2024 0221 今日塔羅：負面性 Negativity

2024 0221 今日塔羅：負面性 Negativity https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/140529169 這兩天，心裡有沒有開始這些小劇場 ~ 看見對方的缺點， 討厭對方的嘴臉， 批評對方的言談， 埋怨對方的不公。 從農曆年長假結束後，工作了好幾天， 每天被一堆待辦事項壓垮了笑臉， 剛休完假後的熱情也磨滅， 看著桌曆，距離下個放假日感覺像是還有幾萬年 … 人與人之間最揪心的就是人欺負人， 說真實的，人心，真的比鬼還可怕多了。 因為自私， 因為貪婪， 因為怯懦， 因為權勢， 因為比較， 職場上，工作交流裡，單純是太過天真，反而會被欺凌，承受的虧更龐大。 人，為何要為難他人呢？ 共同努力，如同雙向共同奔赴的愛情那般美好，可很多人卻不想要 …。 心中產生了一堆負面情緒 ~ 克制、忍耐、壓抑及自省，是今日功課。 These days, have you started these little dramas in your mind? Seeing the flaws in others, Hating their faces, Criticizing their words, and Complaining about their unfairness. After the Lunar New Year holiday ended, I've been working for several days, every day crushed by a pile of tasks, my smile fading away. The enthusiasm I had just after the holiday is also worn out. Looking at the calendar, the next holiday feels like it's thousands of years away... The most heartbreaking thing between people is when one person bullies another. Honestly, the human heart is scarier than ghosts. Because of selfishness, Because of greed, Because of cowardice, Because of power, Because of comparison, In the workplace, in work communication, being too naive can lead to bullying, and the losses incurred are even greater. Why do people make life difficult for others? Working together, like the beautiful mutual love that two people pursue, should be cherished, but many people don't want that... A lot of negative emotions have arisen in my mind. Today's homework is to restrain, endure, suppress, and reflect. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Negativity #Crystals #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #水晶 #負面性 #心智

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142914343 今天是我們的婦女節 ~ 我們的刑法對於”婦女”是這樣定義範圍的： 婦女專指女性而言，從而，本罪之適格客體，遂僅以下列三者為限，分別為： 一.年齡已滿二十歲之婦女。 二.未滿二十歲但已結婚之婦女。 三.未婚且尚未成年，但並無家庭及其他監督權人保護之女子。 國語辭典則是這樣說明的：婦人女子的總稱。《禮記．曲禮下》：「居喪不言樂，祭事不言凶，公庭不言婦女。」 我認為，每一個個體的女孩、女性，就是婦女。 問 ~ 喜歡妳現在的樣子嗎？ 喜歡妳現在的生活嗎？ 很多人說，女人，要成為母親後，才算擁有完整的人生。 而我卻認為，女人，要成為完整的自己，也就擁有自己的人生。 是怎樣的角色，會被稱為什麼稱呼，是很重要。 稱呼，是特別的，是具有一種身分意義的。 但並非唯一定義人生勝利女人的標準。 幸福，才重要。 美滿，才重要。 生活，我喜歡的是歲月靜好。 日子，我喜歡的是寧靜致遠。 人生，我喜歡的是知足常樂。 在屬於我們的日子，犒賞自己，愛自己，感謝自己。 Today is our Women's Day~ Our criminal law defines "women" in the following way: Women specifically refer to females, and thus, the eligible subjects of this offense are limited to the following three categories: 1. Women over the age of twenty. 2. Women under the age of twenty but already married. 3. Unmarried and underage girls without family or other guardian protection. The Mandarin Chinese dictionary explains it as: A collective term for women and girls. "Book of Rites: Etiquette" says: "During mourning, do not speak of joy; during sacrifices, do not speak of misfortune; in the court of the ruler, do not speak of women." I believe that every individual girl and woman is a woman. Questions: Do you like yourself as you are now? Do you like your life now? Many people say that a woman only has a complete life after becoming a mother. But I believe that a woman becomes complete when she becomes her true self, thus having her own life. What kind of role deserves what kind of title is important. Titles are special and carry a sense of identity. But they do not define the standard of a successful woman's life. Happiness is what matters. Fulfillment is what matters. In life, what I like is peace and tranquility. In days, what I like is serenity and distance. In life, what I like is contentment and joy. On our special day, reward yourself, love yourself, and thank yourself. #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Regenerator #Sorrow #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #悲傷 #聖杯 #情緒

