【開箱】女人迷｜2025 play with time 手帳

今年定調在沓沓仔 ta̍uh-ta̍uh-á，台語意思是慢慢地。 一、女人迷｜2025 play with time 手帳/基本簡介 2025 年在求快的世界，做一個長期主義者，走在你的時區，就是最好的速度！ 2023年至2024年對我來說是突破的一年，嘗試了許多與未曾想過的事情。這些事情或許對一些人是一件再普通也不過的事情，但隨著每個人生命裡的故事，演進，以及所經歷的歷程。這些對於普通不過的事情，或許也在另一個人的世界裡變成了讓人想要記錄下來的大事。這就是所謂的，我走在我的時區。沒有誰比較快，沒有誰比較慢。沒有誰比較好，沒有誰比較不好。我做在我想要的事，我走在我所想經歷的，或許有點繞路，或許有點迷路，但是喜歡的路上。 未上書套前硬殼、軟殼在視覺上會比較明顯，但是上完書套後，其實看起來不會落差太多。 濁水溪的設計讓我想起心跳。也想起節節攀升。 二、其他 2025年版 v.s 2024年版 2025年仍舊有保留2024年的一些項目，像是甘特圖以及Start from here，而兩個年度主題上的差異，也是今年創新的部分。甘特圖的設計往往扮演著幫助我們完成專案的排程，而一年就像是用一本以月管理的專案而成。因為甘特圖分成30格，我自己是有額外紀錄每日專屬店家的line購物的分潤%數，這樣有助於我了解店家容易在何時推出高%的分潤以及贈送的票券。如果喜歡追蹤自己體重的人或許也可以將甘特圖的格內紀錄每日的體重數，幫助自己每日的體重差異。 本篇文章略長..如果有興趣，可以直接點《【開箱】女人迷｜2025 play with time 手帳》 #女人迷 #女人迷手帳 #手帳 

