He is just like an ascetic who silently of hard to works a lot of job alone And not many people know how many things and effort did just for the big family of his company In this kind of world of publicity Team and partners are driving forces to support to go further One person hard, feel free Two people hard, with company Many people hard, fun and could change formation Ally, teammate, and like-minded friend Good friend, old friend, and loving family friend Make the garden of living have more beautiful views #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotcards #Tarotreader #Dream #Synergy #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #協力

2024 0115 嘿！收心囉！ 今日牌卡：均衡

今日牌卡：均衡 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/131394046 我覺生活最美好的狀態就是 ~ 人生重要事物，都均衡的發展。 而所謂的均衡，是指各項事務，例如家庭、有情、愛情、事業、財富、嗜好或興趣，各佔有生活時間分配上一定的比例。 最佳比例如何拿捏，如同生活裡的那杯檸檬汁，喜歡喝甜，多加點糖，喜歡更具檸檬香氣，加入削薄的檸檬皮，任君自採擷。 對我而言，日常生活的那杯人生檸檬汁已很具風味。 慶祝、歡笑的美食美酒犒賞要及時。 道謝、道歉、道愛、道不捨和道心疼的情感支持要即時。 這微醺的氣泡讓生活滋味帶點衝擊刺激，口感也就更清新。 In my opinion, the most beautiful state of life is when all the significant aspects of life develop in balance. By balance, I mean that various affairs, such as family, friendships, love, career, wealth, hobbies, or interests, each occupy a certain proportion of the allocated time in life. The optimal ratio is like the lemon juice in life; if you prefer it sweet, add more sugar, if you enjoy the scent of lemons, include thinly sliced lemon peels. It's up to you to customize. For me, the cup of life's lemon juice in daily existence is already quite flavorful. Celebrating and rewarding oneself with delicious food and wine should be done promptly. Expressing gratitude, apologizing, showing love, conveying reluctance, and expressing heartfelt empathy should be immediate forms of emotional support. The slightly intoxicating bubbles add a touch of excitement to life, making the taste even more refreshing. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Equilibrium #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #均衡

2024 0227 今日塔羅：協力

2024 0227 今日塔羅：協力 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/141962152 合作吧！ 有時候得將個人情緒放一旁，共同協力。 接納且欣賞他人的能力， 人，在世界上，是群體裡的個體呀。 不要太過逞強，留些事情讓旁人幫忙。 世界不需繞著誰打轉，沒有誰會搶了誰的光芒。 每個人的特質不一樣，文科武藝很多人都擅長， 不須總是自己一個人忙，最後落得一身疲憊和風霜。 經年翻滾於職場，誰是真心誰是刻意很難藏， 為何總是辜負好心腸，誰還敢互相搭手一起扛。 縱然現在身心滿是傷，對於夥伴還是抱希望， 別笑我還是笨瓜與熱心腸，其實，人與人之間是相互的光。 團隊，總是溫暖且有力量， 願，我們都有夥伴站一旁。 Let's cooperate! Sometimes, we need to set aside our personal emotions and work together. Accept and appreciate the abilities of others, For in this world, we are individuals within a collective. Don't be too proud to ask for help when needed. The world doesn't revolve around any one person; no one steals another's spotlight. Everyone has different qualities; many excel in arts and sciences. There's no need to always be busy alone, only to end up exhausted and weathered. Through the years in the workplace, it's hard to discern who is genuine and who is not. Why do we often disappoint kind hearts? Who dares to lend a helping hand to each other? Even though we may be bruised and battered, let's still hold hope for our teammates. Don't laugh at my simplicity and warm-heartedness, because, in truth, we shine together. A team is always warm and powerful, May we all have companions by our side. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Synergy #Worlds #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #協力 #地球 #行動 #物質