2024 0203 今日牌卡：先知

今日牌卡：先知 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/136035769 很久以前 總是跟長者學習，聽他們的經驗分享和故事 我現在呀 ~ 腦袋裡的是舊思維，且僵化了 聽不懂明明都是同樣文字組成的話語，看不懂當下的流行 我像是被人養在小小玻璃缸裡的魚 一直沒有耐性的往水面游去，只為換口氧氣 前面大大的電視播映著海洋 看著同類在漫無邊際的海水裡悠遊 穿過岩石，躲在珊瑚水草裡 我只能蹭在塑料旁，還自以為擁有了天地 以前會時刻提醒自己別活成了井底裡的蛙，只懂呱呱呱 現在可好了，沒成為了蛙，卻也把自己長成了像是玻璃缸裡的魚，游來游去的世界就像個湯碗那樣大，然後，也只會猛冒泡泡泡 現在的我依然想學習 腳程節奏很慢 腦袋思考很慢 學習能力很慢 不過，很好玩，很新鮮，很有意思 差點忘記了，你和我也都是先知呀 我們都有自己的擅長和專業 這是我們的優勢、特色和人生 Long ago, I always learned from the elders, listening to their experiences and stories. Now, in my mind, I am filled with old thoughts, and they have become rigid. I can't understand words that are composed of the same text, and I can't grasp the current trends. I feel like a fish kept in a small glass tank, constantly impatiently swimming to the surface, just to exchange for a breath of oxygen. In front of me, a large television broadcasts the ocean, watching fellow beings leisurely swimming in the vast sea. They pass through rocks, hide in coral and seaweed. While I can only rub against the plastic, thinking I possess the entire world. I used to remind myself not to live like a frog at the bottom of a well, only knowing croaking. But now, I haven't become a frog; instead, I've grown into a fish in a glass tank, and the world I swim in is as big as a bowl, and I can only produce bubbles vigorously. Even now, I still want to learn, but my pace is slow, my thoughts are slow, my learning ability is slow. However, it's amusing, refreshing, and interesting. I almost forgot, you and I are both prophets, we each have our own strengths and expertise. This is our advantage, uniqueness, and life. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotcards #Tarotreader #Dream #Seek #Wands #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #先知 #權杖