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man 好久不見了，Derek ~ 看著你的訊息，與跟你對話的過程中，我感受到你的痛苦與已想盡辦法卻仍困在死局裡的狀況。 如同你所寫的，我們算不上熟悉，甚至可以說我們其實也不太認識對方，在那幾天的課程中，我們會閒聊一些，一起吃了頓飯，喝了一杯咖啡，之前的緣分如此淺薄，但依然將對方視為朋友。 時光倒推回去，約莫是去年的此時認識的你，而你的人生如同你的計劃，在今年創業了。 記得那時你跟我分享著這創業夢時，我那時腦海中閃過了幾個模糊畫面和一些情緒。 看著你發亮得意的神情，我也不好意思說太多，只輕輕提了幾句，也不敢說是提醒，就像閒聊般去帶到。 而今日你所說的現在面臨到的問題與困境，竟然與一年前我腦海中浮出的景象重疊了起來，並且清晰許多。 身為淡交的朋友的我，沒有立場，沒有角色，沒有資格去評論任何事情，但確實對現在的你的情況感到擔憂。 於是我馬上向宇宙詢問給你指引，抽到的塔羅牌：【倒吊者 Hanged Man】。 我常對於塔羅牌的神奇感到驚訝不已。 現在的情況對你來說就像是被掐住脖子般那樣窘迫，想盡辦法依然無法解決，快要無法呼吸的痛苦與窒悶。 傍晚冷靜後的我覺得需要多關心你，跟你提起向父母求援，才知道現在你們的關係是僵化與冷漠的。 我的直覺是認為趁這次的關係，一來跟父母多些情感關係的建立與連結，二來可打破你們目前相敬如冰的情況，三來可解決你現在卡住的急迫問題。 固執的你，馬上回應不可能找父母談。 哎呀！你怎就是不懂呢，父母的協助可讓你的危機化為轉機，不管是你的事業還是你們家庭氛圍。 對於倒吊者這張塔羅牌，積極面對問題的關鍵，會有”反轉”的機會。宇宙在告訴你，Derek，藉此機會，你需學習與接納，今日的情況與你的溝通、協調以及認知有很大的關係，你從你自己的角度、視野評估與衡量，然後衝動做了決定，卻又沒能將一些情況周全設想到，所以面對了現在，無論是人、事、金錢都出現了卡住、停滯、掐住的窘迫。 當然，這也與你非常年輕有關係。 試著傾聽。 試著放下自我。 試著就事論事。 也許，你以為的冰山，其實一直想成為你的靠山，只是你很少讓他們有機會接近你。 2024-11-07 Derek: The Hanged Man Hello, Derek. It's been a while. Reading your message and conversing with you, I can sense the pain and frustration you’re enduring, trying everything yet still feeling trapped in a deadlock. As you mentioned, we’re not particularly close; in fact, we barely know each other. During those few days of class, we exchanged small talk, shared a meal, and had a cup of coffee. The bond was brief, yet we still regard each other as friends. Looking back, it was around this time last year that we met, and your life, just as you planned, took a big step forward when you started your own business this year. I remember you telling me about your entrepreneurial dream back then. A few hazy images and emotions flashed through my mind. Seeing your proud, radiant expression, I hesitated to say too much, only lightly mentioning a few things, not as a warning but just casual remarks. Today, as you talk about the challenges and struggles you’re facing, I realize they overlap precisely with the visions I had a year ago, now much clearer. As a distant friend, I hold no position, role, or right to judge, yet I do feel concerned for you in your current situation. So, I immediately asked the universe for guidance on your behalf and drew the Tarot card, The Hanged Man. I'm always amazed by the mysterious insight of Tarot cards. Right now, your situation feels as if a hand is gripping your throat, an unbearable struggle to breathe as you try to break free, yet find no solutions. After calming down in the evening, I felt the need to reach out more, to suggest that you consider asking your parents for help, only to find that your relationship with them is currently distant and cold. My intuition is that this could be a good opportunity to reconnect emotionally with your parents. Not only could this alleviate the current strain, but it might also shift the icy dynamic between you all, while possibly resolving your urgent issue. But your response was immediate—no way you would talk to your parents. Oh! How can you not see? Their support could turn this crisis into an opportunity, benefiting both your business and the atmosphere within your family. Regarding The Hanged Man card, the key to facing challenges lies in seeking a “reversal” of perspective. The universe is telling you, Derek, that this is a time to learn and accept. Today's situation is closely linked to your communication, coordination, and perception. You’ve evaluated and acted based on your own view, making impulsive decisions without fully accounting for other aspects. And now you’re facing blockages, with people, circumstances, and finances all stalled, squeezed, and at an impasse. Of course, part of this is due to your youth. Try to listen. Try to let go of self-centeredness. Try to address matters as they are. Perhaps what you perceive as a cold, distant iceberg has always wanted to be your support. You’ve just rarely given them the chance to come close. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor 這是宇宙送給覺得自己每天都在苦悶世界裡的怡貞的祝福塔羅牌：【感知者 Sensor】。 這次與個案聊的不是很順利，可以感受得到個案不願意敞開心情和思緒，所以回應的文字簡單，甚至多為不是很有含意的訊息，導致中間我像是在唱獨角戲般，然後個案會突然插進來一句與前文完全無關的問句，這要讓人如何回應。 在這短短三十分鐘的時間裡，怡貞即使是抱怨，文字都那樣簡短，顯得非常無力，感覺連聊聊都使不上力。 就因不到一百個字的回應，我感受到怡貞處於一個封閉的心結裡，想掙脫，但也沒使上蠻荒之力，想改變，卻也沒真正想下定決心。 