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity 即將成為新娘的霜霜 聽到妳滿是煩躁的心情，沒有了即將成為新娘的喜悅和幸福，有點替妳擔心。 妳說，剛跟父母吵了架，為了婚禮。 可，妳自己知道，父母的建議才是好的。 妳就是感到很煩，胸口很堵，很想大聲地發脾氣，可又找不到正當理由，所以就只能在討論婚禮的事情上，找大家的麻煩。 妳說，妳擔心著婚禮還沒舉行，大家的情感都吵散了。 我問了妳，當初答應結婚的決定是什麼？ 妳說，男友想結婚，雙方談了未來的一些事情，妳回家問妳爸媽的意思，家人也覺是結婚的好時機，所以妳也就答應。 我說，以為是因男友求婚浪漫，當下衝動Say了”Yes”。 妳說，妳自己是個理智的人，求婚感覺也沒多浪漫，且妳不喜歡很多人注視下的求婚，還好妳男友夠了解妳，沒有做這些安排，不然妳可能當場的反應會傷到很多人的心，情況會變得很尷尬。 我問，結婚，為何讓妳覺得很煩？是婚禮的瑣碎覺得厭煩？還是其他什麼？ 妳說，妳也不知道，就感覺結婚後，妳不能再成為妳，光是想到這點就覺煩躁不已。 我再深入地詢問，妳說，結了婚後，沒有了自由，像是被綁住，無法呼吸。 我微笑著跟妳回應說，我單身，沒有類似經驗的可跟妳分享。不過從家人、朋友、電視、小說裡，有記得一些事情可以分享。 聊到後來，妳說了一句話，我笑了出來。 妳說，妳知道了，妳陷入了煩躁的情緒裡，但沒有好好想過到底為什麼煩躁，所以好像問題很多，其實，現在冷靜想想，原本糾結的事情，有些，連”事”都稱不上，根本就不是問題。 最後我們的結論就是，溝通，跟現在的未婚夫，未來的老公溝通。 妳跟男友之間的愛很濃，妳擔心婚後吵架會把情感吵薄了，可忘了先思考你們會為什麼事情吵架？吵架之前，是否有什麼想法，就提出來先討論，互相了解呢。 最後，妳說，今晚可以好好睡覺了。 然後我們就結束了談話。 妳，感覺像是位女漢子，一但不糾結，就放下。這樣的個性，挺好。 送給妳祝福的塔羅牌：【負面性Negativity】。 來自宇宙的訊息是，提醒碧霜，遇到糾結的事情時，負面思緒和情緒會先慣性地湧現，這部分要注意。在發生這樣的情況時，適時地與相關的人進行討論、分享，有助於卡住的思緒或情緒。 預祝霜霜 新婚幸福 百年好合！ 2024-08-26 Blessings to Bishuang: Dear Bishuang, who is about to become a bride, Hearing your anxious feelings, lacking the joy and happiness of becoming a bride, I feel a bit worried for you. You mentioned that you just had an argument with your parents about the wedding. But you know that your parents' suggestions are well-intentioned. You just feel annoyed, like there's a weight on your chest, wanting to vent loudly but without a proper reason, so you end up taking it out on the wedding discussions. You said you're worried that even before the wedding happens, everyone's emotions will already be scattered by the arguments. I asked you, what was your initial reason for agreeing to get married? You said your boyfriend wanted to get married. Both of you talked about the future, you went home and asked your parents' opinion, and your family also thought it was a good time to get married, so you agreed. I thought it was because of a romantic proposal from your boyfriend, and in a moment of impulse, you said "Yes." You replied that you are a rational person and the proposal wasn’t particularly romantic. Moreover, you don’t like being the center of attention during a proposal. Fortunately, your boyfriend knows you well and didn’t plan anything like that; otherwise, your reaction might have hurt many feelings, making things awkward. I asked why getting married makes you feel so annoyed. Is it the trivialities of the wedding that you find frustrating, or something else? You said you don’t really know; you just feel that after getting married, you can no longer be yourself, and just thinking about it makes you feel uneasy. I probed a little deeper, and you said that after marriage, there would be no more freedom, like being tied down and unable to breathe. I smiled and responded that, as a single person, I don’t have similar experiences to share. However, from family, friends, TV, and novels, I do recall some things that might be worth sharing. As our conversation continued, you said something that made me laugh out loud. You mentioned that you realized you were caught up in your anxious emotions without really thinking about why, so it seemed like there were many problems. However, upon calmly reflecting, some of the things that were troubling you weren’t even real "issues" at all. Our final conclusion was communication—communicating with your current fiancé, your future husband. The love between you and your boyfriend is strong. You worry that arguments after marriage might dilute your feelings, but you forgot to consider what you might argue about. Before arguing, why not bring up your thoughts and discuss them openly to better understand each other? In the end, you said you could finally have a good night's sleep tonight. And then we ended our conversation. You seemed like a strong woman, someone who, once they let go, truly lets go. That’s a great personality to have. The Tarot card drawn for you: Negativity. The message from the universe is to remind you, Bishuang, that when you encounter tangled situations, negative thoughts and emotions might habitually surface first, and you should be mindful of this. When this happens, it is helpful to discuss and share with the relevant people to clear the blocked thoughts or emotions. Wishing you a happy marriage and a lifetime of love! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space 端午連假總共三天，第一天，忙著跟朋友相約聊天。 第二天，忙著趕功課進度，整理電腦資料，清潔家裡。 第三天，睽違很久的睡到自然醒，中午跟家人吃飯相聚。 快樂時光好快就結束了。 接下來規律的學習日子也不錯。 今天哥哥說，他覺得我現在的生活模式挺好的。 有新知的學習，有與他人交流交際，有和朋友相約，有和家人相聚，有時間和心力照顧好自己。 我當下忘了回應他，我也很喜歡現在的生活和現在的自己。 慎終追遠，在端午節日是我們文化上的祭祀。 昨晚，不小心按到了平板，畫面跳出來2019年與老爸對話的視窗畫面。 我愣住了好幾分鐘，眼睛都沒眨一下，直盯著平板。 往上滑看了對話的內容，我貼了一個餐廳的連結，跟爸爸說，打算帶他去那個地方走走。 爸爸回應了我揮揮手。 於是，昨晚我看到時，驚愣住，因我以為爸爸又再跟我揮揮手，打招呼。 老爸，很想您，只是沒再跟任何人提起。 我努力生活，就是希望能讓您放心，沒有罣礙。 我明白，很多人微笑的背後都有不同的感傷故事。 我也是。 確實，自己的感受，心情，自己受，受得住，過得去，那就好了。 『時空』 ~ 情感，穿越了時間，跨越了空間。 愛與在乎，始終都在，不曾停止，不曾消逝，不曾退去。 人的一言一行一決定，總在〝因果業力〞法則上加減乘除。 今日的善，他日的果。 昔日的業，今日的劫。 現在遇到的困境，碰到的困難，遭到的難過，我就會回想著過去，到底，哪裡做錯了？是什麼行為讓別人不開心了？是說錯了話？表錯了情？還是要如何才能討人喜歡呢？ 多數時候是沒有獲得答案的。 是有多擔心害怕不被喜歡？ 有的時候就是需要回到過去，探討、了解，才能知道原因。 時空，就是這樣吸引人去回想過去。 畢竟，我們已經花費人生大部分的時間在想像未來，計畫未來了。 在時空裡，我們能夠有計畫性地規劃著許多事情，有人覺得這就是預言，其實這只是多份心去注意、觀察、思考，也就有了洞悉、卓見及計畫。 檢視過去，洗淨廢棄，在這時空的日子裡。 內觀現在，審度現在，在這時空的日子裡。 想像未來，計畫未來，在這時空的日子裡。 跨越時空的想著、念著、愛著。 願一切安好。 願事事順利。 願日日如意。 願希望實現。 在這『時空』的日子裡，我總忍不住想許願，想著世界和平，想著家國安康，想著大家都平安。 June 11, 2024 Tarot of the Day: Time Space The Dragon Boat Festival holiday lasts for three days. On the first day, I was busy meeting up with friends and chatting. On the second day, I was busy catching up on homework, organizing computer files, and cleaning the house. On the third day, I finally slept in and woke up naturally after a long time, and then had lunch with my family. Happy times pass by so quickly. The regular days of learning ahead are also quite nice. Today, my brother said he thinks my current lifestyle is quite good. I am learning new things, socializing with others, meeting up with friends, gathering with family, and have time and energy to take care of myself. At that moment, I forgot to respond to him, but I also really like my current life and myself as I am now. Honoring ancestors during the Dragon Boat Festival is a part of our cultural rituals. Last night, I accidentally pressed my tablet, and the screen showed a conversation window with my dad from 2019. I was stunned for a few minutes, staring at the tablet without blinking. I scrolled up to see the conversation. I had sent a restaurant link to my dad, telling him I planned to take him there for a visit. Dad responded with a wave emoji. So, when I saw it last night, I was shocked because I thought my dad was waving at me again, saying hello. Dad, I miss you very much, but I haven’t mentioned it to anyone. I am working hard to live well, hoping to put your mind at ease and have no worries. I understand that many people have different sad stories behind their smiles. So do I. Indeed, as long as you can bear and get through your feelings and emotions, that's enough. "Time Space" ~ Emotions transcend time and space. Love and care are always there, never stopping, never fading, never retreating. Every word, action, and decision a person makes is always subject to the law of "cause and effect". Today's good deeds are tomorrow's rewards. Past deeds are today's consequences. When I encounter difficulties and sadness now, I reflect on the past. Where did I go wrong? What actions made others unhappy? Did I say the wrong thing? Did I express the wrong emotions? How can I please others? Most of the time, there are no answers. How much do I worry about not being liked? Sometimes, you need to go back to the past, explore and understand, to find the reason. Time Space attracts people to reminisce about the past. After all, we spend most of our lives imagining and planning for the future. In Time Space, we can plan many things with foresight. Some call it prophecy, but it's really just paying more attention, observing, and thinking, leading to insight, foresight, and planning. Reviewing the past, cleaning up waste, in these days of Time Space. Observing the present, assessing the present, in these days of Time Space. Imagining the future, planning for the future, in these days of Time Space. Thinking, remembering, and loving across time and space. May everything be well. May everything go smoothly. May every day be satisfying. May all hopes be realized. In these days of "Time Space", I can’t help but make wishes, thinking about world peace, family and national well-being, and everyone's safety. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #TimeSpace