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion 你是嚴格對待自己的人嗎？ 你是嚴肅要求他人的人嗎？ 你是凡事都認真看待的人嗎？ 你是每句話都在心裡牢牢記著的人嗎？ 當你沒達到自己設定的目標時，你有什麼感受？第一個冒出來的心情是哪一種？是否會分析失敗的原因？這樣的失敗又讓你如何看待自己？ 生自己的氣？ 對自己感到失望？ 當這麼多的負面情緒與想法在腦袋裡亂竄的時候，是否曾有過一絲絲的溫柔閃過？是否曾有想告訴自己一些體己話，「你做得很棒」，「你已盡了最大的努力」。 慈悲，我們會給予長者，給予弱者，給予父母，給予小孩，給予朋友。 慈悲，我們最常忘記給予自己。 在過去拼命的工作生涯中，當有臨時狀況發生的時候，我常會苛責自己，覺得自己能力太差，思慮粗糙，沒有事先設想好可能會發生的所有情況。 於是，在每次的專案活動結束後，我總是將剛結束的相關資料再翻閱一次，並將下次可注意的事情寫完整。 然後，在電腦資料夾裡預設一個下次類似專案的資料夾，裡面存放著我現在對於未來一年後類似活動的預設計劃草稿。 可能就是因為如此在那幾年裡我的身體每半年崩垮掉一次，每次需長達一週以上的時間才能慢慢恢復。 這幾天的身體和心理狀況，很是糟糕，無法進食，連藥粉或者是藥水，身體都會自主排斥的無法吞嚥，還會因過度抗拒而吐，體力更是無法支撐，只能昏睡。 多年後，我放過自己，離開了那個高壓的工作環境。 之前的嚴重內耗，身體反撲得厲害。 需付出的代價，直到今日仍未還清。 苦不堪言，也只能自己承受。 這真是自作虐，就難活的清爽自在。 看著身邊的朋友們，好多人對自己的要求始終都很高。 小說寫著霸道總裁總是很高、很帥、很冷漠，不管是哪項都是”很”這個最高等級。 現實生活中，在職場上，靠著自己拚到一個位置的人，都是很認真、很賣命、很勞碌，也是哪項都是”很”這個等級。 還會被要求高情商、高度協調、高度配合、高度抗壓、高度耐操。 看著社會上那麼多人拚著命，賣著健康的努力，也沒什麼事發生，自己也會是那個幸運兒吧。 可，誰又能保證誰不會是那個”萬中選一”的呢？ 在你的心中，你認為「慈悲」是什麼？ 你如何看待「慈悲」？ 在悲傷的時刻，還能惦記到別人的好，這是共情，是體貼，也是一種慈悲。 倘若在憤怒之際，怒火要噴天時，突然想到對方過去的貼心和彼此間曾有過的笑容，瞬間冷靜下來了，我覺這是一種對他人和對自己的慈悲。 我覺得若眼前的人是曾經欺侮過你，辜負過你的人，懇求你的協助和放下昔日的糾葛，而你，放下了，也放過了，這不只是慈悲；若用這幾年的網路小說用詞，這是聖母神佛層級的大愛，我自認為做不到。 領航者塔羅對於『慈悲』這張牌是這樣認為的 ~ 在愛的世界裡，你是善於為愛注入溫暖和祥和能量的，有你在的場子，大家都會感受到和樂和喜悅。 總是有強大的共情力和同理心，在你的心中及懷抱裡，總是有更多的諒解與更多的寬容。 慈悲有著一隻黃金佛手印，這手印賦予著抽到牌的人，運用慈愛、療癒力及安定力量，去協助與療癒跟你請求指引的人。 因為心懷慈悲，心胸寬大，財運總是會跟隨著善良的人。 財富，範圍不是只有金錢與俗稱的財產，還有許多非具體或實際的。 常有機緣與陌生之人有場愉快的邂垢，就是一種美好的財富。 佛教認為「慈悲」是複合詞，由四無量心的「慈」與「悲」合成，其意義相近。 在網路上看到一位佛教宗師對於「慈悲」的講解，與我內心的以為很是貼近。 「慈悲，原是佛教用語，拆開來看，「慈」是把快樂給人，「悲」是拔一切眾生苦。眾生有苦，我們幫助他解決，帶給他快樂，這個心就叫「慈悲心」。金菩提宗師教導大家：「真正的慈悲就是特別的愛，就像母親呵護孩子一樣的精神特質，包含關懷、包容、真誠、愛心，還有一顆善解人意之心。」慈悲所產生的愛是非常廣博的，他對所有生命都心懷慈悲，從自然界中的山川、河流、鮮花、動物，到任何需要幫助的人，都具有一種憐憫、慈悲之心。」 基督教 「慈悲是讓一個人得到比他應得的還更寬容的對待。 透過耶穌基督的贖罪，才可能有慈悲。 我們的天父知道我們有弱點和罪。 祂寬恕我們的罪，幫助我們回去與祂同住，這就是慈悲的表現。」 不管是哪一種信仰，或是沒有任何信仰。 我覺「慈悲」，是從小我，小愛出發，懂得愛自己的人，不須提醒，自然能夠覺察到別人的用心和難處，會因理解、體諒而溫柔。 慈悲就如同”善”，像漣漪一圈一圈擴散了出去，永不停歇。 資料來源：金菩提宗師 https://www.jinbodhi.org/79729/ Today's Tarot: Compassion Are you someone who holds yourself to strict standards? Are you demanding of others? Do you take everything seriously? Do you hold onto every word spoken? When you don't reach your set goals, how do you feel? What's the first emotion that surfaces? Do you analyze the reasons for failure? How does such failure make you see yourself? Do you get angry with yourself? Do you feel disappointed? Amidst the chaos of so many negative emotions and thoughts swirling in your mind, have you ever felt a hint of tenderness? Have you ever wanted to tell yourself some comforting words like "You did great" or "You've done your best"? Compassion, we give it to elders, to the weak, to parents, to children, to friends. Compassion, the one we often forget to give to ourselves. During my years of relentless work, whenever unexpected situations arose, I often blamed myself, feeling inadequate and poorly prepared, failing to anticipate all possible scenarios. So, after every project, I would review the relevant materials and jot down things to pay attention to next time. Then, I would create a folder in my computer for similar future projects, storing drafts of plans for activities similar to what I had just finished. Perhaps because of this, my body collapsed every six months during those years, taking over a week each time to slowly recover. These past few days, my physical and mental condition has been terrible, unable to eat, unable to swallow even powdered medicine or liquid without my body rejecting it, even vomiting due to excessive resistance, and my strength unable to sustain me, only able to fall into a deep sleep. Years later, I forgave myself and left that high-pressure work environment. The severe internal strain from before led to a strong backlash from my body. The price to pay, still not fully settled until today. It's unbearable, but I have to endure it myself. It's truly self-inflicted suffering, making it difficult to live comfortably and freely. Looking at my friends around me, so many of them have high demands on themselves. Novels