也許上線找人聊聊天，已是怡貞最近做得最為積極和具體的行為改變。 可，這樣是完全不夠的。 一開始，可能是因為現實，因為壓力，因為許許多多我們無力對抗的因素，所以被困住了。 我們就像被一根細繩綁住的大象，在想要掙開時，被威嚇住，不敢再亂動，即使後來我們已茁壯，已夠堅強，卻仍擺脫不了那細繩綁住的恐懼與制約。 後來，把我們困住的是我們自己。 我們知道要求救，然後，也許，我們就是只有坐在原地等他人救援。 卻沒有奮力自救，沒有用雙手用力扒開身體旁邊的泥土，即使理智告訴我們再不把土撥開，就要被活埋，無法呼吸了，我們依然被動地，等待著他人的援助。 這樣的無力與無奈，我能懂，我也曾經經歷過，甚至不只一次。 別苛責自己，有時我們是沒有意識到被束縛住了。 有時，我們茫然了，忘記了須要專注的焦點是什麼，整天渾渾噩噩的。 但，我們在這樣的情況下，沒有放棄自己，這就是一個很棒的突破口。別輕易否定自己的一切努力。 越是這樣不知所措的時候，越是要打開我們的心靈天線，像是站在草原上，感受著風從哪個方向來，風中的氣味，風的力道，請風帶走我們的憂愁。 去感受大自然，在大樹前面，我們的生命是如此短暫又脆弱，在磅礡瀑布前，我們的意志和力量是如此渺小又薄弱，在萬紫千紅的百花裡，我們的創意和想法是如此蒼白又侷促。 宇宙給怡貞的話在感知者這張塔羅牌裡道盡了祝福與提醒。 我們擁有心靈溝通的力量，全身都是接收器的我們，可以看透，洞悉許多事情的深處及真相，可我們得打開心胸，打開感知的天線，才能接收，才能進而覺知、覺察，甚至調整與改變。 把自己關鎖起來，看似安全，可僵局無法打破，無法從泥沼中逃脫，時間久了，反而是致命等級的危險。 試著從改變一點點開始努力，當僵固的泥土裂了隙縫後，再多做一些積極與努力，會越來越能爬出泥漿，也越來越能活動，進而鼓起力氣，用力掙脫，大步跨步往前邁進，跑向希望，跑向明亮與光彩的世界。 2024 1031 Yizhen: The Sensor This is the blessing Tarot card that the universe has sent to Yizhen, who feels trapped in a world of daily gloom: The Sensor. The recent conversation with the client didn’t go smoothly. I could sense that the client wasn’t willing to open up emotionally or mentally. Their responses were brief, often devoid of any real meaning, leaving me feeling like I was performing a monologue. Occasionally, the client would interject with a question entirely unrelated to the previous discussion, which made it difficult to respond naturally. In just thirty minutes, Yizhen’s replies, though sometimes complaints, were so brief and drained of energy that it felt as if even speaking required too much effort. With responses totaling less than a hundred words, I sensed Yizhen was caught in a closed-off emotional knot—wanting to break free yet lacking the strength to do so, desiring change yet not fully committed to it. Perhaps, coming online to find someone to chat with has been the most proactive step Yizhen has taken recently. But it’s far from enough. Initially, it could have been due to reality, to stress, to countless factors beyond our control, that we felt trapped. We’re like elephants tethered by a thin rope—intimidated into staying put even though we’ve grown strong enough to break free. In the end, we’re bound not by the rope, but by our own conditioning. We know to seek help, but perhaps, we’re simply waiting, sitting in place for someone to rescue us. We don’t actively try to save ourselves, don’t use our hands to claw at the soil beside us. Even when logic tells us that if we don’t break free soon, we’ll be buried alive, gasping for breath, we continue passively awaiting someone else’s assistance. I understand this feeling of helplessness and frustration, having been through it myself more than once. Don’t be too hard on yourself—sometimes we’re not even aware that we’re bound. Sometimes we lose focus, drifting through the day in a fog. Yet, the fact that we haven’t given up on ourselves in this state is a great breakthrough. Don’t easily dismiss your efforts. The more lost you feel, the more important it is to open your inner antenna, as if standing on a vast prairie, sensing the direction of the wind, its scent, and its strength, and letting it carry away our sorrows. Take in nature: standing before a towering tree, we realize our lives are short and fragile; before a majestic waterfall, our willpower and strength seem minuscule; among the colorful blooms, our creativity and ideas feel pale and constrained. The universe’s message to Yizhen, embedded in The Sensor card, is filled with blessings and reminders. We have the power of spiritual communication; we are receivers in our entirety, capable of perceiving and penetrating the essence and truths of many things. But we must open our minds and our sensory antennae to receive, become aware, and, ultimately, to adjust and change. Locking ourselves away may feel safe, but it only keeps us stagnant, unable to escape the mire, which, over time, turns into a perilous trap. Try starting with small changes, and as cracks appear in the hardened soil, gradually add more effort and positivity. You’ll find it easier to crawl out of the mud, move more freely, and build the strength to break free, taking strides toward a world of hope, brightness, and brilliance. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1026 Alyson：先知Seer