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0105 想像總是最美的，對吧！今日牌卡：平衡

2024 0105 想像總是最美的，對吧！今日牌卡：平衡

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 0104 別悶著頭工作，抬頭看一下，也許有人正微笑看著你今日牌卡：協力

2024 0104 別悶著頭工作，抬頭看一下，也許有人正微笑看著你今日牌卡：協力

2024 0115 嘿！收心囉！今日牌卡：均衡

2024 0115 嘿！收心囉！今日牌卡：均衡

2024 0227 今日塔羅：協力

2024 0227 今日塔羅：協力

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0105 想像總是最美的，對吧！ 今日牌卡：平衡

2024 0105 想像總是最美的，對吧！ 今日牌卡：平衡

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 0104 別悶著頭工作，抬頭看一下，也許有人正微笑看著你 今日牌卡：協力

2024 0104 別悶著頭工作，抬頭看一下，也許有人正微笑看著你 今日牌卡：協力

2024 0115 嘿！收心囉！ 今日牌卡：均衡

2024 0115 嘿！收心囉！ 今日牌卡：均衡

2024 0227 今日塔羅：協力

2024 0227 今日塔羅：協力

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

2024 0105 想像總是最美的，對吧！今日牌卡：平衡

2024 0105 想像總是最美的，對吧！今日牌卡：平衡

2024 0104 別悶著頭工作，抬頭看一下，也許有人正微笑看著你今日牌卡：協力

2024 0104 別悶著頭工作，抬頭看一下，也許有人正微笑看著你今日牌卡：協力

2024 0115 嘿！收心囉！今日牌卡：均衡

2024 0115 嘿！收心囉！今日牌卡：均衡