depict dominant CEOs as tall, handsome, and aloof, everything being "very" to the highest degree. In real life, those who rise through the ranks in the workplace through their own efforts are very serious, hardworking, and diligent, also embodying "very" in every aspect. They are also expected to have high emotional intelligence, high coordination ability, high cooperation, high resistance to pressure, and high endurance. Seeing so many people in society striving and sacrificing their health without much happening, could I also be one of the lucky ones? But who can guarantee that one won't be the "one in a million"? In your heart, what do you think "compassion" is? How do you view "compassion"? In moments of sadness, being able to remember the good in others is empathy, thoughtfulness, and also a form of compassion. If in anger, when the flames are about to erupt, suddenly remembering the intimacy of the past and the smiles shared, instantly calming down, I think this is a form of compassion for both others and oneself. If the person in front of you is someone who has once mistreated you, disappointed you, and now seeks your help and forgiveness, and you, being able to let go and forgive, this is not just compassion; in terms of the internet novels of recent years, this is a level of great love akin to a saint or a deity, something I believe I couldn't achieve. According to the Navigator Tarot, this card "Compassion" is seen as follows ~ In the world of love, you are adept at infusing warmth and peaceful energy into love. Wherever you are, everyone will feel joy and happiness. You always possess strong empathy and compassion. In your heart and arms, there is always more understanding and tolerance. Compassion bears a golden Buddha's palm imprint. This imprint endows the one drawing the card with the ability to use love, healing, and stabilizing power to assist and heal those who seek guidance from you. Because of compassion and generosity, wealth always follows the kind-hearted. Wealth, its scope is not limited to just money and material possessions, there are also many intangible or abstract forms. There are often opportunities to have pleasant encounters with strangers, which is a kind of beautiful wealth. In Buddhism, "compassion" is a compound word, composed of the "loving-kindness" (maitri) and "compassion" (karuna) of the Four Immeasurables, with similar meanings. I saw an explanation of "compassion" by a Buddhist master on the internet, which resonated deeply with my inner thoughts. He said: "Compassion, originally a Buddhist term, when broken down, 'loving-kindness' is giving happiness to others, and 'compassion' is alleviating the suffering of all beings. When beings suffer, we help them solve their problems and bring them happiness. This heart is called 'compassionate.' Master Jin Bodhi teaches us: 'True compassion is a special kind of love, like the spirit of a mother caring for her child, including caring, tolerance, sincerity, love, and understanding of others.' The love generated by compassion is very extensive, with compassion for all life, from the mountains and rivers of the natural world, to flowers, animals, and any people in need, having a heart of compassion and mercy." In Christianity, "Compassion" is treating someone more leniently than they deserve. Compassion is only possible through the atonement of Jesus Christ. Our Father knows our weaknesses and sins. He forgives our sins and helps us return to dwell with Him, which is the expression of compassion. Regardless of the faith, or lack thereof, I believe "compassion" starts from loving oneself and understanding oneself, without needing reminders, naturally able to perceive others' intentions and difficulties, responding with gentleness due to understanding and empathy. Compassion is like "goodness," spreading out like ripples, never ceasing. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Compassion