2024 1026 Alyson：先知Seer 這兩天進行著傾聽工作時，腦子裡浮現的直覺，常跳脫出需要傾聽者者目前的話題，得試著不留痕跡地將話題朝接收到的直覺議題帶。 我習慣於與個案結束了傾聽後，將剛進行的對話進行彙整，寫出一篇散文紀錄，並且請求宇宙給予個案祝福及指引，最後用AI生成一張圖片，然後工作才算完成。 ”靈性”這兩個字，對我來說太過深奧，也太過神秘，我始終沒有弄懂過。可，就在昨天，突然有了靈性覺醒的感悟。 該怎麼說明呢，就是向宇宙請求給予個案祝福的塔羅牌時，抽出的塔羅牌與自己於與個案對談過程中，腦中浮現的直覺是一樣的概念時，當下，我感覺到自己的腦袋一轟，很是興奮與感動。 當下，我好想大聲呼喊，我的直覺力與宇宙直接連結了，就像是我的食指與ET的食指相接觸，電流嘩啦地串通全身，ET當下的所思、所想也出現在我的腦中，那樣直接與神奇。 然後我回想著最近是否有類似的事情發生，可被記憶力不好的自己打敗，也就終止折騰自己的行為，畢竟，這樣的回溯，沒有太大意義。 也許之前有，但自我沒有覺察到。 沒有覺察到，就沒有了感悟與感觸，也就沒能產生靈性覺醒的火花與自我心靈上的滿足及興奮。 緊張得拿出塔羅牌，這次，是自己想要跟宇宙請求祝福與指引。 請宇宙給予祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【大師 Master】。 再請宇宙給予指引，要繼續努力學習和精進的是【先知 Seer】。 成為大師級的塔羅閱讀師是我的目標，曾有同學問我沒想過成為塔羅教學者嗎？ 我記得自己當時的回應是，成為傳道、授業、解惑者之前，我認為我需要累積與學習的事情還需非常多，也許日後有機會可以，可，現在，精進自己，並於個案需要指引時，能有所幫助，是此時的重責工作。 對於【先知 Seer】，宇宙給予的建議是我需努力成為一位智者，尤其是我已看到了那道永垂不朽，永不熄滅，永不消失的光。光，或許對此時的我來說，距離非常遙遠，但不妨礙我已見，已觀，已知曉前進的方向。 宇宙說我還需要在靈性技能與鍛鍊上學習得更加精通，且要能透過能量、覺察、特質喚醒與啟發我更多、更高的靈性力量與能量，並且運用我擅長的工具及流程，分享宇宙的智慧及上天給予我的天賦及能量。 我是一個駑鈍的學習者，又不是很勤勞，與積極更是扯不到邊。我總是任性地照著自己的心情和步調，在學習塔羅這條路上慢悠悠地走著、晃著，甚至停頓住，不動。 是的，在這學習路上，有著許多不是很正向的聲音在逼迫著我，確實被疑惑過，我的心志是否還堅定，也被否定了踏上閱讀師的堅定意願。 我沒有任何解釋，我的內心也覺得我是不需跟誰需要解釋的。 我的靈，我的魂，我的高我，如何走這條靈性路，希望用怎樣的腳程走著，想什麼時候快速走，什麼時候啥也不想，就是在路邊休息，看花，看天空，看鳥兒飛過，看大雨落下，都應該也可以是自己決定就好，這也是天意，是自然。 種子何時要冒出來芽，長成苗，是天意，是自然。 如同，太極。 2024 10/26 Alyson: The Seer In the past few days while doing my listening work, certain intuitions would surface in my mind, often diverging from the topic the person needed to talk about. I’d try to subtly guide the conversation toward the topics these intuitions pointed me to. I’m accustomed to wrapping up a session by summarizing the conversation into a prose record, then asking the universe for blessings and guidance for the person I’ve just worked with. I finish by generating an AI image. Only then does the work feel complete. The word “spirituality” has always felt deep and mysterious to me, something I could never fully grasp. But yesterday, I had an awakening moment of spiritual insight. How to describe it? When I drew tarot cards asking for blessings for the person, the card’s meaning aligned with the intuition I’d had during our conversation. In that instant, my mind buzzed with excitement and emotion. I felt like my intuition connected directly with the universe—like my index finger touching E.T.’s, with energy flowing through me, and I could sense E.T.’s thoughts as if they were my own. It felt that direct and wondrous. I started reflecting on whether similar events had happened recently, but my poor memory got the best of me, and I decided to stop overthinking it. This kind of retrospection didn’t hold much meaning anyway. Perhaps it had happened before, but I hadn’t noticed. Without awareness, there’s no insight, no spark of spiritual awakening, and no inner satisfaction or excitement. Nervous yet eager, I took out my tarot cards again. This time, I wanted to ask the universe for my own blessing and guidance. I asked for a blessing and drew The Master. For guidance, the card was The Seer. Becoming a master tarot reader is my goal. A classmate once asked if I’d considered teaching tarot. I remember replying that I