2024 0307 今日塔羅：大師 Master

2024 0307 今日塔羅：大師 Master https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142838005 隨著時光，多了年華，活出了風華。 是智慧者，總是懂得順勢與脈絡。 是轉運者，懂得努力且掌握運命。 成為了大師，發揮專業且獨占鰲頭。 回首，別是一般滋味在心頭。 年紀，不須說謊。 白髮，不須隱藏。 門道脈絡的熟悉，是經驗厚積的蒼白。 這是驕傲，是沒浪費韶韶時光的證明，是努力拼命一道道的紀錄。 成為大師之前，掙扎、辛苦是日常。 回顧，心中湧出不只辛酸和心酸，還有自豪。 抱著熱情、熱血、熱誠，日復一日勞心、勞力、勞神地工作著。 鈴鐺般清脆的聲音已乾啞。 光滑嫩澤的肌膚已是滄桑。 纖纖細長的玉指已成風霜。 走過像剛發出的嫩芽，既清新又脆弱。 經過多年風吹雨打，大事小事一肩扛，既辛苦又煎熬。 終於成就了專業，成就了事業。 大師，人情世故也需嚐。 萬般如意的背後，是四面八方的梳理，是各方各面的周全。 萬般順遂的下面，是四平八穩的扎實，是各角各層的架構。 即使高位，有時也不得不委屈。 大師，看局勢，明情勢，懂順勢，了世勢。 不難，唯用心。 不易，唯堅持。 也就豁然開朗，活得像出世。 With the passage of time and the accumulation of years, one lives out their splendor. The wise always understand the flow and context. The fortunate ones know to strive and master their fate. They become masters, excelling in their field and standing out. Looking back, it's a unique taste lingering in the heart. Age needs no lies. White hair needs no concealment. The familiarity with the subtleties of life is the result of accumulated experiences. This is pride, proof of not wasting precious time, but diligently recording each step. Before becoming a master, struggle and hardship are everyday companions. Looking back, there's not only bitterness and sorrow but also pride. With passion, blood, and sincerity, they work tirelessly day after day, taxing their minds, bodies, and spirits. The once clear and crisp voice has grown hoarse. The smooth and tender skin has weathered. The slender jade fingers have been weathered by time. They've walked through life like tender shoots, fresh yet fragile. Enduring years of wind and rain, bearing burdens big and small, it's been both tough and agonizing. Finally, they've achieved mastery, achieving success in their endeavors. Masters also need to navigate social intricacies. Behind every success lies meticulous planning from all directions, comprehensive consideration from all sides. Beneath every smooth accomplishment lies solid groundwork and meticulous structure. Even in high positions, sometimes compromises are inevitable. Masters observe the situation, understand the trends, adapt to circumstances, and grasp the ways of the world. It's not difficult, just requires dedication. It's not easy, only persistence. Then, clarity dawns, living as if transcending worldly matters. #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Regenerator #Master #Worlds #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #大師 #地球 #物質 #行動

2024 0223 今日塔羅：守護者 Guardian



2024 0223 今日塔羅：守護者 Guardian https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/141188737 守護 ~ 遇見的愛情 累積的財富 拚搏的事業 保守的心智 純淨的靈魂 是不是又一次見證了宇宙的可愛， 昨日的祝福是”抱負”， 今日的祝福則是”守護者”。 宇宙提醒著我們， 將渴望成功、期望成真的抱負確認好， 下一個步驟就是要好生地”守護”好。 一個人的一生一世要守護好的項目非常多。 最主要需先守護好自己的心，心智，意念及態度。 有正確的三觀，有謹守的道德與原則， 不被影響，不被誘惑，不被迷亂，不被困縛。 人生不同階段要守護，要謹守的順序也不盡相同。 但我們都知道，莫忘初衷，始終如一，是一件多麼艱難的事情。 一生，有多長。 一輩子，有多短。 不變，有多困難。 堅持，有多艱難。 有時為了喜歡的人，退讓步，甚至有可能需要遷就，需要改變考量的方式， 這算違背初衷嗎？ 這樣的問題，應該沒有所謂的標準答案。 不傷害人， 不欺壓人， 不霸凌人， 不委屈人， 剩下的，想圖的就是萬事歡喜。 那，結局也就是圓滿，可愛溫暖的。 那，這樣就很好了。 Guardian ~ Encountered Love, Accumulated wealth, Striving career, Conservative mindset, Pure soul. Once again witnessing the loveliness of the universe, Yesterday's blessings were "aspirations, " Today's blessings are "guardian." The universe reminds us, Once we've clarified our desires for success and dreams come true, The next step is to carefully "guard" them. There are many things in one's lifetime to guard. First and foremost, one must guard their own heart, mind, thoughts, and attitude. With the right perspective, adhering to morals and principles, Unaffected, Untempted, Undeterred, Unbound, Different stages of life require different forms of guardianship, different levels of vigilance. But we all know, to remain true to oneself, consistently, is such a difficult task. How long is a lifetime? How short is a lifetime? How difficult is it to remain unchanged? How challenging is it to persist? Sometimes, for the sake of a loved one, we compromise, we may even need to accommodate, change our way of thinking. Does this go against our original intentions? Such questions may not have standard answers. Do not harm others, Do not oppress others, Do not bully others, Do not unjustly burden, Others, What's left is seeking joy in all things. Then, the ending will be complete, lovely, and warm. That would be just fine. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Guardian #Crystals #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #水晶 #守護者 #心智

2024 0117 今日牌卡：倒吊人

今日牌卡：倒吊人 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/131905894 以前老同事說這週他們要吃尾牙，抽大獎 過去我在這家公司工作時，這段時間是黑暗時期 一堆事把我整得昏天暗地黑臉的 聽說，我一離開，那八百擔子的鳥事全都委外了 這 … 擺明了過去是故意修整我得呀 當初人還在江湖上 我常說這麼一句話：今日，是，昨日果，未來因 過去被苛刻、嚴格、過分對待的事 我除了認了，還能怎麼 … 讓霸凌者道歉嗎？ 其實，若有機會，我還真想呀 這又關乎”倒吊人”什麼關係？ 這可是實實打打的直接因果關係呀 過去，我做錯的，我道歉 我想因今日誠懇面對，種善因 債主們，昔日欠你們的，上門討吧 是我的錯，我認，我扛，我還 My ex-ex-ex-colleagues mentioned that they will be having their year-end party this week and there will be a lucky draw. During my time working at this company in the past, it was a dark period for me. Numerous issues left me feeling overwhelmed and with a gloomy face. I heard that after I left, they outsourced all the burdensome tasks. It's clear that in the past, they deliberately reorganized things against me. Back when I was still in the business world, I often said this phrase: "Today is the result of yesterday, and the future is because of today." For the past incidents where I was treated harshly and unfairly, what else could I do but accept it? Can you make the bully apologize? Actually, if given the chance, I really wish for that. How does this relate to the concept of "hanged man"? This is a straightforward cause-and-effect relationship. For the mistakes I made in the past, I apologize. I believe facing them sincerely today is a step towards creating good karma. Creditors, those debts from the past that I owe you, feel free to come and collect. It's my fault, I admit it, and I'll bear the responsibility. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #HangedMan #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #倒吊人