still needed to learn and experience so much more before becoming a guide. Perhaps someday, but for now, refining myself and being able to help others in need of guidance is the most important task. For The Seer, the advice from the universe is that I need to work to become a wise person. I’ve already glimpsed that eternal, undying light. That light, though distant, has shown me the direction forward. The universe says I need to deepen my spiritual skills, cultivating awareness and qualities that awaken and elevate my spiritual power. Using my preferred tools and processes, I’m to share the universe’s wisdom and the gifts it has given me. I am a slow learner, not particularly diligent, and certainly not driven. I meander along the path of tarot at my own pace, sometimes even stopping entirely. Yes, there have been many discouraging voices questioning my resolve, doubting my commitment to this path. I have no need to explain myself to anyone. My spirit, my soul, my higher self—how I walk this spiritual path, the pace I choose, when to walk fast, when to rest and simply watch the flowers, the sky, the birds, or the rain—all should be my choice alone. That, too, is destiny and nature. The timing of a seed’s sprouting and growth is destiny, is nature. Just like Tai Chi. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe 樹樹對於豬隊友般的同組同仁感到氣憤，不能理解為何可以如此不上心，不在意。 樹樹認為若無心，那為何不選擇離開，為何要在公司裡，在團隊中，迫害著別人，影響努力工作者的心情，偷竊認真工作者的努力成果。 樹樹說今天下班前跟豬隊友同事吵架了，其他同事對豬隊友喊請趕快離職，可以嗎。 天兒呀，共事已到這般水火不容的程度，工作時彼此的心情都在煎熬吧。 樹樹問，為何工作上什麼事情都要人家盯？為什麼要這樣擺爛？為何這樣還不離開公司？ 這，有時恐怕連當事人都沒能有所謂的正確答案。 明白我的回覆樹樹應該是不滿意的，但是我認為現在聊的這情況不是在論對與錯，也不是可以說如何思考，如何做是正確的。 『人，這個中文字，很簡單，就2撇，但，也讓我們看出來，當不同的人時，思考方式不同，彼此的距離就會很遙遠，此時就會需要溝通、 協調。』 樹樹無法理解為何我給她這樣沒有具體的句子。 只有短短數十分鐘的時間，該怎麼說？能怎麼說呢？ 有時候，錯誤的人在錯誤的地方，與其他人無法共融，埋怨也就越來越旺盛；有時，正確的人在錯誤的地方，被欺、被凌、被虐，好好的人，再有多強大的雄心壯志，也會被磨到無菱無角。 世上的事情都太難二分法了，即使是孩子眼中也明白，眼睛看到的所有東西，不是只有黑色和白色兩種，所以呀放手未必是懦弱，堅持有可能是逞強。 至於何時放手才比較好，何時應該要堅持？這只怕神仙也不敢論斷，我又怎可能知道呢。拜託，就別問這種傻白甜的蠢問題了吧。 向宇宙請求給樹樹的祝福指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【宇宙Universe】。 宇宙想告訴年輕又上進的樹樹，這個世界很大，大到我們窮極此生都走不遍，看不完。地球之外還有宇宙，宇宙的無限，更是現在的人類無法想像的神秘與深奧。 現在眼前的不管是不欣賞的人，還是工作上的問題，於宇宙而言如桑海一粟，渺小，沒有重量，也不特別。 樹樹是個自我要求與期望都蠻高的女孩，人生路是一直往前走的，樹樹的志向更是在更高、更遠的層次，不在眼前。 莫位現在的小事給磨損了心志。 離開的時候，就是老天給的答案。 只是，老天從未說過，離開的人會是誰。 Translation: October 25, 2024 - Shushu: The Universe Shushu feels furious at her teammates, whom she describes as "pig teammates," wondering how they can be so indifferent and careless. Shushu can’t understand why, if they lack the will, they don’t choose to leave. Why stay in the company and on the team, making others suffer, impacting the morale of those who work hard, and stealing the achievements of those who put in genuine effort? Shushu mentioned that she argued with her "pig teammate" coworker before leaving work today, and that other colleagues even urged this coworker to leave as soon as possible. Alas, working together has become so unbearable that both sides must be agonizing during work hours. Shushu asks, “Why does everything at work need to be monitored? Why are they slacking off like this? Why don’t they just leave the company?” Sometimes, even those involved might not have a clear answer. I know Shushu may not be satisfied with my response, but I think that this situation isn't about who's right or wrong, nor is it something we can simply reason through or determine what the “right way” is. "The Chinese character for 'person' is simple, made of just two strokes, yet it also reveals that when people differ, the distance in thinking between them can be vast, and that’s when communication and coordination are necessary." Shushu can't understand why I gave her such an abstract reply. With only a few minutes to talk, what more can I say? Sometimes, the wrong person in the wrong place grows increasingly resentful due to incompatibility with others; other times, the right person in the wrong place is deceived, bullied, or oppressed. Even the most ambitious and resilient people can have their sharp edges dulled. Life’s issues rarely divide cleanly; even children understand that the world is not just black and white. So, letting go is not necessarily a sign of weakness, and persistence might sometimes be a form of stubbornness. When is it better to let go? When should one persist? Even deities wouldn’t dare make a call on this, so how could I possibly know? Please, let’s skip these naive questions. Seeking guidance from the universe for Shushu, I drew the tarot card: The Universe. The universe wishes to tell the young and ambitious Shushu that this world is vast—so vast that even in a lifetime, we won’t see it all. Beyond Earth lies the universe, whose boundlessness is mysterious and profound beyond human imagination. The people she finds unappreciative or the issues she faces at work are, in the universe’s eyes, like a grain of sand in the sea—small, weightless, and insignificant. Shushu is a girl with high standards and aspirations. Her life path is always moving forward, with ambitions that reach higher and further, far beyond what’s right in front of her. She should not let these minor issues wear down her will. When it's time to part ways, that is the answer from above. However, heaven never tells us who will be the one to leave. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust 小陸從上一個工作裸辭至今也快要近三年。他說倒也不是著急想要回到職場，純粹是因非常確定，也接受了一個事實，那就是，他個人本身，完全沒有自律的好態度，更沒有自我約束的好習慣。 從剛開始，於半夜滑手機平板，一丁點也不想睡覺，到後來，需要睡覺，想要睡覺，身體卻完全不理會大腦的意識與意志，整個狀況就是身體有自己的節奏與步調，完全無視大腦的命令和意志的渴求。 他形容到那次面試的時間是過去二十年來第一次如此快速且短暫的，徵才公司董事長問了三個問題，卻都在還沒完成回答前打斷了他的陳述與說明，甚至不給予時間與機會提出詢問導致他無法獲得更多訊息。 當下他是不悅的，現在的他認為應該聽從這個情緒的直覺。 因當時他被理智腦給說服了，以為董事長如此簡潔有力的抓重點，於管理風格上是強勢且有力道，是直接表達指示、命令，不需下屬或員工的臆測。 事實的真相總是得進入實際環境裡才知道。 面試時說會成為工作夥伴的年輕孩子早就於上個月前離職了，被告知現職的助理可以協助很多事情，實際狀況是空有熱誠，懷有熱情，可惜沒有該職務的工作基礎，沒有相關經驗，也不具備基礎理論，卻是把基本常識當作知識的叫囂著，把每天忙得像陀螺，對於他在旁的指導與建議，充耳不聞，還反過來指責他沒能快速進入狀況。 在職場最害怕不懂專業的人要帶領真正懂得的人，更危險的是下屬以年資來吆喝新進主管。 此處不宜久留，提出去意。 於面試時被告知的職務工作目標與實際狀況不符合，且感覺上是有刻意、惡意掩蓋實際狀況，即使是職場裡的老鳥，在萬惡的資本家面前，也只有被欺凌的份。 宇宙呼應其需要祝福的指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【信任Trust】。 宇宙說，遭遇到這樣的事情，更是突顯信任的重要。光，是信任的象徵，讓你感受到有光的存在的人，不要害怕，試著再次給予信任，試著看到他人的善良，試著建立與擁抱新關係，宇宙與老天不會給你無法處理的事務，相信自己的能力，相信自己的際遇，相信善良的自己會遇到美好的機緣。 