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest 辛苦了，64女士 ~ 宇宙送給妳的祝福是【豐收 Harvest】。 過去不得不逼自己強大，強悍的妳，現在是採收過去辛勤努力勞動成果的時候。 妳的付出，有人看見，有人視而不見，但不管如何，都不會被抹煞消失，那些辛苦的過程，點點滴滴都深刻在妳自己的心裡頭。 妳分享，妳付出，享受的人給予的回應只有當下簡單的謝謝兩個字，感覺像是妳的給予和疼惜是理所當然，所以受傷的妳對於這樣的回應，難過與傷心常在心中翻攪個不停。 妳自問，錯了嗎？給，錯了嗎？ 給，和付出，是何等高貴的行為，何況給的對象不是妳的家人，而是妳的親人。 只是，多情的人總是傻，卻又那麼地自以為是。 將對情感的需求建構在這樣有點歪扭的架構下，當對方沒能同等回應情感時，就覺被利用，被辜負，好受傷，好難過，好傷心。 付出，是妳當時心甘情願的，不是嗎？ 給予，是妳當時心思所盼的，不是嗎？ 他們，沒討，沒要，沒求，一切都是妳的主動。 是把愛想得太過功利了。 是心中匱乏到竟然要利用給予的恩，換來日常的愛。 是的，我確實是這樣認為的。 當我們聊到這裡時，我也審視著我自己，我是否也捲進這樣的漩渦中而不自知，而感到傷心，難過？ 跟妳聊天，原本是妳感到苦悶想找人說說話，沒想到，跟妳對話觸動到我的心裡，甚至讓我自己反思著一些情況。 當然與妳聊天的結尾，我給予妳祝福和鼓勵，沒讓妳知道的是，那些話我也是在寫給自己的。 謝謝自己。辛苦了。 妳的付出，妳的給予是美麗的，當下的歡喜與喜樂，就是最好的回應和回饋。 若心意，帶著算計，這不是心意，這是企圖，是謀取。 當初的給予就是那樣的單純，唯有這樣純粹的美好，值得放在我們的心裡。 善與好的流動，有時回到身邊的，不是以具體的形式回來，也不是曾享有妳的疼愛的人的回應，有時，老天會派不同的人來到妳身邊，也許是偶然的驚喜，也許是化險為夷的安康，也許是平安與健康。 妳所曾付出的，老天都會讓那樣的善回到妳身邊。 老天，必不虧待每個真心誠意的。 而妳和我，其實，都一直享受著豐收而不自知。 願你我都能更懂得明白且接收到善與美的回應。 November 19, 2024 Ms. 64: Harvest Dear Ms. 64, You’ve worked hard, and the universe is sending you its blessing: Harvest. In the past, you were forced to become strong, even tough. Now, it’s time for you to reap the rewards of your tireless efforts. Your contributions may have been noticed by some and overlooked by others, but no matter what, they cannot be erased. Every moment of your hard work is etched deeply in your heart. You give, you share, and the only response you often receive is a simple “thank you.” It feels as though your care and generosity are taken for granted. This lack of appreciation stirs a constant wave of sadness and hurt within you. You ask yourself, “Was it wrong to give? Was it wrong to care?” To give, to contribute, is such a noble act, especially when it’s not directed toward your immediate family but your loved ones. Yet, those who are deeply emotional can sometimes be naïve and overly self-assured. When we build our emotional expectations on fragile foundations, the absence of reciprocation leaves us feeling used, betrayed, deeply hurt, and heartbroken. But wasn’t your giving voluntary at the time? Wasn’t your offering driven by heartfelt intent? They didn’t demand, ask, or beg—it was all your initiative. Perhaps you’ve turned love into something transactional. Perhaps the void in your heart led you to use giving as a way to secure love. Yes, that’s exactly what I believe. As we discuss this, I reflect on myself: Have I also unknowingly fallen into this whirlpool of emotions, feeling hurt and sorrowful? Talking with you began as your need to vent, to find someone to talk to. But during our conversation, your words touched my heart and even made me reflect on my own situations. At the end of our talk, I gave you my blessings and encouragement. What I didn’t tell you is that those words were also meant for myself. Thank you, dear self. You’ve worked hard. Your giving and generosity are beautiful. The joy and happiness of the moment are the best forms of feedback and gratitude. If our intentions are laced with calculation, they cease to be intentions—they become schemes and strategies. The purity of your original offering was what made it beautiful. Only such pure beauty deserves a place in our hearts. The flow of goodness doesn’t always return in obvious forms. Sometimes, it doesn’t come from those who benefited from your love. Instead, heaven may send someone new into your life, perhaps as a pleasant surprise, a safeguard from harm, or blessings of peace and health. The goodness you have given will always find its way back to you. Heaven never shortchanges the sincere and kind-hearted. Both you and I have actually been enjoying the harvest all along without realizing it. May we both come to better understand and embrace the responses of goodness and beauty. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change 現在有一句話說，「變，才是現在永恆的定理。」 跟不上”變”，不想”改變”，不是你唾棄了世界，是世界已走在很前面，遺棄了你。 談”變”還是”改變”，談何容易。 人生在世，有許多珍貴的事物，那些都有著〝不變〞的真理。 真愛，珍愛。 變，就不值錢了。 鑽石、寶石的閃耀與高價在於”不變”。 也許日後變了形，如同人類日漸衰老，英挺帥氣，青春美貌已隨時光漸消失，但本質沒有改變，依然堅如磐石，依然硬如地殼，如同我們愛人的心。 改變，不容易。 論個性，難調。 論品行，難雕。 還好，氣質可靠培養，特質可靠養成。 人生，還有得救，還能有所期待。 最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。 我是想這樣慢慢地調整，改變著自己，分享給大家 ~ 第一，語調的正能量。 從疑問句，驚嘆句，現改為肯定句，溫馨提醒句。 怎麼說呢？ 我現在的寫法：「最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。」 我以前的寫法：「為什麼最近宇宙一直提醒著改變？」 大部分的用字差不多，用心程度也是相近，你喜歡哪句。 第二，鍛鍊樂觀與平衡的心智。 正事越是讓我崩潰，休息時間我越是快樂哼曲調。 生活日日平靜，無味，只要不涉及危險，有點波浪，這海平面也就生動了起來，海底的生物也醒了過來，生機，就盎然了。 第三，做好正念之四好。 四好，賜好。 老天賜予的好好。 好好吃飯。好好睡覺。好好放鬆。好好愛。 心知足，就能專注。 專注，就能做好事情。 事情做好，人就會好好的。 我近年在努力的，就這幾項，不多，可也不容易。 有很多心得與感悟。 有不少灰心及氣餒。 生活即使簡單，也是充滿了改變。 『改變』，你的愛，進入改變期。 不管是愛自己，還是愛著別人，改變，都是為了更美好的將來。 不用擔心，這改變不是誰變了心。 世界確實一直在改變，且速度越來越快，即使快到很難適應，我們也是不得不接受與學習。 很多時候，改變，是蠻好的事情。 科技的改變，讓事情的處理上更輕易。 與地球那端的距離更加拉近。 不在同一個國度或同一時區的彼此，不再那樣困難聯繫，甚至不用花費任何金錢。 科技，讓有心人，更加靠近。 大發利市的趨勢財與智慧財，誰抓得住誰獲利滿滿。 這已不是過去那個認真、努力就能賺錢的時代。 這是個需要衝，且要敢衝，才能賺到錢的時代。 為了生存，我們需改變。 為了未來，我們需改變。 因為改變，不同的壓力，許多的壓力，接踵而來。 現在已不是像過去那樣地一個簡單的時代。 現在，和諧與均衡更加重視，也更加迫切需要。 身體要能迎頭追趕改變，需要後援，需要調整。 身心要能迎接面對改變，需要支持，需要更新。 我們個人的硬體與軟體皆需要懂得改變，才不造成彼此拖累，互相折騰的窘況，方能處在改變之潮流裡，且不被沖走。 每天改變一點點，一個月的改變加起來至少有三十點。 改變，加上時間這項發酵器，是複利的累積。 而你所能做的，就是改變自己不敢向前的腳步。 踏出舊習，踏入新境，心境因應改變而調整，會發現，前進也沒那麼難。 就是辛苦多了一點。 但，不難。 改變，不需等待，不需擇日，動心起念時就可馬上進行。 Today's Tarot: Change There's a saying, "Change is the eternal truth of the present." If you can't keep up with "change" and don't want to "change," it's not that you're rejecting the world; it's that the world has advanced far ahead, leaving you behind. Talking about "change" or "changing" isn't easy. In life, there are many precious things that hold the truth of "unchanging." True love, cherished love. Once changed, they lose their value. The brilliance and high value of diamonds and gemstones lie in their "unchanging" nature. Perhaps they may change form in the future, like how humans age, losing their youthful beauty, but their essence remains unchanged, as solid as a rock, as unyielding as the Earth's crust, like the hearts of our loved ones. Change isn't easy. Difficult to adjust in terms of personality. Difficult to sculpt in terms of conduct. Fortunately, temperament can be reliably cultivated, and special qualities can be reliably developed. In life, there's still salvation, still something to look forward to. Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change. I think I'll gradually adjust like this, changing myself and sharing it with everyone~ First, maintaining a positive tone. From questions and exclamations to affirmations, gentle reminders. How about this? My current wording: "Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change." My previous wording: "Why has the universe been constantly reminding me of change lately? " The choice of words is similar, and the level of care is about the same. Which do you prefer? Second, cultivating an optimistic and balanced mindset. The more stressed I am with work, the happier I hum during breaks. If life is calm every day and tasteless, as long as it doesn't involve danger, a little wave makes the sea surface come alive, and the creatures at the bottom of the sea awaken, vitality abounds. Third, practicing the Four Goods of mindfulness. The Four Goods, the bestowed goods. The goods bestowed by heaven. Eat well. Sleep well. Relax well. Love well. Contentment leads to focus. Focus leads to doing things well. When things are done well, people will be well. These are the few things I've been striving for in recent years, not many, but not easy either. There are many insights and realizations. There's quite a bit of discouragement and frustration. Even if life is simple, it's still full of change. "Change," your love, is entering a period of change. Whether it's loving yourself or loving someone else, change is for a better future. Don't worry, this change doesn't mean someone's heart has changed. The world is indeed constantly changing, and the pace is getting faster. Even if it's so fast that it's hard to adapt, we still have to accept and learn. Many times, change is a good thing. Technological advancements make tasks easier. The distance from one end of the Earth to the other is getting closer. Being in different countries or time zones no longer makes it difficult to connect, and it doesn't even require spending any money. Technology brings like-minded people closer. In the trend of booming financial and intellectual wealth, it's about who can seize the opportunity and profit the most. It's no longer the era where you could earn money just by being serious and hardworking. This is an era where you need to push forward boldly to make money. For survival, we need to change. For the future, we need to change. Because with change comes different pressures, many pressures, one after another. Nowadays, it's not as simple as it used to be. Now, harmony and balance are more valued and urgently needed. Physically, we need support to keep up with the changes, we need adjustments. Mentally, we need support to face the changes, we need updates. Both our hardware and software need to know how to change so we don't burden each other, so we don't end up in a situation where we're dragging each other down amidst the tide of change, but rather we can flow with it without being swept away. Changing a little bit every day, at least thirty points of change add up in a month. Change, coupled with time as a fermenter, is the accumulation of compound interest. And what you can do is to change the steps you're afraid to take forward. Step out of old habits, step into new territory, adjust your mindset in response to change, and you'll find that moving forward isn't so difficult. It's just a little harder. But not impossible. Change doesn't need to wait, doesn't need to choose a day, just act when the urge arises. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 0221 今日塔羅：負面性 Negativity

2024 0221 今日塔羅：負面性 Negativity

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow

2024 0308 今日塔羅：悲傷 Sorrow

2024 0203 今日牌卡：先知

2024 0203 今日牌卡：先知

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0307 今日塔羅：大師 Master

2024 0307 今日塔羅：大師 Master

2024 0223 今日塔羅：守護者 Guardian

2024 0223 今日塔羅：守護者 Guardian

2024 0117 今日牌卡：倒吊人

2024 0117 今日牌卡：倒吊人

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 1119 64女士：豐收 Harvest

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change