2024 1024 Xiao Lu: Trust Xiao Lu has been out of work for nearly three years since quitting his last job without securing another. He says it’s not that he’s in a hurry to return to the workforce; rather, he has come to terms with a reality—that he himself lacks a good attitude toward self-discipline and does not have the habit of self-restraint. Initially, he would stay up late at night, scrolling on his phone or tablet, without any desire to sleep. Later, when he needed and wanted to sleep, his body completely ignored his mind’s consciousness and will. His body seemed to have its own rhythm and pace, completely disregarding the brain’s commands and desires. He described a recent interview as the fastest and shortest one he’s had in the past twenty years. The chairman of the recruiting company asked him three questions but interrupted him before he could finish each answer. He wasn’t given the time or opportunity to ask questions, leaving him with no further information. At the time, he was displeased, and now he feels he should have trusted his emotional instinct. Back then, however, his rational mind convinced him that the chairman’s concise focus on key points was a sign of a strong, efficient management style—one where instructions are given directly, leaving no need for employees to guess. But the truth only reveals itself once you are in the actual environment. The young colleague, who was supposed to be his future work partner according to the interview, had already left a month earlier. He was told that the current assistant could help with many tasks, but in reality, while passionate and enthusiastic, the assistant had no foundation for the job. Lacking experience and theoretical knowledge, the assistant mistook basic common sense for expertise, staying busy like a spinning top. Worse still, the assistant ignored Xiao Lu’s guidance and suggestions, even blaming him for not adapting quickly enough. What Xiao Lu fears most in the workplace is when someone without expertise leads those who truly understand the work. Even more dangerous is when subordinates use their seniority to shout down a newly appointed supervisor. This was not a place to stay long, so he decided to leave. The job's responsibilities, as described in the interview, did not match the reality, and it felt as though the truth had been deliberately hidden. Even seasoned professionals can find themselves bullied by ruthless capitalists. Seeking guidance, Xiao Lu turned to the universe and drew the Tarot card: Trust. The universe said that encountering such experiences only highlights the importance of trust. Light is a symbol of trust. Don’t be afraid of those who make you feel the presence of light. Try to trust again, try to see the goodness in others, and try to build and embrace new relationships. The universe and the heavens will not give you more than you can handle. Trust in your abilities, trust in your circumstances, and trust that your kind-hearted self will encounter beautiful opportunities. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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2024年10月｜免費手機桌布下載

⎋ 關鍵字：#手機桌布 #2024年 #手機 #AI #生活 #自然 #語錄 #風景 #浪漫 #生成 #桌布 #療癒 #靜 #自己 #希望 #色彩 #免費 #下載 #文字 #日常 #smile #相信 #十月 #nature #canva #free #photo #life #design #aiart #generateAI #wallpaper #share #nightcafe 嗨大家！2024 年已經來到最後一季了，也來到了分享 10 月免費手機桌布的時刻了！這個月我特別透過 NightCafe生成，為大家製作六款童話世界效果的桌布，希望能讓你的手機畫面更加的夢幻和具備想像力。當然，如果你想親手製作屬於自己的手機桌布，可以點按 Canva 操作教學瞭解教學，發揮你的創意吧！ ( ➜ 桌布下載連結 ) 01 螢光浪漫 Prompt:Visualize a tranquil beach scene under a starlit sky, with fine white sand gently meeting the turquoise waters. The stars above twinkle brightly, with a large, glowing moon casting a soft light over the beach and waves. The water’s surface is smooth and glassy, reflecting the stars like a mirror. The entire atmosphere should feel magical and serene, as if time has stopped in this dreamlike place. 02 紫光戀影 Prompt:Generate an ethereal twilight landscape of a calm, reflective lake surrounded by misty hills and towering pine trees. The sky is painted with a gradient of deep purples and soft pinks, blending into the last hints of daylight. The water's surface mirrors the colors of the sky, and gentle ripples create a surreal, dreamy effect. The overall tone is tranquil and otherworldly, evoking a sense of quiet magic. 03 花草芬香 Prompt:Design a sprawling meadow bathed in the soft light of dawn, with a distant horizon shrouded in morning mist. Tall, swaying grass and delicate wildflowers of varying pastel shades fill the landscape. The sky is a gentle gradient of pale blue and light pink, with soft sunlight casting long shadows across the meadow. The scene should feel serene and untouched, like a hidden gem in a fairy tale world. 04 獨一無二 Prompt:Visualize a tranquil beach scene under a starlit sky, with fine white sand gently meeting the turquoise waters. The stars above twinkle brightly, with a large, glowing moon casting a soft light over the beach and waves. The water’s surface is smooth and glassy, reflecting the stars like a mirror. The entire atmosphere should feel magical and serene, as if time has stopped in this dreamlike place. 05 山巒日出 Prompt:Visualize a vast, peaceful valley with gently rolling hills and a calm river meandering through it. The hills are covered in lush green grass, and the river reflects the vibrant hues of the setting sun, ranging from soft pinks to deep purples. The sky is filled with a beautiful gradient of sunset colors, and the scene is bathed in a soft, golden light, giving the entire landscape a serene, magical quality. 06 雲上城堡 Prompt: Generate a dramatic cliffside overlooking a vast, sparkling ocean. The cliffs are covered in vibrant green grass and dotted with delicate flowers, while the ocean below sparkles under the golden glow of the setting sun. The sky is filled with colorful clouds, ranging from pink to deep orange, adding a sense of wonder and enchantment. The scene should feel like a perfect blend of serenity and adventure. 今天的分享就到這邊啦，期待下一篇的分享，祝福大家都有個美好的一天！喜歡窩DEMAA(OS: 就是取自”我的媽啊“的諧音)的朋友，歡迎按讚追蹤分享。如果你想要打造屬於自己風格的手機背景，不妨試試本次所使用的 NightCafe。這個 AI 圖像生成工具不僅可以幫助你生成童話及未來世界場景的背景，滿足你夢幻及浪漫的想像。另外，窩DEMAA 不定期有不同的文章內容分享，快 點此來 窩DEMAA 網站瀏覽囉！ Contact Us ｜ FB｜ IG｜ Tiktok｜ Matter｜ 方格子｜ Line

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【開箱】女人迷｜2025 play with time 手帳

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2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1026 Alyson：先知Seer

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

[ENG below] 👇 #酪梨鮮蝦百香果醬 #15分鐘上菜不收藏起來嗎?！入秋這樣吃清爽又快速 #高顏值菜色

2024年10月｜免費手機桌布下載

with共 225 則文章

【開箱】女人迷｜2025 play with time 手帳

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1026 Alyson：先知Seer

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

[ENG below] 👇 #酪梨鮮蝦百香果醬 #15分鐘上菜 不收藏起來嗎?！入秋這樣吃清爽又快速 #高顏值菜色

2024年10月｜免費手機桌布下載

[ENG below] 👇 #酪梨鮮蝦百香果醬 #15分鐘上菜不收藏起來嗎?！入秋這樣吃清爽又快速 #高顏值菜色